you need to stop hating yourself

05/16/25 • 27 min

having standards for excellence and being hard on yourself are two different things, but oftentimes we just lump them together.

the greats have standards, but they don't beat themselves up more than they have to.

if you want to work with yourself to achieve anything in life, you must be fair. you must be able to look into your habits and lifestyle and truly acknowledge if you're doing enough.

sending you all lot's of love and peaaaaaaaace!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow⁠

having standards for excellence and being hard on yourself are two different things, but oftentimes we just lump them together.

the greats have standards, but they don't beat themselves up more than they have to.

if you want to work with yourself to achieve anything in life, you must be fair. you must be able to look into your habits and lifestyle and truly acknowledge if you're doing enough.

sending you all lot's of love and peaaaaaaaace!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow⁠

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you can't keep living in the past

⁠it's time to accept that the past won't change.

it's good to look at it and realize the lessons you needed to learn, but ruminating in the past is a dead end.

I've had to learn that taking people for who they are is the most important thing you can do. it doesn't mean you shouldn't take accountability for your actions, but forgiveness is a two way street.

don't confine yourself within who you used to be. you are the person you are right now.

sending you all lots of love and peaaaaaaace!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow⁠