337. Let's Talk About Sex! 20 Things Wive's Wish Their Husbands Knew

02/04/25 • 45 min

In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:
👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.

Amy and Nate open up about why they felt compelled to write this book together, what they learned in the process, and how it can truly transform your relationship. But here’s where it gets really good—Amy dives deep into the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew about sex, intimacy, and connection.

This book will transform your marriage both in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever struggled to talk about intimacy with your spouse or wished they just knew what you needed without you having to say it, you won’t want to miss this!

If you’ve ever thought:
“I wish my spouse just understood me better when it comes to intimacy.”
“We struggle with different sex drives—can we ever get on the same page?”
“How can we keep our connection strong, even outside the bedroom?”

Then this episode (and the next one!) is for YOU.

Here are just a few of the 20 eye-opening topics Amy unpacks in this conversation for the chapters she wrote for husbands:
🔥 Her Mind Is the Biggest Sex Organ – Why emotional connection is everything for a wife’s desire.
🔥 Break Down the Barriers – How past experiences, stress, and insecurities impact intimacy.
🔥 Put Her First, Win Big! – Why prioritizing her pleasure changes everything.
🔥 Different Drives? No Biggie – How to navigate mismatched libidos without frustration.
🔥 The Magic Button – What every husband needs to understand about his wife's body.
🔥 Talk It Out, Spice It Up – The power of communication in building a passionate marriage.
These episodes aren’t just about sex—they’re about building the kind of trust, intimacy, and connection that makes your entire marriage stronger.

Don’t miss this conversation! Tune in now and get ready to change the way you think about intimacy in marriage.

Buy the book HERE!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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Then this episode (and the next one!) is for YOU.

Don’t miss this conversation! Tune in now and get ready to change the way you think about intimacy in marriage.

Buy the book HERE!

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336. Do Husbands Need Romance Too? 3 Freebies You Need!

In this episode, we dive into a question that isn’t talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is important to them, and the responses might surprise you! Spoiler alert: romance isn’t just for wives.

We break down what romance actually looks like for both husbands and wives because let’s be honest—men and women often experience romance in completely different ways. While many women crave thoughtful gestures, words of affirmation, and deep emotional connection, men often appreciate romance in ways that might not be as obvious. Whether it’s physical touch, playful flirtation, or simply feeling appreciated, every spouse wants to feel desired and pursued.

And since Valentine’s Day isn’t just a day—it should be a mindset—we’ve created three free printables to help you make the entire month (and beyond) more romantic, meaningful, and exciting for your marriage. These are simple, fun, and designed to bring you closer together, whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom, deepen your emotional connection, or simply add more joy to your everyday moments.

Tune in to this episode, grab your free printables, and get ready to make this Valentine’s Day (month, year, and marriage) the best one yet! ❤️

FREE printables

https://ultimateintimacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Valentines.challenge2025.pdf

https://ultimateintimacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/datenightjar.pdf

https://ultimateintimacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/HEARTattack.pdf

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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338. Let's Talk About Sex Part 2 - 20 Things Husbands Wish Their Wive's Knew

In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it’s Nate’s turn to reveal the things men wish they could tell their wives—but often don’t know how to say.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on in your husband’s mind when it comes to intimacy, this episode is a must-listen. Nate dives into helping wives understand what their husbands wish their spouse new.

Here’s just a glimpse of what we’re covering:

Don’t Use Sex as a Weapon – How intimacy should never be used as punishment, leverage, or control.
He Wants to See You – Why visual connection is important for him and how body confidence plays a role.
Tell Him Clearly – Husbands aren’t mind readers—here’s why clear communication makes all the difference.
Flirt with Him – How small moments of playfulness, teasing, and attraction fuel long-term intimacy.
He Wants You to Want It – Why feeling desired (not just obligated) is a game-changer for your marriage.
It’s Not You, It’s Him – Understanding how stress, performance anxiety, and external pressures can impact a husband’s intimacy.

Many wives assume that men just “want sex” without deeper emotional needs, but the truth is, intimacy is about so much more for husbands. They long to feel wanted, respected, and deeply connected—and when that happens, everything in marriage gets better.

This is an episode you don’t want to miss! Whether you’re a wife who wants to better understand your husband or a husband who’s struggling to express what you truly need, this conversation will bring clarity, connection, and maybe even some breakthroughs in your marriage.
Get the book Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.

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