Episode #176. How we can help someone today that makes a difference. Ali Halkic, Father of Allem, Founder of Bully Zero, Hero
06/20/24 • 50 min
Today we dive deep into important conversations about mental health, well-being, and community support. We're discussing an incredibly important topic that, unfortunately, affects many lives—today, we are talking about suicide and the reasons leading a young boy to the moment and the steps we, as parents and a society, can take to prevent it from happening.
"Suicide is a challenging and sensitive subject, but it's one we must talk about openly and compassionately. Understanding the signs, offering support, and knowing where to turn for help can save lives. Today's goal is to provide information, share stories, and offer hope."
I want to take a moment to acknowledge that this topic might be triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, it's crucial to reach out for help. In Australia, you can call Lifeline at 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue at 1300 22 4636. You're not alone; some people care and want to help."
In today's episode, we'll speak with Ali Halkic, hear about how his family has been affected by the loss of Allem, his son, and discuss ways we can all contribute to creating a supportive and understanding community. Remember, it's okay to ask for help, and it's okay to talk about how you're feeling. So, let's start by understanding the signs and symptoms that someone might be struggling with and what steps we can take to provide support.
We're also excited to announce that we are running an important forum on August 8th in Brisbane to bring us together. We need to take collective action to master children's mental health and prevent further harm. Your participation can make a real difference.
This is an urgent need to solve the issue of smart devices and social media’s impact on our children’s mental health- as it will reverberate in our country for generations.
These are the ways people can help:
This is the forum on August 8th.
- There is an urgent need for a collective effort to reshape how society, tech companies, parents, educators, clinicians, and policymakers prioritise and protect our youngest users in the digital age.
- BEING SEEN forum aims to come together and provide tools to empower parents, educators, clinicians, and policymakers to promote children's mental health, digital literacy, and wellness in the digital age.
Author: "BEING SEEN" Master Parenting in the Digital Age
Book available here:
https://www.profselenabartlett.com/product-page/being-seen
Join us at the SEEN forum: Mastering Mental Health in the Digital Age. August 8th, 2024.
Register here.
https://events.humanitix.com/mastering-children-s-mental-health-in-the-digital-age
View the SEEN documentary sizzle reel here by Sam Jockel, CEO Parent TV.
Link here
https://vimeo.com/870004837/431a46920f
Subscribe and support the podcast at
https://www.buzzsprout.com/367319/supporters/new
Learn more at www.profselenabartlett.com
Today we dive deep into important conversations about mental health, well-being, and community support. We're discussing an incredibly important topic that, unfortunately, affects many lives—today, we are talking about suicide and the reasons leading a young boy to the moment and the steps we, as parents and a society, can take to prevent it from happening.
"Suicide is a challenging and sensitive subject, but it's one we must talk about openly and compassionately. Understanding the signs, offering support, and knowing where to turn for help can save lives. Today's goal is to provide information, share stories, and offer hope."
I want to take a moment to acknowledge that this topic might be triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, it's crucial to reach out for help. In Australia, you can call Lifeline at 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue at 1300 22 4636. You're not alone; some people care and want to help."
In today's episode, we'll speak with Ali Halkic, hear about how his family has been affected by the loss of Allem, his son, and discuss ways we can all contribute to creating a supportive and understanding community. Remember, it's okay to ask for help, and it's okay to talk about how you're feeling. So, let's start by understanding the signs and symptoms that someone might be struggling with and what steps we can take to provide support.
We're also excited to announce that we are running an important forum on August 8th in Brisbane to bring us together. We need to take collective action to master children's mental health and prevent further harm. Your participation can make a real difference.
This is an urgent need to solve the issue of smart devices and social media’s impact on our children’s mental health- as it will reverberate in our country for generations.
These are the ways people can help:
This is the forum on August 8th.
- There is an urgent need for a collective effort to reshape how society, tech companies, parents, educators, clinicians, and policymakers prioritise and protect our youngest users in the digital age.
- BEING SEEN forum aims to come together and provide tools to empower parents, educators, clinicians, and policymakers to promote children's mental health, digital literacy, and wellness in the digital age.
Author: "BEING SEEN" Master Parenting in the Digital Age
Book available here:
https://www.profselenabartlett.com/product-page/being-seen
Join us at the SEEN forum: Mastering Mental Health in the Digital Age. August 8th, 2024.
Register here.
https://events.humanitix.com/mastering-children-s-mental-health-in-the-digital-age
View the SEEN documentary sizzle reel here by Sam Jockel, CEO Parent TV.
Link here
https://vimeo.com/870004837/431a46920f
Subscribe and support the podcast at
https://www.buzzsprout.com/367319/supporters/new
Learn more at www.profselenabartlett.com
Previous Episode
Episode #175. How To Get Kids To Listen and The Perfect Way to Connect with Your Child, Sue Meintjes, a mother of two and author, founder of expert parenting advice
We dive into Sue Meintjes' ebook, featuring powerful strategies from leading international parenting experts to help get your kids to listen and cooperate without yelling or shouting. Get the free ebook here:
https://www.expertparentingadvice.com/
Each chapter includes a 10-minute interview with a parenting expert who shares their best secret and shows you how to use it with your children.
Discover insights like:
- Teaching emotional management and problem-solving (Dr. Rosina McAlpine)
- Using playfulness to increase cooperation (Julie King)
- Alternatives to threats for better cooperation (Dr. Chelsey Hauge-Zavaleta)
- Solving problems with kids (Dr. Ross Greene)
- Helping your child feel heard and understood (Dr. Heather Wittenberg)
- Communicating effectively based on your child's style (Heather Lindsay)
- Parenting smarter with "Golden Time" (Tia Slightham)
- Encouraging cooperation through playfulness (Karen Thurm Safran)
- Using the "C.A.L.M. Technique" to soothe and guide (Jennifer Kolari)
- Creating win-win solutions with your children (Sarah Rosensweet)
- Getting kids to listen without yelling (Lisa Smith)
- Importance of hugging during misbehavior (Judy Arnall)
- Understanding children's behavior (Anna Seewald)
- Motivating children by understanding their nature (Jessie Buttons)
- Connecting through "Curious Waiting" (Rebecca Rolland)
- Listening to children to get them to listen (Nathan Wallis)
- Reconnecting intentionally with your child (Dr. Beth Trammell)
- Becoming a "stress detective" for emotional competence (Dr. Jean Clinton)
- Developing emotional regulation in kids (Dr. Hilary Mandzik)
- The "One Minute Miracle" technique for cooperation (Sandi and Melissa Schwartz)
- Planning for smoother problem times (Elisabeth Stitt)
- Staying calm to foster cooperation (Shirley Pastiroff)
- Managing transitions effectively (Dr. Jenny Michaelson)
Join us for practical, quick tips that can transform everyday interactions into opportunities for connection and joy. Don't miss this episode for actionable advice and inspiring stories!
Please join the #BEINGSEEN movement to safeguard children on-line.
Buy the book www.profselenabartlett.com and pass the word to as many parents as possible.
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Next Episode
Episode #177 No Safe Haven: A Father's Fight for Online Safety, Wayne Holdsworth, Founder of SmackTalk
Did you realise that almost zero places online are safe for children? The dark web has exploited our addiction to phones and digital lives, leaving no one paying attention to our children, who have become easy targets.
In this deeply moving podcast episode, we hear from Wayne Holdsworth, a father who tragically lost his 17-year-old son Mac was a victim to on-line sextortion in October 2023 after becoming a victim of sextortion. Wayne shares his profound regret and pain, wishing he had known that in the hours before someone decides to take their own life, they might act as if they don’t have a care in the world. If he had known, he believed Mac might still be alive. Social media taught him everything about what to do. Tech companies want you to think that it is OK to use social media BUT they don’t want you to know that their algorithms are serving them R- rated content and that AI chatbots and messaging apps are able to reach any of them now in 2024. Parents, we are asleep and do not realise what an impact this is having on children’s mental health. Time to open your eyes wide and ask- WHAT are they watching, WHO are they talking to? This will protect your kids. It is an urgent crisis.
Before October last year, Wayne knew very little about suicide. His son fell victim to sextortion, paying the scammers in hopes of stopping their threats, but the harassment continued. Despite Wayne's efforts to intervene, Mac was overwhelmed by the fear of his friends discovering the images he had sent. On the night Mac took his life, he seemed upbeat and happy, which Wayne later learned can be a sign of someone who has decided to end their life.
At Mac's funeral, 700 people gathered to mourn—a poignant reminder of the widespread impact of suicide. Wayne's message is clear: it’s not enough to simply ask if someone is OK.
Wayne Holdsworth's story is a powerful reminder of the importance of mental health awareness and the need for better support systems for those in crisis. Let's work together to ensure that no other family has to experience such a heartbreaking loss
For more information and support on sextortion and mental health, visit:
Join the conversation and help spread awareness: #MentalHealth #SuicidePrevention #Sextortion #WayneHoldsworth #Podcast #YouthSupport #AwarenessMatters #NoMoreWaits #ParentingAdvice #FamilySupport #SaveLives #OnlineSafety #ProtectOurChildren
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