The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:
👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.

Amy and Nate open up about why they felt compelled to write this book together, what they learned in the process, and how it can truly transform your relationship. But here’s where it gets really good—Amy dives deep into the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew about sex, intimacy, and connection.

This book will transform your marriage both in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever struggled to talk about intimacy with your spouse or wished they just knew what you needed without you having to say it, you won’t want to miss this!

If you’ve ever thought:
“I wish my spouse just understood me better when it comes to intimacy.”
“We struggle with different sex drives—can we ever get on the same page?”
“How can we keep our connection strong, even outside the bedroom?”

Then this episode (and the next one!) is for YOU.

Here are just a few of the 20 eye-opening topics Amy unpacks in this conversation for the chapters she wrote for husbands:
🔥 Her Mind Is the Biggest Sex Organ – Why emotional connection is everything for a wife’s desire.
🔥 Break Down the Barriers – How past experiences, stress, and insecurities impact intimacy.
🔥 Put Her First, Win Big! – Why prioritizing her pleasure changes everything.
🔥 Different Drives? No Biggie – How to navigate mismatched libidos without frustration.
🔥 The Magic Button – What every husband needs to understand about his wife's body.
🔥 Talk It Out, Spice It Up – The power of communication in building a passionate marriage.
These episodes aren’t just about sex—they’re about building the kind of trust, intimacy, and connection that makes your entire marriage stronger.

Don’t miss this conversation! Tune in now and get ready to change the way you think about intimacy in marriage.

Buy the book HERE!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There have been many times in our marriage where we have been doing something just because we do it, that we later recognize it has had a profound positive impact on our relationship. We weren't doing it because we were trying to fix or improve anything, but just doing it because we enjoyed it, and then realize the benefits have been amazing!
For example, we take a lot of showers together at night. It is a time where we can relax at the end of the day and not be disturbed, get cleaned up before bed, spend good quality time together, and have some of our most meaningful and breakthrough conversations have happened during this time together. It is also a great way to get in the mood and better your chances at being physically intimate.
Many couples complain they don't have time to spend together, and according to an article by Focusonthefamily.com, the average couple spends less than 4 minutes per day in meaningful conversation! YES.. you heard that correctly.
No wonder couples are having so many issues and not connecting emotionally or physically.
In this episode, we talk about how doing this one thing together often can make a huge positive impact in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In each of our marriages, we ALL experience hard times. We fall short and make mistakes. And sometimes those mistakes seem too big to overcome, or too climb back from. But nothing is too big to conquer as you will hear in this inspiring true story (and interview) with Brad and Lisa Valencia as they share their compelling experience of betrayal and despair in their relationship, and the path to finding faith, hope and forgiveness by turning to God. They also open up about what caused the mistakes and justification that lead down this road.
If you are experiencing any kind of trails or struggles (which we all have) this episode will inspire you and give you hope to know that through God, any trials or obstacles can be overcome. This is an episode you won't want to miss.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
We just released the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Workbook which is an amazing course that will help the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Find more information and purchase HERE
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

As you know, we cover just about EVERYTHING a married couple deals with in marriage in our podcast episodes. There are a lot of things to remember, and sometimes it can get very overwhelming.

In this episode, we decided to keep it simple and share, based on all the feedback we receive from husbands and wives, what men need and what women need in marriage to be happy. We recognize that this isn’t universal and that different marriages need different things. But for most men and most women, these are the things our audience has expressed they need to be happy.

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy, libido or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We must admit that we are not morning people and typically don't make love very often in the morning, but after this podcast episode and understanding all the benefits, we are going to re think our lovemaking, and when we do it.
There are some serious benefits to making love in the morning. For many couples, sexual intimacy is the last thing on their "to do" list, so when the night time rolls around, couples are too tired mentally and physically to enjoy sex to the fullest, or they make excuses as to why they shouldn't make love.
However, in the morning you are refreshed, full of energy, and can better focus, and of course morning sex is just going to make your day much better. So join us for this great episode and find out how having sex in the morning can have significant benefits to your relationship!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!