
Thriving Beyond Burnout: A Conversation on Lifestyle Medicine and Personal Transformation
01/29/24 • 26 min
In this episode Avery engages in a compelling conversation with Dr. Benita Varnado, affectionately known as Dr. V. Dr. V, a board-certified OBGYN and Lifestyle Medicine Physician, shares her inspiring journey from experiencing burnout to embracing a fulfilling life. The discussion touches upon the parallels between Avery's burnout as an ICU nurse and Dr. V's experience in OBGYN. Dr. V sheds light on her pivotal decision to transition to lifestyle medicine, emphasizing the need for preventive strategies. The creation of her podcast, "Office Visits with Dr. V," becomes a platform to educate women about gynecological health, overall wellness, and purposeful living.
Throughout the episode, Dr. V candidly discusses her burnout red flags, including exhaustion and a sense of indifference. The mindset shift and decision-making process that led to her freedom from traditional medical practices are highlighted. Dr. V shares her unique approach, combining part-time OBGYN work with a wellness-focused business, showcasing flexibility and personal satisfaction.
The role of lifestyle medicine emerges as a key component in Dr. V's journey, emphasizing the importance of a holistic approach to health. Listeners gain insights into Dr. V's coaching methods, which prioritize authenticity, honesty, and a focus on individual visions and gifts. The episode concludes with Dr. V encouraging listeners to heed their inner voice, acknowledging their spirit's guidance for positive life changes.
Highlights:
- Dr. V's Burnout Experience (04:20):
- Dr. V discusses red flags and challenges of balancing personal and professional life.
- Emotional impact and signs of burnout, including disconnection and indifference.
- Recognizing Burnout (07:10):
- Discussion on common burnout symptoms like loss of enjoyment and indifference.
- Encouragement to explore feelings of "there has to be more to life."
- Pivoting Towards Wellness (08:22):
- Dr. V's decision to pivot, resign from traditional practice, and embrace lifestyle medicine.
- Balancing family life while covering for local doctors.
- Shift to Lifestyle Medicine (11:49):
- Dr. V's discovery of lifestyle medicine's focus on prevention.
- Aligning personal lifestyle with health advocacy.
- Patient-Centered Healthcare (16:28):
- Discussion on the need for a shift towards patient-centered and preventive healthcare.
- Key Habit for Change (18:12):
- Avery asks Dr. V about the pivotal habit in her lifestyle change.
- Dr. V shares the importance of making a decision and starting with walking.
- Mindset and Choice (19:59):
- Emphasis on mindset, rewriting learned behaviors, and overcoming challenges.
- Acknowledging the need for authenticity in pursuing a healthier lifestyle.
- Working with Dr. V (21:09):
- Dr. V's coaching approach, focusing on authenticity, truth, and finding meaning.
- Announcement of an upcoming group program for a comprehensive wellness journey.
- Closing Thoughts (25:14):
- Encouragement to listen to one's inner voice and acknowledge the need for positive life changes.
In this episode Avery engages in a compelling conversation with Dr. Benita Varnado, affectionately known as Dr. V. Dr. V, a board-certified OBGYN and Lifestyle Medicine Physician, shares her inspiring journey from experiencing burnout to embracing a fulfilling life. The discussion touches upon the parallels between Avery's burnout as an ICU nurse and Dr. V's experience in OBGYN. Dr. V sheds light on her pivotal decision to transition to lifestyle medicine, emphasizing the need for preventive strategies. The creation of her podcast, "Office Visits with Dr. V," becomes a platform to educate women about gynecological health, overall wellness, and purposeful living.
Throughout the episode, Dr. V candidly discusses her burnout red flags, including exhaustion and a sense of indifference. The mindset shift and decision-making process that led to her freedom from traditional medical practices are highlighted. Dr. V shares her unique approach, combining part-time OBGYN work with a wellness-focused business, showcasing flexibility and personal satisfaction.
The role of lifestyle medicine emerges as a key component in Dr. V's journey, emphasizing the importance of a holistic approach to health. Listeners gain insights into Dr. V's coaching methods, which prioritize authenticity, honesty, and a focus on individual visions and gifts. The episode concludes with Dr. V encouraging listeners to heed their inner voice, acknowledging their spirit's guidance for positive life changes.
Highlights:
- Dr. V's Burnout Experience (04:20):
- Dr. V discusses red flags and challenges of balancing personal and professional life.
- Emotional impact and signs of burnout, including disconnection and indifference.
- Recognizing Burnout (07:10):
- Discussion on common burnout symptoms like loss of enjoyment and indifference.
- Encouragement to explore feelings of "there has to be more to life."
- Pivoting Towards Wellness (08:22):
- Dr. V's decision to pivot, resign from traditional practice, and embrace lifestyle medicine.
- Balancing family life while covering for local doctors.
- Shift to Lifestyle Medicine (11:49):
- Dr. V's discovery of lifestyle medicine's focus on prevention.
- Aligning personal lifestyle with health advocacy.
- Patient-Centered Healthcare (16:28):
- Discussion on the need for a shift towards patient-centered and preventive healthcare.
- Key Habit for Change (18:12):
- Avery asks Dr. V about the pivotal habit in her lifestyle change.
- Dr. V shares the importance of making a decision and starting with walking.
- Mindset and Choice (19:59):
- Emphasis on mindset, rewriting learned behaviors, and overcoming challenges.
- Acknowledging the need for authenticity in pursuing a healthier lifestyle.
- Working with Dr. V (21:09):
- Dr. V's coaching approach, focusing on authenticity, truth, and finding meaning.
- Announcement of an upcoming group program for a comprehensive wellness journey.
- Closing Thoughts (25:14):
- Encouragement to listen to one's inner voice and acknowledge the need for positive life changes.
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Cultivating Balance in a Capitalist World - the four ways capitalism sabotages our well-being
In the relentless pursuit of success and prosperity, the landscape of work has evolved significantly over the years. In the era of modern capitalism, the concept of a healthy work-life balance seems like an elusive dream for most people. The impacts of capitalism on burnout culture are profound, stretching back to the beginning of the industrial revolution and becoming this seemingly unstoppable freight train in the complex and demanding world we face today.
The Historical Unraveling of Work-Life Balance
The seeds of burnout culture were sown in the early days of capitalism, as industrialization swept across the world. The shift from agrarian economies to industrial societies really marked a turning point, where we slowly started to learn to ignore our needs because our life was increasingly dictated by the demands of the clock. Factories made productive machines out of humans and the boundaries between work and personal life blurred, laying the groundwork for the burnout culture we're faced with today.
The Rise of Modern Capitalism and its Toll
The true rise of modern capitalism, with its emphasis on profit maximization and constant growth, can be traced back to the mid-20th century. Post-World War II, economies were rebuilt, and a new era of consumerism emerged. Corporations, driven by the pursuit of profit, began to prioritize efficiency and productivity above all else because the more that they could produce, the more money that they could make. This shift had profound implications for the workforce, as the pressure to meet these ever-increasing demands continued to intensify.
This leaves us with a number of different factors that are driven by capitalism that can sabotage our stress management efforts if we’re not aware of them. Awareness is always the first step because it’s from a place of knowing what we’re dealing with that we have any chance of mitigating the impact these burnout-inducing aspects of capitalism have on our well being.
Factors Amplifying Stress in the Modern World
1. Technology and the 24/7 Work Cycle
We’re in a digital age, that’s just a fact, and technology has reshaped the way we live, blurring the lines between professional and personal life. Smartphones, laptops, and tablets started the journey towards being “always available” and the convenience of remote work has also increased the pressure to live up to the expectation to be available around the clock. Emails, messages, and virtual meetings throughout the day, and the constant reminder that work is literally available at our fingertips fosters the constant state of alertness that breeds burnout. Your ability to work whenever wherever leaves that part of your brain, your work brain, always on running in the background - which is especially true for entrepreneurs.
2. Intense Competition and Job Insecurity
Modern capitalism thrives on competition, and the pressure to outperform each other is trained into us in grade school and just strengthens overtime.You know that phrase “everyone’s replaceable”? It just feeds the feeling of job insecurity, forcing individuals to prove their worth continually. The fear of falling behind or losing one's job adds a layer of stress that spreads through every aspect of life, eroding the mental and emotional well-being of workers.No wonder you don’t believe yourself when you try saying positive affirmations like “I am enough” when you’re constantly being told you’re not.
3. Consumerist Culture and Material Expectations
The consumerist culture inherent in modern capitalism fuels a desire for material wealth and status. But the truth is, many are just struggling to survive in modern capitalism just to afford to live - let’s be real. Enough of us are struggling to balance a budget let alone save up for those luxuries that capitalism says we should want. Tied in with the idea of competition, as we strive to keep up with societal expectations and the pressure we and others put on ourselves, the pursuit of success becomes an all-encompassing focus. This unrelenting drive for more not only contributes to burnout but also fosters a sense of emptiness when material gains fail to bring the expected fulfillment.
4. Lack of Social Safety Nets
One of the most impactful things on the chronic stress levels of individuals is the fact that modern capitalism often neglects the importance of robust social safety nets. The absence of comprehensive healthcare, adequate paid leave, and mental health support places additional burdens on individuals, exacerbating burnout. The fear of financial instability and the lack of a safety net create a breeding ground for stress and exhaustion. Now if our societies don’t provide this support, then naturally it would fall to us as individuals to set up our own safety nets. Which would be doable if minimum wage was a livin...
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