2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex

Are you dreaming of a sexy vacation in 2021? Take a tip from the 2HotWives and plan your own Sex Vacation! The Wives turned a cancelled trip to Desire All-Inclusive Resorts into the perfect opportunity to create their own sexy vacation: a relaxing, steamy, six-day sex romp in St. Thomas!

Before you start the episode, don’t forget to mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail: the Pineapple Hottie. Then listen in while Kat shares a hot tale from Sex Day where she and Mr. Ams get busy in the pool room. Then Ams shares a tale from the last day of their Sex Vacation where she has sweet, cuddly morning sex with Mr. Ams followed by hot shower sex with Mr. Kat, all before her morning cup of coffee.

Next, the Wives discuss how a vacation can take your sex life to a whole new level. When their foursome trip to Desire had to be cancelled due to COVID, the Wives made a spectacular pivot to create their own hot vacation, complete with a luxury villa, private massages and a chartered boat. The result was six solid days of mind-blowing sex.

The holidays are over and we are all dreaming of hot, sexy tropical vacations. If 2020 put a monkey wrench in your vacation plans, now is the perfect time to plan your very own Sex Vacation.

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Tantric Sex.

Tantra is a complex and multifaceted spiritual and philosophical tradition that originated in ancient India. Tantric sex is the practice of using Tantric principles, such as mindfulness, breathwork and energy connection, to sexual experiences.

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Hot Buttered Cider.

Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams, Mr. Ams and their friends have a grown-up sleepover, complete with Seven Minutes in Heaven: mini-threesomes while one person watches and keeps time.

Next, Ams and Kat explore Tantric principles and past experiences with mindful sex.

To learn more about Tantric Sex, the Wives interview author and educator Barbara Carrellas.

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including solo tantra work, breath and energy orgasms and all-day sex sessions.

MORE ABOUT TANTRA

The original practice of Tantra encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals, and its principles can vary among different schools and traditions. However, some core principles are commonly associated with Tantra:

• Unity of the Divine: Tantra often emphasizes the oneness or unity of the ultimate reality, which may be referred to as Brahman, Shiva, Shakti, or other names depending on the specific tradition. The idea is that everything in the universe is an expression of this ultimate reality.
• Energy and Consciousness (Shiva and Shakti): Tantra often conceptualizes the divine as a dynamic interplay between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti) energies. These energies represent the dual aspects of the supreme consciousness, and the practice of Tantra often involves awakening and harmonizing these energies.
• Sacred Sexuality: Some Tantric traditions incorporate rituals and practices that involve sacred sexuality. The goal is not mere physical pleasure but rather the spiritual union of Shiva and Shakti energies within the practitioners, aiming for heightened awareness and divine connection.
• Ritual and Symbolism: Tantra frequently employs rituals, symbols, and ceremonies to connect with the divine. These can include mantra chanting, yantra (geometric diagrams), mudras (hand gestures), and various ceremonies designed to invoke spiritual energies.
• Embracing the Mundane: Unlike some ascetic traditions, Tantra embraces the material world and the experiences of daily life. It encourages practitioners to see the divine in everything, including ordinary activities, and to use the challenges of the material world as opportunities for spiritual growth.
• Teacher-Student Relationship: Traditional Tantric practices often involve a guru-disciple relationship. The guru is seen as a guide and spiritual mentor who leads the disciple on the path toward self-realization.
• Non-Dualism (Advaita): Many Tantric traditions advocate a non-dualistic perspective, emphasizing that the ultimate reality is beyond distinctions such as good or bad, pure or impure. Practitioners seek to overcome dualities and realize the underlying unity of all things.

Many Westerners have been applying Tantric principals to sex for over 100 years. Some of these principals include adding ritual and mindfulness to sexual experiences, focusing on breath and energy, fostering a deep connection between partners and focusing on pleasure and ecstacy as opposed to orgasm.

ABOUT BARBARA

She is also a sex/life coach, sex educator, workshop facilitator, university lecturer, motivational speaker and theater artist. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure.

https://barbaracarrellas.com/barbara-carrellas/

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The 2HotWives take sexy dress up to a whole new level with some good old-fashioned role play! If you want to mix things up with your partner and explore some of your craziest sexual fantasies in a low-risk, low-stakes way, there is nothing better than setting up a role play.

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Pumpkin Pie Smash...it’s so good, the wives got a wee bit tipsy during their recording, so be warned! Then, Kat takes advantage of an empty house to indulge in a little self-loving (how do you spell Sybian anyway?) and Ams uses “Just the Tips” from Episode 5 for a sexy, seamless playdate with an experienced couple (Hint: thigh-high tights are the MUST-HAVE accessory for any fall play date).

Next, the wives report back on the results of their racy homework assignment: role play! Ams gets caught red handed with contraband at the airport and Kat is a naughty, naughty nurse. Is there such a thing as too much preparation? Do you need the perfect costume to have the perfect experience? Tune in to find out!

Finally, we hear from our sexy listeners! Our new friend Maria shares her experience with a hot gentleman stranger...blindfolds and torturing little touches and kisses? Don’t mind if we do!

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy vacation experience. Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Sybian

Swinging Down Under

Looking for sexy role play ideas? Check out these additional resources:

https://bestlifeonline.com/role-play-ideas/

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12013129/role-play-ideas/

https://www.yourtango.com/2014207426/sex-love-valentines-day-30-role-playing-ideas-couples

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Are you curious about swinger House Parties? House parties are smallish private gatherings where sexy play time is welcomed, but not mandatory. A House Party may seem like the perfect, “Goldilocks” option between a couple’s date and a huge swinger-event, but navigating these smaller group, casual settings can be tricky. In this episode, the Wives discuss their sexy experiences at House Parties and give their Just the Tips so you can show up and show off with confidence.

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Naughty Hot Chocolate...the weather outside might be frightful, but with a cup of this holiday cheer, you and your partner will stay nice and warm between the sheets. Then, Kat dishes about her first experience at a sex club, while Ams keeps things sizzling at home with Mr. Ams in the notorious playroom.

Next, Kat checks out the coolest pool party with a sexy cabana playroom. Ams’ chimes in with a less than positive experience, where the hosts of a house party aren’t great commuting party rules. So, the Wives decide to host their own house party...and the result is the Accidental Orgy. Listen and learn about ways to avoid feeling pressured into play experiences that you aren’t down for.

And finally, we have our first listener spotlight! Our new friend Sam shares the key to success with any house party experience.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies. Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Vant Panels

Hitachi Wand

Swingfessions

Sapphic Swingers

Sex Bench

Looking for advice on hosting a house party? Check out: https://swingershelp.com/hosting-swinger-parties/

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It’s the episode you’ve all been waiting for.

Threesomes are the most common sex fantasy of all time. 85% of men and 75% of women fantasize about threesomes but only about 18% of us have had them. In this episode the Wives discuss MFM threesomes. Why? Because our goal is to help women maximize their pleasure in the bedroom and MFM is all about two sexy guys intent on making their female play partner feel amazing.

To get in the mood, mix up tonight’s cocktail, the Pom Paloma (or...try the spicy habanero infused tequila version...if you dare), while Ams discusses a little afternoon delight with Mr. Kat. Kat, on the other hand, goes reverse “Pretty Woman”, taking Mr. Ams on a shopping trip to improve his date wardrobe.

Next the Wives discuss a topic near and dear to their...hearts, the MFM Threesome. Hear about the Round Robin Threesome, where the Wives and their hubbies take turns sitting out a play experience so that everyone gets their chance at a threesome.

While it’s hard to beat the Round Robin Threesome, Kat and Ams take it up a notch with their sexy homework: finding a single guy for MFM play.

Then the Wives give Just the Tip(s) on exploring the threesome fantasy, including communication with your partner, tips for single guys about their profiles, and some alternatives if you or your partner aren’t quite ready to jump on this bandwagon.

And finally, we talk to Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast about her MFM threesome experiences and advice.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you! Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions. We may feature you on the show!

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

That Couple Next Door

Learn more about Threesomes:

https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-have-a-threesome

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/11/threesomes-men-women-sex-psychology

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a50969/what-its-really-like-to-have-a-threesome/

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/what-a-threesome-is-like-20-things-to-know-before-you-try-one-8439131

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