Episode 150 - Why I Left the NHS - Midwife Insights with Rosemary

05/11/25 • 81 min

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by former NHS midwife Rosemary, who bravely opens up about her time working within the UK’s maternity system - and why she ultimately made the difficult decision to walk away.

With her knowledge and experience of women-centred care, Rosemary speaks candidly about the challenges she faced as a midwife, from rising pressures to the emotional toll of witnessing care that didn’t align with her values.

Rosemary shares what it means to support physiological birth within institutional constraints, and why leaving was the only way to stay true to herself - and what she’s doing now

Whether you’re pregnant, a birth worker, or simply curious about what happens behind the scenes of the maternity system, Rosemary’s story will stay with you.

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Rosemary shares what it means to support physiological birth within institutional constraints, and why leaving was the only way to stay true to herself - and what she’s doing now

Whether you’re pregnant, a birth worker, or simply curious about what happens behind the scenes of the maternity system, Rosemary’s story will stay with you.

You can find Rosemary here

Or on her website here - https://houseofrosemary.com

Follow me on Instagram @theultimatebirthpartner
Book a 1-2-1 session with Sallyann - https://linktr.ee/SallyannBeresford

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Episode 149 - Postpartum Prolapse - And Why We Need to be Talking About It!

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In this essential episode, I open up a conversation with Hayley Schoenberg and Dr Margo, where they explain, that far too many women are suffering from postpartum prolapse - in silence.

Despite how common it is, prolapse is rarely discussed during pregnancy, and even less so after birth. Yet it can have a profound physical and emotional impact on a woman's life. It's time to break the silence.

In this episode, we explore:

What postpartum prolapse actually is
The symptoms that are too often dismissed or normalised
Why so many women feel shocked, ashamed, or let down when they discover they have a prolapse
How the language we use around birth and recovery plays a role in this silence
Why informed preparation before birth is key to preventing or reducing risk
What real support looks like - and how we can do better

Whether you're a birth partner, a birth professional, or someone navigating your own postpartum recovery, this episode is for you.

Let’s shine a light on this hidden struggle and advocate for real change in postpartum care.

Get support: Reach out to pelvic health specialists or women's health physiotherapists in your area.

Contact Hayley on Instagram - @thebadassbirthcompany

Contact Margo on Instagram - @pospartum_pop_pt

Margo's Website https://www.p4moms.com for her membership community and resources.

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Episode 151 - Amelia's Story - MLU Birth with High BMI and Gestational Diabetes

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In this inspiring episode, I’m joined by Amelia, who shares her powerful birth stories - welcoming both of her daughters in a Midwife Led Unit, despite being labelled ‘high risk’ due to a high BMI and insulin-controlled gestational diabetes.

Amelia’s journey is a testament to what’s possible when a woman is supported to trust her instincts, advocate for herself, and remain at the centre of her care.

In our conversation, Amelia reflects on:

The challenges and judgements she faced due to her BMI
How she stayed informed and confident in her choices
Building a relationship of trust with her midwives
Navigating the medicalised narrative around gestational diabetes
The difference respectful, individualised care made in her outcomes

This episode offers hope to anyone who’s been told their body isn’t capable of physiological birth - and a reminder that evidence-based care and personal autonomy can and should go hand-in-hand.

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