
Top Self
Shanenn Bryant
Struggling with jealousy, insecurity, or self-doubt? You're not alone. Join Pattern Transformation Expert Shanenn Bryant as she combines humor, hard-won wisdom, and practical strategies to help you break free from the patterns keeping you stuck. From 2 AM social media stalking sessions to second-guessing yourself at work, each episode tackles the real struggles women face with jealousy, insecurity and confidence.
Shanenn draws from her experience and expertise in attachment theory to help women transform from overwhelming insecurity to unshakeable confidence in both relationships and career. Whether you're battling relationship jealousy or letting imposter syndrome hold you back in the workplace, you'll discover how to recognize your patterns, regulate your emotions, and transform your story.
Ready to stop letting insecurity and jealousy run your life? Subscribe now to start writing a new story - one that isn't controlled by old patterns or endless overthinking.
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05/30/23 • 31 min
You are so consumed with trying to figure out if your partner is telling you the truth, you are ignoring the lies you're saying about your partner and to yourself.
Self-awareness is the key to growth so if you want transformation, if you want to make changes to your life, you have to become more aware of your habits.
Unfortunately, your habits possibly 5 lies I see jealousy junkie tell themselves all the time.
In this episode I will:
- Discusses the importance of being mindful of the lies we tell ourselves
- Emphasize the need for honest self-reflection and accurate information
- Explain how blanket statements hinder decision-making and confuse the mind
- talk about getting honest about the effort you're putting in to change
It's time to stop worrying if your partner is lying, take a hard look at the lies you're telling and start prioritizing the truth
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The information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Top Self podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.

04/24/23 • 44 min
Have you joined the Dump the Junk Program yet? What are you waiting for? The doors are closing VERY soon.
Today's episode is so exciting for me because not only did I get to interview two women who are listeners of this podcast, but they were beta testers for me for the Dump the Junk Program.
Most importantly though, after spending 6 weeks with them going through the program, they have a very special place in my heart.
Hear the struggles they've gone through in their relationship, what their experience was like in the program, and how things are going for them now.
Join the Dump the Junk Program today. Doors close Tuesday, April 25th at 9:00 PM Eastern Time.
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03/28/23 • 44 min
He's been on the Larry King Now show, Dr. Drew, Fox and Friends and now the Top Self podcast!
This episode's guest is transformational speaker and best selling author, Kute Blackson and he's here to help you understand and move closer to the magic of surrender.
As jealousy junkies, we have a strong feeling to control. Control our environment, and our partner's environment in an attempt to protect ourselves.
As you'll hear from Kute, when we control, we actually give up our power. We feel more insecure, more afraid, more in a scarcity mindset.
I think this beautiful line from his book sums it up:
"Surrender is the invitation to take all limits off of life so magic can happen. More than you can imagine, more than you could ever plan, more than you could ever fathom".
That is what I want for you. More than you could ever plan and more than you could ever fathom.
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03/21/23 • 26 min
Is the attractive person sitting next to your partner at the dinner table a tiger? No, of course not. But yet, you respond with fight or flight mode as if it's life or death.
You hate being uncomfortable and probably have never learned or practiced how to sit with uncomfortable.
When you feel jealous, you want that feeling to go away as quickly as possible, and by any means possible, often leaving your partner and anyone around with the uncomfortableness of your actions as you try to relieve yourself of those jealous feelings.
This episode give you a couple things to incorporate and practice to learn to create more space between when you feel jealous and when you act jealous. Open that space to create some time to calm down so you can respond properly to how you are feeling and why.
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11/22/22 • 28 min
Did you know when your brain is operating under duress, all of the "parts" are not coordinating which can ramp up your jealous mind.
Our brains have a negative bias because it wants to save us. It wants to keep us safe from danger. But overload causes the brain to get out of symphony.
Leader in the field of stress mastery, Dr. Cindi Ackrill shares what stress and comparison does to your brain and the intersection between how grounded you are and when you start to compare.
Cindi also shares:
- how your brain loves to create meaning out of things and how to check-in and question that meaning
- how a stressed brain will keep you in automatic thinking and in our same patterns which can keep you in the jealousy loo.
- what it means to be stress smart, stress strong and stress wise
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11/15/22 • 9 min
It all feels like its falling apart when you screw up and show your jealous side... AGAIN.
But, there is an important mindset to have when you are trying to tame your jealousy and in today's episode, I'm sharing the importance of practicing, not mastering.
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08/30/22 • 25 min
In this episode, Shanenn walks through an exercise she did to stop her jealous actions. She breaks these action habits into two categories
- Undercover Action Habits
- Direct Action Habits
Download the Action Habits Worksheet to follow along to identify and tame your jealous actions.
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07/19/22 • 36 min
The aftermath of a betrayal can be devastating. So many questions, heartache and challenges that come when there is an affair in a relationship. Could you, should you try to rebuild the relationship?
In today's episode, clinical psychologist, Ruth Ann Harpur who specializes in relationships, discusses the delicate work of rebuilding the relationship after a betrayal.
Dr. Harpur says often the offender will "drip" information to the offended causing additional trauma with each unveiling of a new detail.
She warns being too eager to ask for all the details of the affair but instead focusing on the details of what the affair meant to the offender and what it means to you.
This episode is not intended as therapy and could contain potentially distressing material.
Free Compassion Focused Meditation from Dr. Harpur: https://ruth-ann-harpur.mykajabi.com/pl/2147603458
Connect with Dr. Harpur on IG and TikTok @drruthannharpur
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07/12/22 • 33 min
What can you do when you're on the verge of a jealous meltdown or anxiety meltdown? Just need 1 thing you can do differently to allow you to respond versus react?
I'm chatting it up with stress management coach Jessica Harrington and she gives you several 1 things you can do in those times you're feeling a little out of control of your emotions.
Help Jessica support the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
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06/20/23 • 19 min
Today's episode is all about change and I have an exciting announcement of changes coming to the podcast for you.
In this episode, I talk about the topic of change and its role in personal growth and transformation. Since your brain is wired for comfort, change can be both fearful and uncomfortable, as it often requires letting go of familiarity.
We have a strong desire for certainty which can keep us stuck and afraid to embrace change.
Stick through this episode to hear the exciting changes coming to the podcast as well as the 4 steps to create transformational change in your life
Episode highlights:
- Self-belief and confidence in one's abilities can help navigate through change and adapt as needed.
- Change is fundamental for personal growth and breaking free from stagnant perspectives.
- Embracing change opens doors to new experiences and broadens one's perspective.
- Individuals themselves holds the power to make incredible things happen and create positive change.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Top Self have?
Top Self currently has 106 episodes available.
What topics does Top Self cover?
The podcast is about Infidelity, Health & Fitness, Relationship, Mental Health, Trust, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Trauma.
What is the most popular episode on Top Self?
The episode title 'Why You Feel The Way You Feel w/ Reneau Peurifoy EP 34' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Top Self?
The average episode length on Top Self is 29 minutes.
How often are episodes of Top Self released?
Episodes of Top Self are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Top Self?
The first episode of Top Self was released on Jul 9, 2022.
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