29: The Magic of Surrender w/ Kute Blackson

03/28/23 • 44 min

He's been on the Larry King Now show, Dr. Drew, Fox and Friends and now the Top Self podcast!
This episode's guest is transformational speaker and best selling author, Kute Blackson and he's here to help you understand and move closer to the magic of surrender.
As jealousy junkies, we have a strong feeling to control. Control our environment, and our partner's environment in an attempt to protect ourselves.
As you'll hear from Kute, when we control, we actually give up our power. We feel more insecure, more afraid, more in a scarcity mindset.
I think this beautiful line from his book sums it up:
"Surrender is the invitation to take all limits off of life so magic can happen. More than you can imagine, more than you could ever plan, more than you could ever fathom".
That is what I want for you. More than you could ever plan and more than you could ever fathom.

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28: Getting Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable

Is the attractive person sitting next to your partner at the dinner table a tiger? No, of course not. But yet, you respond with fight or flight mode as if it's life or death.
You hate being uncomfortable and probably have never learned or practiced how to sit with uncomfortable.
When you feel jealous, you want that feeling to go away as quickly as possible, and by any means possible, often leaving your partner and anyone around with the uncomfortableness of your actions as you try to relieve yourself of those jealous feelings.
This episode give you a couple things to incorporate and practice to learn to create more space between when you feel jealous and when you act jealous. Open that space to create some time to calm down so you can respond properly to how you are feeling and why.

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30: Small Thoughts Need Big Muscles

When it comes to jealousy and our insecurities, oftentimes, the first thought your brain serves up to you in wrong. It's a default thought. One your brain has been serving up to you for years.
So long, in fact, you consider it to be law, to be 100% factual when in reality, it may not be. Our initial thoughts tend to be smaller, weaker thoughts that could use a little help from time to time.
An important skilled that can be learned through consistent practice is questioning your initial thought and brining in a stronger, more powerful thought. One that will help you move forward in a positive direction. One that has you stretching and thinking past your initial first-degree thought or default thought.
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Top Self - 29: The Magic of Surrender w/ Kute Blackson

Transcript

[00:00:00] Shanenn Bryant: Today's episode is centered around one word, just one word...surrender, and there's probably no better place to talk about this topic.

[00:00:16] Shanenn Bryant: I know I have the perfect person to guide you on the magic of surrender. You all are gonna be blown away. He's been on Larry King, Dr. Drew, Fox and Friends. Here with me is transformational speaker and bestselling author, Kute Blackson. Welcome.

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