003 - Fantasy

06/06/24 • 22 min

Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

In this episode, we answer these questions:

Is fantasy ever okay?
Should my husband share his fantasies with me?
I can’t be intimate with my husband unless I fantasize. How can I practice being more present?

Show Notes

Resources

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Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Join A Pure Desire Online Group

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

In this episode, we answer these questions:

Is fantasy ever okay?
Should my husband share his fantasies with me?
I can’t be intimate with my husband unless I fantasize. How can I practice being more present?

Show Notes

GET STARTED

Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Join A Pure Desire Online Group

SOCIALS

Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

In this episode, we answer these questions:

I quit drinking and now I don’t enjoy sex. How can I learn to like sex again?
I am afraid to re-engage with my husband sexually after quitting porn. How do I learn to become aroused by my husband instead?
My husband and I are doing well with our recovery and healing but I’m still afraid to engage sexually, because I can’t get the images of his porn use and affairs out of my head. Will this ever go away and what can I do to help this process?

GET STARTED

Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Join A Pure Desire Online Group

SOCIALS

Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:

What is betrayal trauma?
My husband says I'm overreacting but the pain and foggy-headedness I'm feeling seem uncontrollable. Is it possible to heal from betrayal trauma?
Women I’ve been with in group use phrases like "before Pure Desire and after Pure Desire.” What are they referring to?