61. Pornography (aka: I know it when I see it)
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03/15/24 • 69 min
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In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn.
Pornography is sexual content designed to arouse, and let's face it, pornography is everywhere. If you've written off pornography as not your thing, check out this episode for a fresh, feminist take on porn.
But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why not try this Canna-cocktail, the the Lemon Blackberry Mule.
Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams gets the best birthday present from Mr. Ams, a year of monthly MFM threesomes! Listen in for what happened in February.
Next, Ams and Kat explore past experience with pornography: what they have liked and what's a little bit "ick".
To learn more about Pornography, the Wives interview producer and director, Inka Winter, owner of ForPlay Films.
Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including exploring new genres of porn and using porn for play dates and foreplay.
MORE ABOUT ETHICAL AND FEMINIST PORNOGRAPHY
The concept of "ethical pornography" is subjective and can vary depending on individual perspectives and values. Generally, it refers to the production and consumption of adult content that aligns with ethical principles and values, such as consent, fair labor practices, and respect for performers. Ethical pornography may prioritize factors like transparency, communication, and empowerment of the individuals involved in its creation.
Key elements often associated with ethical pornography include:
- Consent: Ensuring that all participants willingly and enthusiastically agree to be part of the production.
- Fair Labor Practices: Treating performers and other personnel involved in the production with respect, fair wages, and safe working conditions.
- Diversity and Inclusivity: Representing a diverse range of body types, genders, ethnicities, and sexual orientations to promote inclusivity and avoid reinforcing harmful stereotypes.
- Authenticity: Presenting realistic and consensual scenarios rather than perpetuating harmful or exploitative narratives.
- Transparency: Providing clear information about the production process, including the treatment of performers and the ethical standards followed.
Feminist pornography is a genre of adult content created with the aim of promoting gender equality, empowerment, and consent. It challenges traditional pornography that often objectifies and degrades women by portraying them as passive objects of male desire. Instead, feminist pornography seeks to depict sexuality in a more realistic and respectful manner, often emphasizing communication, mutual pleasure, and diversity.
Key features of feminist pornography may include:
- Consent: Scenes depict enthusiastic and explicit consent between all participants, ensuring that no one is coerced or objectified.
- Diversity: It embraces diverse body types, sexual orientations, gender identities, and ethnicities, representing a wider range of human experiences and desires.
- Authenticity: Scenes may focus on real intimacy and connection rather than exaggerated performances. This can involve more realistic portrayals of pleasure and arousal.
- Empowerment: Women are often depicted as active agents in their sexual encounters, exploring their desires and expressing their own pleasure.
- Ethical Production: There is a commitment to fair labor practices, including fair wages and safe working conditions for performers, as well as respectful treatment both on and off-camera.
Feminist pornography aims to challenge societal norms and stereotypes surrounding sexuality and promote a more inclusive and respectful approach to adult content. It seeks to provide alternatives for individuals who may find traditional pornography problematic or alienating.
It's important to note that the definition of ethical and feminist pornography may vary among individuals, and what is considered ethical or feminist by one person may not be the same for another.
If you are interested in supporting ethical or feminist adult content, you may want to research and choose producers or platforms that align with your values and priorities.
ABOUT INKA WINTER
Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films. Her films
titillate the senses through sexual chemistry, consent, autonomy, and the female gaze.
Because Inka believ...
In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn.
Pornography is sexual content designed to arouse, and let's face it, pornography is everywhere. If you've written off pornography as not your thing, check out this episode for a fresh, feminist take on porn.
But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why not try this Canna-cocktail, the the Lemon Blackberry Mule.
Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams gets the best birthday present from Mr. Ams, a year of monthly MFM threesomes! Listen in for what happened in February.
Next, Ams and Kat explore past experience with pornography: what they have liked and what's a little bit "ick".
To learn more about Pornography, the Wives interview producer and director, Inka Winter, owner of ForPlay Films.
Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including exploring new genres of porn and using porn for play dates and foreplay.
MORE ABOUT ETHICAL AND FEMINIST PORNOGRAPHY
The concept of "ethical pornography" is subjective and can vary depending on individual perspectives and values. Generally, it refers to the production and consumption of adult content that aligns with ethical principles and values, such as consent, fair labor practices, and respect for performers. Ethical pornography may prioritize factors like transparency, communication, and empowerment of the individuals involved in its creation.
Key elements often associated with ethical pornography include:
- Consent: Ensuring that all participants willingly and enthusiastically agree to be part of the production.
- Fair Labor Practices: Treating performers and other personnel involved in the production with respect, fair wages, and safe working conditions.
- Diversity and Inclusivity: Representing a diverse range of body types, genders, ethnicities, and sexual orientations to promote inclusivity and avoid reinforcing harmful stereotypes.
- Authenticity: Presenting realistic and consensual scenarios rather than perpetuating harmful or exploitative narratives.
- Transparency: Providing clear information about the production process, including the treatment of performers and the ethical standards followed.
Feminist pornography is a genre of adult content created with the aim of promoting gender equality, empowerment, and consent. It challenges traditional pornography that often objectifies and degrades women by portraying them as passive objects of male desire. Instead, feminist pornography seeks to depict sexuality in a more realistic and respectful manner, often emphasizing communication, mutual pleasure, and diversity.
Key features of feminist pornography may include:
- Consent: Scenes depict enthusiastic and explicit consent between all participants, ensuring that no one is coerced or objectified.
- Diversity: It embraces diverse body types, sexual orientations, gender identities, and ethnicities, representing a wider range of human experiences and desires.
- Authenticity: Scenes may focus on real intimacy and connection rather than exaggerated performances. This can involve more realistic portrayals of pleasure and arousal.
- Empowerment: Women are often depicted as active agents in their sexual encounters, exploring their desires and expressing their own pleasure.
- Ethical Production: There is a commitment to fair labor practices, including fair wages and safe working conditions for performers, as well as respectful treatment both on and off-camera.
Feminist pornography aims to challenge societal norms and stereotypes surrounding sexuality and promote a more inclusive and respectful approach to adult content. It seeks to provide alternatives for individuals who may find traditional pornography problematic or alienating.
It's important to note that the definition of ethical and feminist pornography may vary among individuals, and what is considered ethical or feminist by one person may not be the same for another.
If you are interested in supporting ethical or feminist adult content, you may want to research and choose producers or platforms that align with your values and priorities.
ABOUT INKA WINTER
Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films. Her films
titillate the senses through sexual chemistry, consent, autonomy, and the female gaze.
Because Inka believ...
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Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework, inspired by Barbara Carrellas' book, Urban Tantra. Kat shares her tantra ritual with Mr. Kat, while Ams explored solo tantra, including a no-hands, Breath and Energy Orgasm. Finally, the Wives give their tips on exploring tantric practices.
MORE ABOUT TANTRA
The original practice of Tantra encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals, and its principles can vary among different schools and traditions. However, some core principles are commonly associated with Tantra:
- Unity of the Divine: Tantra often emphasizes the oneness or unity of the ultimate reality, which may be referred to as Brahman, Shiva, Shakti, or other names depending on the specific tradition. The idea is that everything in the universe is an expression of this ultimate reality.
- Energy and Consciousness (Shiva and Shakti): Tantra often conceptualizes the divine as a dynamic interplay between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti) energies. These energies represent the dual aspects of the supreme consciousness, and the practice of Tantra often involves awakening and harmonizing these energies.
- Sacred Sexuality: Some Tantric traditions incorporate rituals and practices that involve sacred sexuality. The goal is not mere physical pleasure but rather the spiritual union of Shiva and Shakti energies within the practitioners, aiming for heightened awareness and divine connection.
- Ritual and Symbolism: Tantra frequently employs rituals, symbols, and ceremonies to connect with the divine. These can include mantra chanting, yantra (geometric diagrams), mudras (hand gestures), and various ceremonies designed to invoke spiritual energies.
- Embracing the Mundane: Unlike some ascetic traditions, Tantra embraces the material world and the experiences of daily life. It encourages practitioners to see the divine in everything, including ordinary activities, and to use the challenges of the material world as opportunities for spiritual growth.
- Teacher-Student Relationship: Traditional Tantric practices often involve a guru-disciple relationship. The guru is seen as a guide and spiritual mentor who leads the disciple on the path toward self-realization.
- Non-Dualism (Advaita): Many Tantric traditions advocate a non-dualistic perspective, emphasizing that the ultimate reality is beyond distinctions such as good or bad, pure or impure. Practitioners seek to overcome dualities and realize the underlying unity of all things.
Many Westerners have been applying Tantric principals to sex for over 100 years. Some of these principals include adding ritual and mindfulness to sexual experiences, focusing on breath and energy, fostering a deep connection between partners and focusing on pleasure and ecstasy as opposed to orgasm.
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62. Pornography Part 2
How did the Wives do with their sexy pornography homework? Tune in to find out.
But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Cherry Blossom Smash: a yummy combination or cherries and blood orange juice with just a dash of cannabis tincture. Sip on this delicious cocktail listening to this episode's Hot Tale: the Wives host a Barbarella-themed house party and they get up to no good, with flogging, blindfolded kissing, eight-handed massages, and more!
Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework: who's ready for a week-long, porn-o-thon? The Wives were so inspired by the hot, female empowered pornography, they start making plans to create their own..
Finally, the Wives give their tips on finding porn that feels female empowered and ethical.
MORE ABOUT ETHICAL AND FEMINIST PORNOGRAPHY
The concept of "ethical pornography" is subjective and can vary depending on individual perspectives and values. Generally, it refers to the production and consumption of adult content that aligns with ethical principles and values, such as consent, fair labor practices, and respect for performers. Ethical pornography may prioritize factors like transparency, communication, and empowerment of the individuals involved in its creation.
Key elements often associated with ethical pornography include:
- Consent: Ensuring that all participants willingly and enthusiastically agree to be part of the production.
- Fair Labor Practices: Treating performers and other personnel involved in the production with respect, fair wages, and safe working conditions.
- Diversity and Inclusivity: Representing a diverse range of body types, genders, ethnicities, and sexual orientations to promote inclusivity and avoid reinforcing harmful stereotypes.
- Authenticity: Presenting realistic and consensual scenarios rather than perpetuating harmful or exploitative narratives.
- Transparency: Providing clear information about the production process, including the treatment of performers and the ethical standards followed.
Feminist pornography is a genre of adult content created with the aim of promoting gender equality, empowerment, and consent. It challenges traditional pornography that often objectifies and degrades women by portraying them as passive objects of male desire. Instead, feminist pornography seeks to depict sexuality in a more realistic and respectful manner, often emphasizing communication, mutual pleasure, and diversity.
Key features of feminist pornography may include:
- Consent: Scenes depict enthusiastic and explicit consent between all participants, ensuring that no one is coerced or objectified.
- Diversity: It embraces diverse body types, sexual orientations, gender identities, and ethnicities, representing a wider range of human experiences and desires.
- Authenticity: Scenes may focus on real intimacy and connection rather than exaggerated performances. This can involve more realistic portrayals of pleasure and arousal.
- Empowerment: Women are often depicted as active agents in their sexual encounters, exploring their desires and expressing their own pleasure.
- Ethical Production: There is a commitment to fair labor practices, including fair wages and safe working conditions for performers, as well as respectful treatment both on and off-camera.
Feminist pornography aims to challenge societal norms and stereotypes surrounding sexuality and promote a more inclusive and respectful approach to adult content. It seeks to provide alternatives for individuals who may find traditional pornography problematic or alienating.
It's important to note that the definition of ethical and feminist pornography may vary among individuals, and what is considered ethical or feminist by one person may not be the same for another.
If you are interested in supporting ethical or feminist adult content, you may want to research and choose producers or platforms that align with your values and priorities.
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