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A Millennial's Guide to Healthy Emotional Regulation with Jayna Swan - The Hidden Costs of Our Love Languages

The Hidden Costs of Our Love Languages

03/18/25 • 19 min

A Millennial's Guide to Healthy Emotional Regulation with Jayna Swan

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Have you ever felt deeply frustrated when a friend fails to show up for a plan? Let’s dig into the emotional depths of our love languages and how they define our interpersonal relationships. This episode looks closer at Gary Chapman’s concept of love languages – quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, and receiving gifts. I share personal experiences that shed light on how our emotional responses can often be directly tied to our love languages.
The narrative explores how unmet expectations linked to our love languages can manifest in feelings of irritation and deep hurt, especially when others don’t reciprocate the effort we contribute to relationships. By examining the opposites of these love languages, we uncover the potential triggers and emotional pain points that can emerge in our human connections. We delve into the importance of communication, encouraging listeners to express their love languages effectively to foster deeper connections.
Join the dialogue on understanding these connections and the importance of acknowledging different love languages in our relationships. Understanding our and others’ love preferences opens doors to richer, more nourishing connections. Don’t miss this opportunity for reflection and growth, and engage with us by sharing your love language story! Subscribe, share, and leave a review to continue the conversation!

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Follow Me, Jayna Swan:
Website:
https://JaynaSwan.com/speaker
https://HealthyEmotionalRegulation.com
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayna-swan/
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/jayna.swan/
https://www.instagram.com/healthyemotionalregulation/
If you want to dive deeper into my content, access unlisted episodes, and ask me questions. Go download the Healthy Emotional Regulation app on the App Store today to access more content:
https://herapp.online
Themes: Emotional Mastery, Mindset, Storytelling, Confidence, Health & Productivity, Creativity, Communication Skills, Business, Movement, Meditation, Mindfulness, Manifestation, Resilience, Letting Go, Surrender, Feminine Energy, Masculine Energy, Love, Personal Growth.

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Have you ever felt deeply frustrated when a friend fails to show up for a plan? Let’s dig into the emotional depths of our love languages and how they define our interpersonal relationships. This episode looks closer at Gary Chapman’s concept of love languages – quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, and receiving gifts. I share personal experiences that shed light on how our emotional responses can often be directly tied to our love languages.
The narrative explores how unmet expectations linked to our love languages can manifest in feelings of irritation and deep hurt, especially when others don’t reciprocate the effort we contribute to relationships. By examining the opposites of these love languages, we uncover the potential triggers and emotional pain points that can emerge in our human connections. We delve into the importance of communication, encouraging listeners to express their love languages effectively to foster deeper connections.
Join the dialogue on understanding these connections and the importance of acknowledging different love languages in our relationships. Understanding our and others’ love preferences opens doors to richer, more nourishing connections. Don’t miss this opportunity for reflection and growth, and engage with us by sharing your love language story! Subscribe, share, and leave a review to continue the conversation!

Support the show

Follow Me, Jayna Swan:
Website:
https://JaynaSwan.com/speaker
https://HealthyEmotionalRegulation.com
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayna-swan/
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/jayna.swan/
https://www.instagram.com/healthyemotionalregulation/
If you want to dive deeper into my content, access unlisted episodes, and ask me questions. Go download the Healthy Emotional Regulation app on the App Store today to access more content:
https://herapp.online
Themes: Emotional Mastery, Mindset, Storytelling, Confidence, Health & Productivity, Creativity, Communication Skills, Business, Movement, Meditation, Mindfulness, Manifestation, Resilience, Letting Go, Surrender, Feminine Energy, Masculine Energy, Love, Personal Growth.

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LinkedIn:
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Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/jayna.swan/
https://www.instagram.com/healthyemotionalregulation/
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https://herapp.online
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A Millennial's Guide to Healthy Emotional Regulation with Jayna Swan - The Hidden Costs of Our Love Languages

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What's your love language ?

Speaker 1

You know the five love languages by Gary Chapman . It was a book that was put out years ago for relationships and it talks about five different love languages . We have quality time , physical touch ,

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gifts of giving , words of affirmation and acts of service .

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