Uncomfortable Friend
April McCormick
Grief is an Uncomfortable Friend. The pain can be unbearable and yet, it's often one of the few things remain after the loss of someone so special. Join me on the journey of "now what" after everything falls apart. My mission is to authentically share my story in an effort to help others feel seen, develop vocabulary around their grief, discuss finding oneself after loss, ways to feel comfort, how to establish meaning, find hope, embrace continued connection, and more. Nothing is off-limits... everyone’s path is unique. I’m honored to have you join me and look forward to your questions, comments, personal stories, and observations. Until we meet again...
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Importance of Choice
Uncomfortable Friend
06/14/23 • 41 min
Choice is fundamental to our human existence. This week I talk about how choice has affected my personal autonomy, my self-expression, how it's empowered me, helped me to learn and grow, and how it's also a responsibility that I have to myself and those around me. Choice saved my life... understanding that loss and grief wasn't happening to me, and that I had a choice in what I do with it has made all the difference.
References made during the episode:
- My Big Toe - Thomas Campbell
- Chat GPT
If you want to share reflections on how choice has impacted your life, you have an idea for a new episode, you want to be a guest on an episode, or want to send a note to Lincoln, please email [email protected].
Until we meet again <3
Give Yourself Some Grace
Uncomfortable Friend
08/28/24 • 2 min
Life has been getting away from me a bit these last few months. Between starting a new role at work, getting my daughter ready for kindergarten, after school activities, and my parents coming to visit, I just haven't had the time. I'm sure you can related, so here's your reminder this week to give yourself some grace... especially if you think you don't deserve it... especially if you need a break... especially for no reason at all other than to practice being a human being (instead of a human doing).
I look forward to the next time...
Until we meet again <3
I'm Not Ready Yet...
Uncomfortable Friend
10/09/24 • 20 min
About a week ago I had an anaphylactic reaction to a wasp sting... something that hasn't happened to me in almost 30 years. I worked hard to focus on the next right steps until I could get the help I needed, AND it became this beautiful reminder that I'm Not Ready to go anywhere. After Lincoln died, it was easy to feel like I wanted to succumb to the cold and dark. I promise you, all you need to do is focus on the next right thing... hold on a little bit longer, and if you're open to it, you will be given a gift. This is my challenge to you... to transform that/those experiences that feel dark and heavy into something so meaningful that it will make you WANT to be here. You are needed... and you are enough. <3
If you'd like to send me, or Lincoln, a note, please feel free to write us at [email protected]. You can also use the new Fan Mail option to send me a note. I'd love to hear recommendations for another episode, if you'd like to be a guest, or if there is anyway I can help. Please leave your name and/or email if you'd like a reply as it comes through anonymously.
Until we meet again <3
Do The Work - Trust The Process
Uncomfortable Friend
01/31/24 • 30 min
When will this feel better? What does the work of grieving look like? If you've ever asked yourself these questions, I invite you to join me today as delve into the profound and often challenging journey of grief. Today I discuss the importance of doing the emotional work, and emphasize some paths I've taken on my own healing journey. Patience, self-compassion, and grace will be your loving guides along the way, and I can guarantee the process will lead you to a place where hope and joy can be found, while still having a deep and meaningful relationship to whomever or whatever you've been grieving.
Until we meet again <3
Navigating Grief, Hope, and Infertility: A Mother's Journey with Courtney
Uncomfortable Friend
01/17/24 • 74 min
I'm so incredibly honored to introduce you to my friend, Courtney, and her beautiful light of a son, Lucas. This week we sit down with this resilient mama of four as she shares the heart-wrenching experience of navigating grief while also holding space for her surviving son. The conversation delves into the complexities of grief, exploring the unique challenges that arise when trying to support a child through the loss of a sibling.
Amidst the shadows of loss and infertility, Courtney reveals the glimmer of hope that has sustained her. The episode explores how she found strength in the midst of despair, ultimately uncovering a renewed sense of purpose and optimism for the future. Listeners will be moved by Courtney's resilience and inspired by her ability to find hope even in the darkest moments.
Resources:
- Helping Parents Heal
- Isabella Johnson - The Soul Reading Medium
Until we meet again <3
The Lies We Tell Ourselves
Uncomfortable Friend
01/03/24 • 26 min
"It's my fault!", "I should have known this would happen", "I need to stay strong for..." do any of these statements sound familiar? I've recently read a book that opened my eyes to some deeply packed down trauma and the lies I've been telling myself over the years. I share some of these narratives today to hope it helps you to recognize what a lie could look like to yourself, give yourself a difference lens to look at it, and through your vulnerability acknowledge the struggle and what you've needed to embrace self-compassion.
Resources:
- The Body Keeps The Score - Bessel A. van der Kolk
Until we meet again <3
Season 2 - Trailer
Uncomfortable Friend
12/13/23 • 3 min
Hello again to the amazing listeners of Uncomfortable Friend. I've been so moved from some of your stories and emails over the course of recording that I've decided to come back with a Season 2! This time, we'll be talking about a wider variety of subjects including generational trauma, grace, masculine/feminine energies, and thoughts around active waiting. Most of all, I'm looking forward to introducing you all to some remarkable people share how they've transformed their journey of loss, trauma, grief, and sadness into something more meaningful to bring comfort and support to others.
Season 2 will begin January 3rd!
Hope you all have a restful and peaceful holiday season.
With love,
April McCormick (Host of Uncomfortable Friend)
Until we meet again <3
Until We Meet Again
Uncomfortable Friend
09/27/23 • 16 min
I've been so very blessed with the support I've received from hosting this podcast and sharing my story. Thank you for coming on this journey with me as I work to figure out life after the loss of my beautiful son, Lincoln. I've been recently motivated to combine my focus and use my energy for something that can be even bigger... what that looks like, I'm not sure yet... but when I start to get nervous AND excited, I'll know I've found it. Until then, thank you for letting me into your ears and for the beautiful messages you have sent me through Lincoln's email.
Resources:
- SeattleCoach
- Playing Big - Tara Mohr
If you'd like to be a guest and share your story of loss, grief, hope, and love, please reach out and I'd be honored to interview you. If you'd like to leave me a message, please email: [email protected].
Until we meet again <3
Judgement vs. Discernment
Uncomfortable Friend
09/13/23 • 24 min
Have you ever let your emotions take over your thoughts? Use them to justify why you should or shouldn't do something or if you like or dislike someone? We all do it... and judgement can definitely be important... but how may we shift this thinking into something more meaningful? Something that allows you to better align your desires with the situation or people you're with? Bonus points if you can do that AND let go of what the outcome could be.
Resources:
If you have thoughts on how you judge vs discern, would like to be a guest on a future episode, or would like to send me a note, please email: [email protected].
Until we meet again <3
Love Cannot Wait for Perfection
Uncomfortable Friend
07/12/23 • 36 min
Love despite imperfections demonstrates acceptance, understanding, and empathy to name a few. While this does not mean ignoring or condoning harmful behavior, it does acknowledge weaknesses and the continued necessity to work together to grow and support one another. Today I talk about the 8 categories of people (children, partner, friends, family, colleagues, acquaintances, strangers, and criminals) I'm working toward loving, and where I've had successes and failures.
Where do you struggle with your own or other's imperfections? If you have ideas for a future episode, would like to share your grief to hope story, or would like to send me a message, please email: [email protected] or find me on www.mccormick.coach.
Until we meet again <3
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How many episodes does Uncomfortable Friend have?
Uncomfortable Friend currently has 75 episodes available.
What topics does Uncomfortable Friend cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Compassion, Grief, Personal Journals, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Loss and Coaching.
What is the most popular episode on Uncomfortable Friend?
The episode title 'Navigating Grief, Hope, and Infertility: A Mother's Journey with Courtney' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Uncomfortable Friend?
The average episode length on Uncomfortable Friend is 39 minutes.
How often are episodes of Uncomfortable Friend released?
Episodes of Uncomfortable Friend are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Uncomfortable Friend?
The first episode of Uncomfortable Friend was released on Oct 28, 2022.
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