
Relationships and Your Nervous System; Closing the Season and Looking Ahead
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04/01/24 • 54 min
Elisabeth Kristof and Jennifer Wallace close season three of Trauma Rewired by reflecting on the interconnectedness of trauma, the nervous systems and our relationships explored throughout the season. They delve into the season’s most powerful conversations and insightful concepts, including relational patterns like emotional neglect, the neurology of narcissism, the importance of community healing, and more.
Listeners were engaged more than ever, so you’ll hear stories of how the season impacted listeners in their healing journeys. Elisabeth and Jennifer also answer common listener questions (and even criticisms), discussing the nuances of healing unique nervous systems.
Looking ahead to next season, Elisabeth and Jennifer tease a deeper look into structural trauma, systemic oppression, the mental health industry and science behind these concepts.
Plus, if you want more content on CPTSD and the impact of trauma on the nervous system, tune in to find out what you can expect from the upcoming midseason!
Topics discussed in this episode:
- The biggest takeaways from season three of Trauma Rewired
- Our deep dive into the science of trauma
- The profound impact on listeners
- Answers to listener questions
- How to safely bring neuro tools into your healing practice
- Preview of season four: mental health, structural trauma and more
Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:
https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/
Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com
Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:
Connect with us on social media:
@trauma.rewired
Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846
Elisabeth Kristof and Jennifer Wallace close season three of Trauma Rewired by reflecting on the interconnectedness of trauma, the nervous systems and our relationships explored throughout the season. They delve into the season’s most powerful conversations and insightful concepts, including relational patterns like emotional neglect, the neurology of narcissism, the importance of community healing, and more.
Listeners were engaged more than ever, so you’ll hear stories of how the season impacted listeners in their healing journeys. Elisabeth and Jennifer also answer common listener questions (and even criticisms), discussing the nuances of healing unique nervous systems.
Looking ahead to next season, Elisabeth and Jennifer tease a deeper look into structural trauma, systemic oppression, the mental health industry and science behind these concepts.
Plus, if you want more content on CPTSD and the impact of trauma on the nervous system, tune in to find out what you can expect from the upcoming midseason!
Topics discussed in this episode:
- The biggest takeaways from season three of Trauma Rewired
- Our deep dive into the science of trauma
- The profound impact on listeners
- Answers to listener questions
- How to safely bring neuro tools into your healing practice
- Preview of season four: mental health, structural trauma and more
Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:
https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/
Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com
Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:
Connect with us on social media:
@trauma.rewired
Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846
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Transforming Trauma in Youths Through Athletics and Neuro-Somatic Intelligence
It's no secret that wellness programs like neurosomatic intelligence coaching often lack accessibility in marginalized communities, where populations most in need of such services are usually underserved and underprivileged. Unfortunately, these programs are often not tailored to meet the specific needs of these communities. Hence, there's a pressing need to rethink our approach and become more innovative in how we deliver them.
Today, we're joined by Martin Simms, one of our NSI coaches, who has exemplified this innovative approach. Martin has pioneered a sports-based youth development program called D.O.P.E., which utilizes sports and movement to support youth and adolescents in underserved communities, helping them overcome trauma and fostering life skills they might otherwise lack access to.
In this episode, Martin shares his personal journey with neurosomatic intelligence coaching, detailing how it transformed his life. He discusses overcoming his own dissociative behaviors and the profound impact it had on his relationships, both with his wife and in raising his son. Additionally, Martin delves into the creative and effective methods employed in his program, illustrating how they've positively impacted lives within his community.
Tune in to discover how Martin is actively bridging the wellness gap between communities and much more!
Topics discussed in this episode:
- ● How dissociation showed up in Martin’s life
- ● Creative reflexive responses through neurowork
- ● Understanding the worldview of today’s youth
- ● How sports is the ultimate neurosomatic intelligence experience
- ● How cultural relatability with coaches is crucial to create safe healing spaces
- ● Leveraging emotional contagion in sports to teach neurosomatic intelligence
- ● The power in creating language around emotion
- ● How authenticity attracts aligned people and experiences
Connect with Martin Simms: https://thedopestcoach.com/
Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com
Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com
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What is C-PTSD?
We first explored this question in Season 2 and felt it was necessary to revisit; with more altitude, updated research and further along in our healing journeys.
In this episode, hosts Elisabeth Kristof and Jennifer Wallace dive deep into the realm of Complex Post Traumatic Stress, or CPTS, exploring the complexities of trauma and the impact on our nervous systems. We offer a comprehensive understanding of its five key components. The hosts share practical tools and emphasize the importance of healing and understanding our own nervous systems.
Join us as we re-examine the language surrounding complex trauma and discuss the potential for real change and healing. We unpack its somatic and neurological effects, share practical tools for healing, challenge traditional perspectives on trauma, and empower you to cultivate a resilient nervous system. This conversation sheds light on how trauma affects not only emotions, but also posture, movement abilities, and overall brain function. Together, let's embark on a journey of self-understanding, compassion, and intentional neurosomatic rehabilitation
Topics discussed in this episode
- Redefining Complex Trauma and the importance of language
- The 5 distinguishing components of Complex Trauma
- Somatic and neurological components of CPTS
- The importance of Self Compassion
- Tools for repatterning
- Intentional Rehabilitation and learning your nervous system
- Impact of shronic stress on brain development
- Integration, dissociation, and creating safety in the nervous system
Hit subscribe and follow us as we unpack each of the characteristics individually and
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@trauma.rewired
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