Episode 21: Misplaced Honor: Exposing a False Idol and Celebrating the Real Hero, Madalyn Coulter

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03/11/25 • 58 min

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In this deeply emotional and thought-provoking episode, Tressa returns after an unplanned hiatus to tackle an array of systemic issues. From navigating the complexities of domestic violence, military accountability, and the enduring trauma of war, this episode serves as a powerful blend of storytelling, advocacy, and education.

The host shares updates on the tragic cases of Dana Alotaibi, Mischa Johnson, Ruby Alcantar, and Madalyn Coulter—stories that expose systemic failures in protecting female individuals within military communities. Through these narratives, the host highlights the resilience of victims' families and the legislative progress inspired by their efforts, including the introduction of "Mischa’s Law." Special attention is given to the heartbreaking story of Madalyn Coulter, a veteran and mother whose life was cut short by an act of premeditated violence. Her legacy is honored, and her story is a call to action against the enabling of abusive behavior and the glorification of perpetrators under the guise of mental health struggles.

The episode also delves into the hidden costs of war, challenging the glorification of military service and exposing the long-lasting impact of war on service members and their families.

Whether you are a true crime enthusiast, an advocate for domestic violence awareness, or someone seeking a deeper understanding of military culture and its ripple effects, this episode offers a compelling mix of education, advocacy, and inspiration. Tune in to honor the victims, challenge societal norms, and join the fight for justice and systemic change.

Sources for this episode:

https://www.savannahnow.com/story/news/crime/2022/07/19/former-nine-line-apparel-employees-dead-apparent-murder-suicide-savannah-georgia/10096188002/

https://www.wjcl.com/article/nine-line-savannah-murder-suicide/40654716

Interview excerpt with fiancé Blake taken from: Joe Pags Show

Interview excerpt of close friend/brother Josh discussing Zachary Scalf video taken from an interview with WTF NATION RADIO

Do you have a story you’d like to share on TWTDNH or are you a subject matter expert who would like to shed light on any of the topics I cover? Shoot me a message!

The episode also delves into the hidden costs of war, challenging the glorification of military service and exposing the long-lasting impact of war on service members and their families.

Sources for this episode:

https://www.savannahnow.com/story/news/crime/2022/07/19/former-nine-line-apparel-employees-dead-apparent-murder-suicide-savannah-georgia/10096188002/

https://www.wjcl.com/article/nine-line-savannah-murder-suicide/40654716

Interview excerpt with fiancé Blake taken from: Joe Pags Show

Interview excerpt of close friend/brother Josh discussing Zachary Scalf video taken from an interview with WTF NATION RADIO

Previous Episode

Episode 20: Plea for Help, Shadowed by Blame: Dana Alotaibi’s Story

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Dive into the haunting story of Dana Alotaibi, an OnlyFans model and influencer, whose life was cut tragically short. In this episode, Tressa explores the systemic failures, societal attitudes, and lack of empathy that left Dana vulnerable despite her desperate pleas for help. Her story sheds light on the broader issues of victim-blaming and domestic violence within the military community.

Don't miss this eye-opening episode that emphasizes the need for a more compassionate and understanding society. Tune in to hear Dana's story and be part of the conversation on fostering empathy and support for victims everywhere.
Join Tressa next week as she dives into the concept of DARVO and discusses its relevance in pop culture, including in a major current event that is hijacking every storyline, involving actor Justin Baldoni and actress Blake Lively. Stay tuned for some personal anecdotes about Justin Baldoni, Tressa's childhood next door neighbor, and a deeper understanding of this abuse tactic Justin is being accused of.
Resources for today's show:
Marine charged with 2nd degree murder following ex-wife’s stabbing death
GRAPHIC: Military spouse fatally stabbed in Hawaii sought help for repeated abuse, mother says
Marine accused of stabbing pregnant ex-wife to death after fight on busy Hawaii highway | Stars and Stripes
Dana's video conversation with domestic violence advocate found in this article: Dana Alotaibi Video: Victim Was OnlyFans, Instagram Model

Next Episode

Episode 22: (Part 1) What's Done in the Dark Will Always Come to Light: Exposing Jordan Henning

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In part one of this gripping episode, we unravel the shocking case of Jordan Henning, who murdered his wife, Ashley Henning. Tressa uncovers how an anonymous source handed her explosive evidence that the trial and media did not expose—revealing Jordan’s dark secrets and double life.

Ashley, a devoted mother and beloved woman, endured years of deception and abuse at the hands of her husband. But on June 26, 2023—her 37th birthday celebration—everything came to a devastating end. As Jordan’s aggression escalated, Ashley desperately tried to calm him and protect her children. Instead, his need for control led to her brutal murder, captured on the family's Nest camera system.

Jordan fled the scene, weaving a web of lies to conceal the truth. At trial, his defense team pushed outrageous claims while the prosecution struggled, failing to secure the justice Ashley deserved. This raises a troubling question: Was this merely a failure of the Commonwealth of Kentucky, or was something more insidious—like an underlying bias—at play?

Sources for today's episode:

Court TV – Covers the trial, sentencing, and key evidence, including Nest camera footage and witness testimony.
Daily Mail – Details Jordan’s defense, his claims of abuse, and the shocking security footage capturing the murder.

Book discussed:

Bancroft, L. (2002). Why does he do that? Inside the minds of angry and controlling men. Berkley Books. Available on platforms like Amazon and Goodreads.