Walking Alongside Grievers: A Discussion on Compassionate Support | Ashley Mori

01/31/24 • 26 min

Grief is a universal experience, yet many struggle with how to support others who are grieving the loss of a loved one. Ashley Mori, the director of Grief and Loss Services at EveryStep, shares valuable insights on navigating these sensitive conversations and provides practical advice on how to be a compassionate presence for those in grief.

The episode covers various topics, including the importance of genuine care and concern, the significance of being present in discomfort, and the power of honest conversations about loss. Ashley addresses common challenges in supporting grievers and emphasizes the need for continued support beyond the initial loss.

Listeners will gain valuable tips on what to say and do, as well as what to avoid, when supporting someone through grief. The conversation extends to discussing ways to talk to children about death, acknowledging the unique needs of different age groups.

EveryStep's free and comprehensive Grief and Loss Services are also highlighted, offering a range of support groups, resources, and programs for individuals of all ages. Whether you're personally navigating grief or seeking guidance on how to support others, this episode provides practical insights and encouragement.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of grief, learn effective ways to offer support, and discover the resources available for those on the journey of healing.

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Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of grief, learn effective ways to offer support, and discover the resources available for those on the journey of healing.

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With You at EveryStep - Walking Alongside Grievers: A Discussion on Compassionate Support | Ashley Mori

Transcript

Trying to cheer people up is another one that people try and do. Like, Let's just go out fun, let's laugh, let's try and get you out of the house. It's okay to not feel good and to not be okay. And so, part of supporting a griever is to be there in their discomfort and to allow them to just lay around if they need to, to be angry, if they need to, to be apathetic.
Whatever it is, it's about kind of walking alongside of them versus trying to get them in a different place. Welcome to the With