Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love
Ashley Jameson, Heather Kolb, Pure Desire Ministries
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010 - Good Sex, Bad Sex
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07/25/24 • 16 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:
- Can my husband rape me?
- Can I say no to my husband?
- I feel disconnected when we don't have sex, but when I have sex with my husband I feel used. What can I do to change this pattern?
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009 - Orgasm…That’s Right, We Said It
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07/18/24 • 20 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:
- My question is how do you know if you are actually having an orgasm?
- I don’t know that I have ever enjoyed sex. I can orgasm but I don’t know how to wake my body up. Sex was shamed in my Christian home then I was supposed to enjoy it after marriage but for so long, sex was used as a tool when my husband was in his addiction. We are doing so much better, relationally, after PD but I don’t know how to start liking sex.
- How are the brain and orgasm connected?
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008 - Sex and Shame
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07/11/24 • 19 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:
- My husband went to a “massage parlor” for a hand job about every two weeks until I discovered what he was doing 13 months later. How do I get over the shame?
- My question is, after a 33-year marriage, where I trusted my husband, I found out he was having a long-term affair with a married woman. I suspected porn and seeing some of the pictures on his phone, he was into some very devious stuff. I’m now divorced, and I’m wondering if I can trust another man again to love who I am and not feel like I have to be a woman of the world to grab a man’s attention again. I’m doubting that I’m someone desirable in bed anymore.
- After having sex with my husband, I feel so much shame and often cry. Why is this? We’ve been through the healing process, but I can’t seem to shake these feelings after sex.
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007 - Lying, Gaslighting, and the Truth
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07/04/24 • 17 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer the following questions:
- Since discovery, it's been hard for me to know when my husband is telling me the truth. Should I trust my gut intuition even though he’s telling me I’m being paranoid?
- What is gaslighting? Can you give examples of what this looks like?
- What are the best ways to respond if I think someone is gaslighting me?
Show Notes:
The Betrayal Bind, by Michelle Mays
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006 - When Anger Shows Up Unannounced
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06/27/24 • 16 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:
- Why am I so angry?
- My husband betrayed me; why am I taking it out on my kids?
- Growing up, it was implied that being angry was sinful. I know I'm hurt but how do I know if I'm dealing with anger?
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005 - Is Sexual Addiction Legit?
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06/20/24 • 17 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:
- Is calling a sexual sin “addiction” just excusing the behavior?
- Is sex addiction real?
- People who struggle with sex addiction, why can’t they just stop the behavior?
Show Notes
Unraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and Relationships
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004 - D-Day: Discovering Sexual Betrayal
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06/13/24 • 15 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:
- What is betrayal trauma?
- My husband says I'm overreacting but the pain and foggy-headedness I'm feeling seem uncontrollable. Is it possible to heal from betrayal trauma?
- Women I’ve been with in group use phrases like "before Pure Desire and after Pure Desire.” What are they referring to?
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003 - Fantasy
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06/06/24 • 22 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.
In this episode, we answer these questions:
- Is fantasy ever okay?
- Should my husband share his fantasies with me?
- I can’t be intimate with my husband unless I fantasize. How can I practice being more present?
Show Notes
The Fantasy Fallacy, by Shannon Ethridge
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002 - Sex, Sex, and More About Sex
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06/06/24 • 22 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.
In this episode, we answer these questions:
- I quit drinking and now I don’t enjoy sex. How can I learn to like sex again?
- I am afraid to re-engage with my husband sexually after quitting porn. How do I learn to become aroused by my husband instead?
- My husband and I are doing well with our recovery and healing but I’m still afraid to engage sexually, because I can’t get the images of his porn use and affairs out of my head. Will this ever go away and what can I do to help this process?
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022 - Parenting While In Recovery Part 1
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10/17/24 • 19 min
Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer the following questions:
- As a parent in recovery, how do I start the conversation about sexual health with my kids?
- Is there anything about a teen brain that is different from an adult when it comes to struggling sexually or emotionally?
- How can I help my kids who struggle?
Resources
Unraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and Relationships
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FAQ
How many episodes does Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love have?
Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love currently has 28 episodes available.
What topics does Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love cover?
The podcast is about Porn, Addiction, Christianity, Healing, Sex, Women, Love, Self-Help, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, Podcasts, Marriage, Self-Improvement, Education, Religion, Trauma, Relationships, Recovery and Christian.
What is the most popular episode on Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love?
The episode title '010 - Good Sex, Bad Sex' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love?
The average episode length on Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love is 18 minutes.
How often are episodes of Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love released?
Episodes of Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love?
The first episode of Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love was released on May 30, 2024.
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