
Ep.7 Dr. Charmain Borda: The importance of self-care for doctors
09/12/20 • 40 min
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Ep. 6 Melissa Guida-Richards: Unpacking Abby Johnson's comments
I reached out to Melissa who is actively on the front lines of educating people in the adoption community. We discuss the harmful language Abby Johnson uses to describe her own adopted son in the infamous youtube video. There are misconceptions about the black community that she perpetuates with alarming conviction. Melissa is a formidable essayist, mother, blogger, author (THE WHITE SAVIOR MENTALITY will be out in Fall 2021) and podcast host.
GUEST: Melissa Guida-Richards
guida-richards.com
https://adopteethoughts.com/
https://www.mother.ly/u/melissaguida-richards
https://spoonie-mama.com/index.php/about-melissa-guida-richards/
@adoptee-thoughts
@guidarichards
Resources:
Anti-racism recourses
https://www.laniseantoineshelley.com/resources
Article Abby Johnson’s Comments About Her Adopted Brown Son are Problematic. Here’s Why:
https://www.brookings.edu/blog/how-we-rise/2020/08/26/abby-johnsons-comments-about-her-adopted-black-son-are-problematic-heres-why/
Therapists:
https://www.laniseantoineshelley.com/blog
betterhealth.com
Exercises I love:
African dance
https://youtu.be/cAXepObYN6E
Stretch/Barre workout
Coach Kel
https://youtu.be/FlokyngRBYc
Black beauty influencer:
Jackie Aina
https://youtu.be/9-oW7F9T9IE
Weight management:
https://youtu.be/YuR51ktq1k8
Quit Sugar
https://youtu.be/hx4Kr1HJ79E
Plant care:
Planterina
https://youtu.be/9vDpgaoynhY
CONNECT WITH HOST:
@youngadoptee
@lantoines
www.laniseantoineshelley.com
WATCH ON YOUTUBE Here!
MERCH here "I am my Hero" and "Courage, my love" Tees
SPONSORSHIPS:
BetterHelp Show Link HERE!
DISCOUNT on WeUNIK Cosmetic Hair products
15% off Code: WTWY
ADOPTEE CONVERSATIONS WITH PARENTS:
14 through18, and episode 28, and 29.
WATCH PANELS: Here!
JAMES BALDWIN'S ESSAY ON "WHITENESS":
HISTORY of the word “Colored”:
NYC ARTICLE ON THE USE OF "BIPOC":
RESOURCES ON ...
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Ep.8 William Uhrlaub: From Prodigal Son to Master of His Culture
I sit down with William Uhrlaub, a Haitian adoptee who has taught himself Creole after reunifying with his biological family. He was a panelist on the Interracial Adoptee Panel Series: Biological Family where he shared his reunification story and how he managed to assimilate into Haitian culture. William encapsulates the power of finding your "people" and merging your life with a culture you thought you had lost. He found it, ya'll! Let this inspire you to do the same.
GUEST: William Uhrlaub
LINKS:
Coach Kel (Pure Barre)
https://youtu.be/QYncATlC3Mg
WEBSITES:
http://www.findingpaola.com/
www.laniseantoineshelley.com
Therapists:
https://www.laniseantoineshelley.com/blog
betterhealth.com
Exercises I love:
African dance
https://youtu.be/cAXepObYN6E
Stretch/Barre workout
Coach Kel
https://youtu.be/FlokyngRBYc
Black beauty influencer:
Jackie Aina
https://youtu.be/9-oW7F9T9IE
Weight management:
https://youtu.be/YuR51ktq1k8
Quit Sugar
https://youtu.be/hx4Kr1HJ79E
Plant care:
Planterina
https://youtu.be/9vDpgaoynhY
CONNECT WITH HOST:
@youngadoptee
@lantoines
www.laniseantoineshelley.com
WATCH ON YOUTUBE Here!
MERCH here "I am my Hero" and "Courage, my love" Tees
SPONSORSHIPS:
BetterHelp Show Link HERE!
DISCOUNT on WeUNIK Cosmetic Hair products
15% off Code: WTWY
ADOPTEE CONVERSATIONS WITH PARENTS:
14 through18, and episode 28, and 29.
WATCH PANELS: Here!
JAMES BALDWIN'S ESSAY ON "WHITENESS":
HISTORY of the word “Colored”:
NYC ARTICLE ON THE USE OF "BIPOC":
RESOURCES ON ...
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