Creating and Keeping Chemistry with Alicia Davon
12/14/21 • 40 min
Creating and Keeping Chemistry with Alicia Davon
Creating chemistry takes skill. Along with her husband, Erwan, today’s guest, Alicia Davon, has helped over 12,000 singles and couples have exceptional relationships. She is a relationship and romance expert who has a deep and caring interest in women’s sexual and relationship satisfaction after a profoundly transformative experience in her early college days. During today’s conversation, we talk about how she came to be in the business of counseling couples and how she met her husband, Erwan, through his Pleasure Course. She explains to us what it really means to lose chemistry, what intimacy means, and why it is different for most people. Alicia also introduces us to some of the tools that she and Erwan use to guide their clients, including the 12 structured touching techniques and four practices she trains people in: meditation, psychological inquiry, body practice, and sensual practice. We hope you join us to hear all this and much more today!
Key Points From This Episode:
- What it was like for Alicia to grow up with great parents in Los Angeles.
- The crisis point she experienced at UC Santa Barbara, where she became depressed.
- How her spiritual exploration lead to a realization that there was more to being a woman.
- The story of how she met her husband, Erwan, through his Pleasure Course.
- Alicia confirms that what we are missing as women is the connection to our body.
- The multifaceted reasons that chemistry wears off, including the lack of novelty.
- What losing that chemistry really means and how you can learn skills to regain it.
- How becoming a parent impacts your connection to your own sexuality and pleasure.
- One of the keys, which is to make time and space for the relationship.
- The set of 12 touching practices that Erwan and Alicia have developed for couples.
- How couples often have the same goal but different ways of getting there.
- What intimacy is and why it is different for most people.
- Why sex is only as good as the woman is enjoying it because, biologically, we carry the heat.
- Why men and women have to go at the woman’s pace in order to have a positive experience.
- Why it is important to do self-exploration in order to know what you like.
- Alicia explains why prioritization is the key to sustaining a good sex life once you have kids.
- Why prioritizing pleasure doesn’t have to just be sexual.
- The four practices Erwan and Alicia train people in: meditation, psychological inquiry, body practice, and sensual practice.
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Alicia Davon on LinkedIn
Alicia Davon on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings on Instagram
Erwan Davon Teachings on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings
Erwan and Alicia Phone: +415 3089 580
'This Couple Trains People to Have Hour-Long ‘Extended’ Orgasms'
'The 5 Keys to a Successful Relationship'
Creating and Keeping Chemistry with Alicia Davon
Creating chemistry takes skill. Along with her husband, Erwan, today’s guest, Alicia Davon, has helped over 12,000 singles and couples have exceptional relationships. She is a relationship and romance expert who has a deep and caring interest in women’s sexual and relationship satisfaction after a profoundly transformative experience in her early college days. During today’s conversation, we talk about how she came to be in the business of counseling couples and how she met her husband, Erwan, through his Pleasure Course. She explains to us what it really means to lose chemistry, what intimacy means, and why it is different for most people. Alicia also introduces us to some of the tools that she and Erwan use to guide their clients, including the 12 structured touching techniques and four practices she trains people in: meditation, psychological inquiry, body practice, and sensual practice. We hope you join us to hear all this and much more today!
Key Points From This Episode:
- What it was like for Alicia to grow up with great parents in Los Angeles.
- The crisis point she experienced at UC Santa Barbara, where she became depressed.
- How her spiritual exploration lead to a realization that there was more to being a woman.
- The story of how she met her husband, Erwan, through his Pleasure Course.
- Alicia confirms that what we are missing as women is the connection to our body.
- The multifaceted reasons that chemistry wears off, including the lack of novelty.
- What losing that chemistry really means and how you can learn skills to regain it.
- How becoming a parent impacts your connection to your own sexuality and pleasure.
- One of the keys, which is to make time and space for the relationship.
- The set of 12 touching practices that Erwan and Alicia have developed for couples.
- How couples often have the same goal but different ways of getting there.
- What intimacy is and why it is different for most people.
- Why sex is only as good as the woman is enjoying it because, biologically, we carry the heat.
- Why men and women have to go at the woman’s pace in order to have a positive experience.
- Why it is important to do self-exploration in order to know what you like.
- Alicia explains why prioritization is the key to sustaining a good sex life once you have kids.
- Why prioritizing pleasure doesn’t have to just be sexual.
- The four practices Erwan and Alicia train people in: meditation, psychological inquiry, body practice, and sensual practice.
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Alicia Davon on LinkedIn
Alicia Davon on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings on Instagram
Erwan Davon Teachings on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings
Erwan and Alicia Phone: +415 3089 580
'This Couple Trains People to Have Hour-Long ‘Extended’ Orgasms'
'The 5 Keys to a Successful Relationship'
Previous Episode
Episode teaser; What is Intimacy with Alicia Davon
Intimacy Mini Convo with Alicia Davon
The term ‘intimacy’ is often used as a synonym for sex but, in reality, each person has a different definition for what it means to be intimate. In this short conversation, relationship expert Alicia Davon unpacks what that means. Tune in to hear more!
Key Points From This Episode:
- How intimacy is often used just to mean sexual interaction.
- What it can mean: connection and attention with no distractions.
Tweetables:
“Intimacy can mean sex or sexual interaction. Intimacy can mean connection, feeling emotionally connected to someone. Here I am, here you are, we’re not distracted. I’m paying attention to you, you’re paying attention to me.” — Alicia Davon [0:00:38]
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Alicia Davon on LinkedIn
Alicia Davon on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings on Instagram
Erwan Davon Teachings on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings
Erwan and Alicia Phone: +415 3089 580
'This Couple Trains People to Have Hour-Long ‘Extended’ Orgasms'
'The 5 Keys to a Successful Relationship'
Next Episode
Teaser Episode: What is the Flow State with Tara Stiles
Flow State with Tara Stiles
During this mini conversation, we ask Tara Stiles what her definition of being in the flow state is. She is a global yoga, movement, and wellness expert, author, and Founder of Strala Yoga with many powerful insights to share about what flow state feels like, how it benefits us, and why we should try to get into it as often as we can. We hope you join us!
Key Points From This Episode:
- We ask Tara Stiles how she would define the flow state.
- The universal experience that we all have, whether with yoga, gardening, or something else.
- What it feels like for Tara to share that experience: like time moves differently.
- How, when you are in the flow state, you feel like you can do it forever.
- Why, for Tara, it feels like she is here and everywhere at the same time.
- Deepak Chopra’s idea of being ‘non local’ and how it is the universal feeling we all have.
- How it is important for us to get into that flow state as much as we can.
Tweetables:
“The experience [of flow state] for me just feels like I’m here and I’m everywhere at the same time.” — Tara Stiles [0:00:44]
“It’s cool when people explain their experience because everyone explains it so [differently], which reminds us that it’s good for us to keep getting into that flow state as much as we can.” — Tara Stiles [0:01:11]
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Tara Stiles on Instagram
Tara Stiles on Facebook
Strala Yoga
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