
Episode 22- Speaking Is Healing with Natsuyo Lipschutz
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12/09/21 • 45 min
HIGHLIGHTS
06:38 How Natsuyo landed in New York
07:31 Natsuyo's unusual family life in Japan
15:33 How Japanese communication is very different from the New York-American way
19:00 Getting started with Toastmasters
24:05 Diving headfirst into competitive speaking
25:45 Always focus on one big message
26:44 Speaking is entertainment: Catching people's attention
29:23 The process of improving your speech helps you grow as a person
30:56 Natsuyo's struggle with breast cancer
34:59 Telling a story can heal both the speaker and the audience
38:35 Intercultural communication: Connecting with audiences of different nationalities
41:52 Connect with Natsuyo
42:54 Natsuyo's favorite leader and speaker
QUOTES
17:58 Natsuyo: "The interesting thing about cross-cultural issues is you need to be flexible. You can't be far right or far left. You need to be able to gauge where the other person is in relative to where you are and how you wanna adjust to yourself so you are not only heard, but your message is acted upon.
26:42 Natsuyo: "I always thought that performing arts and business don't merge. But at that moment, I figured out speaking is an entertainment, and you have to be able to entertain the listeners so that they will really hear you and act on your message."
29:48 Natsuyo: "I really believe the speech writing process is about self-improvement or self-development because when you craft a story, you really have to go deeper into yourself, deep into your past, and really have a deep understanding of why you did what you did and what was your learning."
34:54 Natsuyo: "I shared my story and I felt like I really felt like through stories. I can connect with the audience, heart to heart, and speaking was healing for me. So telling a story healed me and also it healed the audience to whatever they're feeling, whatever pain they had."
36:37 Scott: "You shared something intimate about yourself. And I, as a listener, felt connected to you, not just as a talking head or someone passing on information, but as a human being. And that's where the feelings inside come out and it's a genuine connection. There's real power there.
39:16 Natsuyo: "The message itself is really universal. It doesn't matter what country you're from. Everyone has hearts and everyone has experienced some hardship. So when you, find a universal message, that resonates with everyone in the world. that being said, the way to deliver your story may be slightly different depending on who you're talking to, especially in different cultures."
Connect with Natsuyo in the links below:
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/natsuyolipschutz/
- Website - https://natsuyolipschutz.us/
- Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/natsuyol
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/natsuyo_lipschutz/
Find out more about Toastmasters, visit https://toastmasters46.org/ and follow District 46 on:
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/toast-masters-district-46
- Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TMDistrict46/
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- Twitter - https://twitter.com/district46tm
Please rate, review and subscribe!
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HIGHLIGHTS
06:38 How Natsuyo landed in New York
07:31 Natsuyo's unusual family life in Japan
15:33 How Japanese communication is very different from the New York-American way
19:00 Getting started with Toastmasters
24:05 Diving headfirst into competitive speaking
25:45 Always focus on one big message
26:44 Speaking is entertainment: Catching people's attention
29:23 The process of improving your speech helps you grow as a person
30:56 Natsuyo's struggle with breast cancer
34:59 Telling a story can heal both the speaker and the audience
38:35 Intercultural communication: Connecting with audiences of different nationalities
41:52 Connect with Natsuyo
42:54 Natsuyo's favorite leader and speaker
QUOTES
17:58 Natsuyo: "The interesting thing about cross-cultural issues is you need to be flexible. You can't be far right or far left. You need to be able to gauge where the other person is in relative to where you are and how you wanna adjust to yourself so you are not only heard, but your message is acted upon.
26:42 Natsuyo: "I always thought that performing arts and business don't merge. But at that moment, I figured out speaking is an entertainment, and you have to be able to entertain the listeners so that they will really hear you and act on your message."
29:48 Natsuyo: "I really believe the speech writing process is about self-improvement or self-development because when you craft a story, you really have to go deeper into yourself, deep into your past, and really have a deep understanding of why you did what you did and what was your learning."
34:54 Natsuyo: "I shared my story and I felt like I really felt like through stories. I can connect with the audience, heart to heart, and speaking was healing for me. So telling a story healed me and also it healed the audience to whatever they're feeling, whatever pain they had."
36:37 Scott: "You shared something intimate about yourself. And I, as a listener, felt connected to you, not just as a talking head or someone passing on information, but as a human being. And that's where the feelings inside come out and it's a genuine connection. There's real power there.
39:16 Natsuyo: "The message itself is really universal. It doesn't matter what country you're from. Everyone has hearts and everyone has experienced some hardship. So when you, find a universal message, that resonates with everyone in the world. that being said, the way to deliver your story may be slightly different depending on who you're talking to, especially in different cultures."
Connect with Natsuyo in the links below:
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/natsuyolipschutz/
- Website - https://natsuyolipschutz.us/
- Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/natsuyol
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/natsuyo_lipschutz/
Find out more about Toastmasters, visit https://toastmasters46.org/ and follow District 46 on:
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/toast-masters-district-46
- Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TMDistrict46/
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- Twitter - https://twitter.com/district46tm
Please rate, review and subscribe!
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Previous Episode

Episode 21 - Build Authentic Connections By Going From 'Mego' to 'Wego' with Seth Greenwald
HIGHLIGHTS
02:19 Seth's career: An engineer by trade, an artist and designer by heart
06:02 A natural introvert, Seth's desire to get out of his head led him to Toastmasters
11:08 Listening: At the core of being present and the other half of communication
14:15 Use both sides of your brain: Get comfortable saying "I don't know"
17:47 Building connection: Let go of ego and go from "mego" to "wego"
19:50 To be authentic, you have to know yourself
22:35 Who is Sherpa Seth and the secrets of a Creative Warrior
33:21 Seth's presentation to Toastmasters District 46
35:03 Mark Twain: It takes 3 weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech
36:53 Connect with Seth
QUOTES
08:25 "Toastmasters is to key to get out of your head. It's all about speaking in public, having confidence to speak in public. We're all about leaders who can speak, who can prepare a speech, who can speak on the cuff."
09:10 "To understand communication, you have to first listen and then speak. And that's what Toastmasters actually has taught me because, in terms of evaluation, evaluating someone's speech, you got to listen, you got to quiet the thoughts in your head in order to do that."
12:51 "That's what is communication is all about, A plus B equals C, right? Accept plus Build equals Collaboration and Communication."
18:30 "If you are run by the ego, you're never going to let others in. What I like to tell my students is that you have to go from 'mego' to 'wego.' It's called a Build It Together Mindset, a B.I.T. mindset. Go from me to we, and how do you do that? You let go of your ego."
Connect with Seth in the links below:
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethbgreenwald/
- Website - https://creativewarriorsecrets.com/
- Email - [email protected]
- YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqXYyYjgsKWRKuvgpzElQDQ
Find out more about Toastmasters, visit https://toastmasters46.org/ and follow District 46 on:
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/toast-masters-district-46
- Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TMDistrict46/
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- Twitter - https://twitter.com/district46tm
Please rate, review and subscribe!
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Next Episode

Episode 23 - Overcoming Stage Fright And Unleashing Your Creativity via Lateral Thinking with Verity Price
HIGHLIGHTS
- Overcoming stage fright by honoring her father's memory
- Finding her voice and starting a singing career in Florida
- Paint the picture: show don't tell
- Recover from your falls, both literally and figuratively
- Trust in the process
- Growing your speaking skill with Toastmasters
- Contest speaking vs real-world keynote speaking
- What is lateral thinking?
- Public speaking in the age of Zoom
QUOTES
Verity: "True confidence, is when you're okay with things not being okay."
Verity: "You've gotta live before you die, you've gotta smile before you cry, you can't fall unless you fly, you can't fail unless you try."
Verity: "If I look back at the first time that I had my heart broken, it was the end of the world. I didn't believe that I'd ever be okay. But subsequent heart breaks -— because life is a series of heartbreaks, I've learned that I will be okay. And yes, this is hard and I might need to mourn, and I might need to cry and it's a lot of ice cream and watching Netflix. but I know that inherently inside, I will be okay."
Verity: "Lateral thinking is just thinking sideways, off course from your normal direction of thinking, and arrive at ideas that are outside of where you would generally think."
Connect with Verity in the links below:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamverity/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamverity
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/verityprice/
- Website: https://www.iamverity.com/
Find out more about Toastmasters, visit https://toastmasters46.org/ and follow District 46 on:
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/toast-masters-district-46
- Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TMDistrict46/
- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toastmasters46/
- Twitter - https://twitter.com/district46tm
Please rate, review and subscribe!
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