
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
Kirsty Lewis
A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your businesses as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 31: The power of persistence during times of change
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
12/20/24 • 52 min
This episode is about Annette's journey from being a corporate trainer to establishing her own business in facilitation and training during the pandemic. We talk about the challenges and opportunities presented by the pandemic, the importance of networking, and the personal growth that comes from stepping out of one's comfort zone.
Annette is a trainer facilitator, lover of Insights Discovery, wearing bright colours and working from her Green Shed.
Annette shares her insights on persistence, the value of providing more than expected, and the lessons learned from her experiences in the training industry. We discuss the challenges of self-promotion, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of inner work on personal and professional growth. Annette reflects on her experiences with interim roles, the transition from associate work to direct clients, and the significance of investing in both personal development and business branding. The conversation emphasises the value of persistence and being true to oneself in the journey of building a successful career.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene
02:59 The Journey to Becoming a Trainer
05:59 Navigating the Transition to Self-Employment
08:55 Overcoming Age-Related Doubts
11:46 The Impact of 2020 on Business
14:49 Learning and Growth During Lockdown
17:52 Building Persistence and Networking
20:59 The Importance of Providing Value
23:49 Final Thoughts and Reflections
26:17 The Impact of Sales Background on Training
28:04 Challenges of Self-Promotion
30:20 Disassociating Self from Service
32:31 The Importance of Inner Work
34:58 Rebranding and Authenticity
36:57 Navigating Interim Roles
40:47 Transitioning from Associate to Direct Clients
45:00 Investing in Personal and Business Growth
I invite you to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat, and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your business as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
Key Links:
Visit Annette's website HERE
Connect with Annette on Linkedin HERE
Visit the School of Facilitation website HERE
Connect with me on Instagram HERE
Connect with me on Linkedin HERE
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SOFest: Behind the scenes
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
04/11/25 • 17 min
Join me, Kirsty, as I share insights into the planning and financial aspects of SoFest.
I share the exact costs of running the festival, how much money we have raised to date (4th April 2025) and how much of a financial hole there is.
I also share my excitement for the festival, the success of the impact tickets, who some of the sponsors are and the importance of community support.
I talk about value of attending SoFest for networking and personal growth, while also inviting listeners to join the inaugural festival.
If you are listening to this before 30th April 2025 there is still time to buy a ticket!!
SOFest headlines
- 80 people are coming to SoFest, which is exciting.
- The 'spreadsheet of greatness' helps track costs and revenue.
- 73,000 pounds have been raised so far for the festival.
- 7 Impact tickets have been funded.
- The total cost of the festival is around 90,000 pounds, excluding my teams costs
- Networking opportunities at SoFest can lead to valuable connections.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to SoFest
02:48 Funding and Financial Insights
06:08 Cost Breakdown and Financial Challenges
09:00 Community Support and Sponsorships
11:46 The Value of Attending SoFest
14:52 Final Thoughts and Invitation to SoFest
I invite you to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat, and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your business as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
Key Links:
Book your tickets for SOFest HERE
Visit the School of Facilitation website HERE
Connect with me on Instagram HERE
Connect with me on Linkedin HERE
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Episode 37: Common Challenges Faced by Entrepreneurs and the importance of community
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
04/04/25 • 55 min
As business owners there are many common challenges we encounter, such as time management, financial planning, and the importance of having a clear vision and strategy. Working these out on our own can be lonely and quite frankly boring, with little fun.
Enter Ed Reid the MD of The Alternative Board, UK. This is a community aimed at alleviating the loneliness faced by SME owners and is in over 20 countries worldwide! Ed has wide-ranging knowledge from working with small businesses and supporting the owners, to helping them develop, grow, and stay sane.
Kirsty and Ed discuss the significance of accountability in business, the benefits of peer support, and the importance of planning for transitions. We also cover the significance of professionalizing a business and the various structures one can choose when starting a business.
These are some of the topics we discussed
Common Challenges Faced by Business Owners
Professionalizing Your Business
Setting Up a Business: Key Considerations
The Power of an External Board
The Importance of Accountability in Business
Combating Loneliness and Business Growth
I invite you to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat, and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your business as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 17: The evolving journey of a freelancer
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
05/03/24 • 51 min
In today's episode, Kirsty and Claire Vintiner discuss various aspects of freelancing, including valuing oneself and one's work, reframing budgets, setting boundaries, and having great client conversations.
Claire Vintiner is a coach, a facilitator, and someone who isn't afraid to bring leaders and organisations together to play a transformative role in addressing people, planetary and systems challenges. Claire has experienced being an associate as well as working with her own clients.
As the conversation unfolds, Kirsty and Claire emphasize the importance of evolving and continuously working on one's relationship with money. They also highlight the significance of trust, both in oneself and in the process, and the power of saying no when necessary. They discuss the process of client conversations and how to effectively engage with clients through open questions, deep listening, summaries, and probing questions to understand the clients' needs and objectives.
Here are some of this episodes themes
- How We Value Ourselves and Our Work
- Understanding the Worth of Your Work
- Building Comfort with the Reframing of Budgets
- Setting Boundaries and Saying Yes or No
- Having Great Client Conversations
- The Client Conversation Process
- Asking Questions
- Summarizing and Paraphrasing
- Probing on Answers
- Building Rapport and Small Talk
- Asking the Next Logical Step
- Budget Discussions
- Proposal vs Concept Note
- Winning Work on Quality
About the School of Facilitation Podcast, A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your businesses as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 16: If you build it, they will come: Creating a business on a solid pipeline (and PR)
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
04/18/24 • 50 min
In this conversation, Ged shares with me his journey of leaving the world of retail and starting his own business. We discuss the challenges he faced in his early years and how he managed to overcome them. Ged emphasizes the importance of accountability and external motivation in driving his success. He also talks about his strategies to expand his reach and find new opportunities. Ged's story highlights the resilience and determination required to build a successful business
Ged is a Negotiation skills trainer and GSCOP specialist. He can be found commentating on the world of Retail on the BBC, writing in the Grocer or the UK papers.
We discuss a myriad of topics
Leaving the World of Retail
Year One: Starting the Business
Year Two: Getting By
Year Three: Financial Struggles
The power of external Motivation and Accountability
How Finding New Contacts and Opportunities is Essential
Building Relationships and Staying Relevant
The Power of PR and Using Media to Build Credibility
Utilizing Introductions and LinkedIn for Networking
The Power of LinkedIn for Business Growth
Resilience and Adaptability in Business
Grab a cup of tea and take a seat on the pink chair, enjoy!
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your businesses as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 20: Prosperity Over Profit: Redefining our definition of Success
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
06/13/24 • 55 min
Join Kirsty and Kurt Lindley as they dive into the life of running a business as a facilitator, trainer, coach, and consultant. They chat about everything from juggling workloads and managing diaries to the ups and downs of cash flow. It’s a candid discussion about the importance of finding balance in both your professional and personal lives, packed with practical tips for building strong client relationships and maintaining well-being.
Kurt is from South Africa, grew up in Yorkshire and puts his family first, always. Kurt's a bit of a procrastinator and a dreamer, always lost in thought or scribbling down poems.
In this episode, he brings his passion for learning and exploring, sharing how these traits play into his professional strategies and personal philosophies.
Kirsty and Kurt touch on several important topics:
- how effective workload and diary management can keep you on top of your game.
- strategies for keeping the financial side of your business healthy.
- why taking quiet periods for reflection is crucial for growth.
- finding the sweet spot with pricing to keep both you and your clients happy.
- maintaining your mental health and setting boundaries for a happier, more fulfilling career.
My invitation to you is to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your businesses as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 18: The power of niching and how to do it
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
05/17/24 • 44 min
To Niche or Not to Niche - That is the question!
Many are told early on in their foray into freelancing that niching is a good idea. whilst logical it can still leave us scratching our heads about how to start, where to start, how to do it and maybe even asking if it is worth it.
In this episode, Cat Hase and I talk about finding our niches and how to discover and refine your niche. We share the value of networking, seeking external validation, and conversing with others to gain clarity. Cat reminds us to stay open to opportunities outside of the niche and the importance of aligning the niche with personal values and interests.
Cat is a creativity coach and helps facilitators and trainers to bring more play into their workshops. Cat loves designing and creating activities. her favourite question is "Do you have any ideas for....."
In this episode we cover the following
- The Topic of Niching
- Knowing What You Want to Do
- Defining What You Enjoy and Don't Enjoy
- The Decision to Niche
- Finding Your Niche
- The Importance of Retreats and Conversations
- The Moment of Clarity
- The Value of Conversations in Refining Your Niche
- Advice for Finding Your Niche
- Noticing Signs That Your Niche Isn't Working
- Myth: Niching Means Saying No to Other Opportunities
- Showcasing Your Strengths Through Niching
- The Importance of Clear Communication and Marketing
- Building a Network of Niche Experts
- The Role of Timing in Niching and Offer Development
- Investing in Yourself and Your Business
My invitation to you is to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your businesses as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 21: Navigating Growth from start-up to scale-back
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
06/20/24 • 42 min
In this episode of the SOF Podcast, host Kirsty welcomes Mark Walsh, an embodiment teacher, and business entrepreneur, to discuss his fascinating journey from running a small business to a multimillion-pound business and back to a medium-sized business.. Mark shares his insights on the nature of connection and the lessons he learned from scaling his business. This conversation is packed with valuable advice for anyone navigating their own entrepreneurial path, balancing work and well-being, and looking to incorporate embodiment into their professional practice.
Key Discussion Points:
- The Nature of Connection - Exploring how meaningful connections extend beyond words to include physical presence
- Mark's Business Evolution - The journey from solopreneur to running a multi-million pound company
- Challenges and Lessons in Scaling a Business - expanding too quickly and knowing when to scale back.
- Insights on managing stress, maintaining a healthy work-life balance, and creating a sustainable business model.
- Outsourcing and Delegation - The importance of building a team that supports your business goals.
- Diverse Metrics of Success - Evaluating success through various metrics beyond financial performance, such as email engagement rates and team happiness.
- Continuous Learning and Development - The value of ongoing education and upskilling for both personal growth and enhancing team capabilities.
Join us for an insightful conversation with Mark Walsh that delves into the practicalities of embodiment, the realities of running a business, and the importance of staying true to your values and passions.
I invite you to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your businesses as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
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Episode 09: Best we know the stuff we fail to notice! With Simon Kettleborough
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
01/12/24 • 42 min
This episode explores how the inner world of the business leader creates the shape and flow of the business they lead. Our values, beliefs, experiences, thoughts and emotions all lend themselves to the structure, behaviours and outputs of our business.
Dr. Simon Kettleborough is the founding partner of Aephoria, an organisation that helps humans flourish.
We speak about the four different brains we can access to help us make meaning in this age of complexity, the difference between therapy and coaching, why taking a look at our inner world is beneficial.
Grab a cup of tea,
Sit back and enjoy the episode.
About Simon
Simon is one of the founders of Aephoria, a team of talented and committed leadership and organisational development practitioners.
Over the past 26 years, Simon's career spanned consulting, leadership roles in private, public, and non-profit sectors, encompassing Leadership Development, Coaching, Existential Psychotherapy, Diversity and Inclusion, Strategy, and Sustainable Development. He transitioned to self-employment in 2002, establishing businesses in the UK, South Africa, and Brazil. Early in his career, he gained insight into organisational dynamics from within, working in Sales & Marketing, Business Development, and Consulting at Arthur D. Little, Diageo, and British Steel.
Simon has called Cape Town home since 2009 and has previously resided and worked extensively in the UK, France, Belgium, Brazil, and South Africa.
In his free time, Simon enjoys cycling through the Western Cape's forests and mountains or playing keyboards in his 80s rock band.
Simon's social links
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-simon-kettleborough-05b080a/
Website: https://aephoriapartners.com/about/aephoria-core-team/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@aephoriapartners7848/featured
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Episode 34: Money is Sexy: The Pricing Conversation
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories
02/21/25 • 52 min
This episode is all about money and pricing. Listen if you want to stretch your thinking!
Laura Payne-Stanley is a Success Management Consultant and a Coach. She works with private individuals as well as corporates and small businesses to enable them to create and live the life they want.
In this conversation, Kirsty and Laura delve into the intricacies of business success management, focusing on the importance of pricing strategies, the value of personal branding, and the inner work required for entrepreneurs to confidently present their worth. They discuss how to define success, the significance of naming a business, and the realities of financial management, emphasising that pricing should reflect the outcomes delivered rather than just time spent.
Laura shares insights on constructing a desired lifestyle through pricing and the necessity of believing in one's value to communicate it to clients effectively.
Kirsty's Key Takeaways
- Pricing is the difference between a successful business and a hobby.
- Construct your life parameters before setting prices.
- Understanding your value is crucial for pricing confidence.
- Raising rates is a choice that should be made with confidence.
- B2E is a new model that combines elements of B2B and B2C.
- Understanding client needs is crucial for effective pricing strategies.
I invite you to grab a cuppa, join me on the pink seat, and tune in your ears.
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A Facilitator's Journey is the podcast that looks at how you run your business as a facilitator or trainer.
You started this work because you have a passion that you want to share with organisations. However, there is the small detail that you are now running a business and this requires a whole other set of skills and knowledge.
Join me, Kirsty Lewis, Founder of School of Facilitation, as I interview trainers and facilitators about how they manage their businesses. I will explore how people run their finances, price their work, scale up, scale down, decide to retire, market themselves, manage clients, and much much more.
Key Links:
Visit Laura's website HERE
Connect with Laura on Instagram HERE
Connect with Laura on Linkedin HERE
Visit the School of Facilitation website HERE
Connect with me on Instagram HERE
Connect with me on Linkedin HERE
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How many episodes does A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories have?
A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories currently has 43 episodes available.
What topics does A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories cover?
The podcast is about Learning And Development, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Business Development, Education, Business and Careers.
What is the most popular episode on A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories?
The episode title 'Episode 21: Navigating Growth from start-up to scale-back' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories?
The average episode length on A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories is 45 minutes.
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Episodes of A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories are typically released every 13 days, 21 hours.
When was the first episode of A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories?
The first episode of A Facilitator's Journey: Real Life Stories was released on Nov 30, 2023.
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