#28. Male conditioning, male bashing and how we’re socialized - with Ellen Melon
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03/03/21 • 48 min
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#27. Relationship insights on emotional availability for anxious attachment styles and codependents - with Ellen Melon
I’ve been dealing with Emotional Availability (well, the lack of it), for the first time in a relationship over the past 9 months, witnessing myself exhibiting behavior that makes me go, “I don’t like who I’m becoming” and feeling an overall sense of disempowerment. This is a very personal podcast episode where I’ll share some insights from my own intimate relationship and some patterns I’ve noticed myself exhibiting, like anxious attachment and codependency.
In this episode, I’m going to teach you Attachment Theory 101 (anxious, avoidant, and secure), teach you the 3 Elements of Emotional Responsiveness by Dr. Sue Johnson, and discuss what accountability means in relationships and why it’s so important to be honest WITH OURSELVES in order to be honest with each other. I’ll end with a very private letter called, Dear Mr. Emotional Availability, a note to the person I want to attract in my life. This episode is for people who are feeling stuck in relationships, stuck in old patterns and behaviors, asking themselves, “Why is this happening? What am I doing?” Buckle up.
Interesting in working with a Sex & Relationship Coach? Apply for 1on1 coaching with me: Fill out this 10 question form.
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Links we talked about:
https://www.ellenmelon.com/links
Quiz: What’s Your Attachment Style: https://www.ellenmelon.com/blog/attachment-styles-101
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About Ellen Melon: Sex & Relationship Coach and Un-Educator
Ellen Melon links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellenmelonshow/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/EllenMelonShow
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellenmelonshow
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL_F0bL0mItXS-jundACwnA
Website: https://www.ellenmelon.com
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Sources:
Book: ATTACHED by Amir Levine, Rachel Heller
Book: Hold Me Tight, Seven Conversations of Lifetime of Love, by Dr Sue Johnson
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#29. Inside the life of a Female Dominatrix in NYC - with Goddess Aviva
What influences someone to become a Female Dominatrix? What does it look like in the room with Female Dominatrix? How does this career influence your personal life? In this episode Goddess Aviva, NYC Lifestyle Female Dominatrix, will tell us all about her career in sex work for the past 6 years. We’ll hear about her sexual upbringing (how was sex talked about in the home, at school, among peers), the stigma of sex work — how this industry is still looked down upon — and having worked with so many men, Goddess Aviva’s insights on how men are seriously sexually repressed, perhaps just as much as women.
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Interesting in working with a Sex & Relationship Coach? Apply for 1on1 coaching with me: www.ellenmelon.com/intimacy-coaching
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About Ellen Melon: Sex & Relationship Coach and Un-Educator
Ellen Melon links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellenmelonshow/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/EllenMelonShow
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellenmelonshow
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL_F0bL0mItXS-jundACwnA
Website: https://www.ellenmelon.com
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Links we talked about:
How to serve/contact Goddess Aviva, & where to find her goodies:
Website: http://GoddessAviva.com
Clips: http://AvivaAddict.com
Onlyfans: http://AvivaFan.Club
AVN: http://WorshipAviva.com
Niteflirt: http://CallAviva.com
Text/Call: http://Sextpanther.com/Goddess-Aviva
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