To All the Men I've Tolerated Before - Chaotic Bi Joy

Chaotic Bi Joy

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02/13/25 • 101 min

To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Noelle Cope (Sapphic Representation In Media ep) is back to talk to Natalie about the abundant joy of being a bi-sexual woman. Natalie and Noelle will talk on the nuanced differences between dating men compared to dating women. Noelle will give some insight on what would make Natalie brave enough to approach women to date and the two women plan out their perfect bi-dates. And of course, we will discuss how Patriarchy and misogyny shaped bi-sexuality in their minds and the underlying influences that keep up from living an authentic romantic life.
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Cowboy Carter

Beyonce won album of the year for 2025! Alrinthea Carter and Julia Washington joined Natalie back in December to do a deep dive on country music, Beyonce’s career, and their feelings about different tracks of Cowboy Carter. There will be discussion on the role black people played in creating country music, what themes of the female experience are prevalent in the songs, and how Beyonce has inspired us to make the type of art we want to make.
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Find Alrinthea
On Instagram: @alrinthea
Website: https://www.alrintheacarter.com/
Find Julia
On Instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/
Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club

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Intergenerational Trauma, Grief, and Impossible Beauty Standards

Natalie is joined by Susan Lieu to discuss what led her to writing her book, The Manicurist’s Daughter, and creating her one woman show, 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother. After Susan’s mother died of a complication during her tummy tuck surgery, Susan was left with a family that wanted to remain silent on her mother’s death and how her family was forever changed. Natalie and Susan will use examples from their own stories to talk about how misogyny affects their lives through beauty standards, shame surrounding big feelings and caring for one’s mental health, and how the broken medical system costs lives.
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Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.
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Stream 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother