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The Sharegiving Secret: How to Survive Family Caregiving - Trust Yourself More: A Wake-Up Call from Dr. Michelle Montero | EP031

Trust Yourself More: A Wake-Up Call from Dr. Michelle Montero | EP031

04/09/25 • 20 min

The Sharegiving Secret: How to Survive Family Caregiving

You don't have to follow someone else’s definition of success to create a life that lights you up. Sitting down with Dr. Michelle Montero reminded me of the power in honoring your personal values—especially when the world expects you to hustle nonstop. Michelle’s journey from academia to entrepreneurship shows what happens when you stop living in survival mode and start trusting yourself deeply. We talked about mindset shifts, the weight of invisible expectations, and how choosing joy can be one of the most radical things you do. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that looks “right” but doesn’t feel right—this one’s for you.

About Our Guest:

Dr. Michelle Montero, a licensed clinical psychologist and sports psychology consultant is dedicated to helping individuals, teams, and organizations unlock their full potential.Whether you're an athlete navigating career transitions, a professional striving for resilience, or someone seeking personal transformation, I’m here to guide you.

Social Media Links:


About Me:

I have cared for many family members across the life span, experiencing the joys and challenges of child-rearing, the poignance of caring for parents, friends, and elder partners. I realized that I could not handle the stress of family caregiving 24/7/365. It was time for a new approach to caring. My health and happiness were slipping away. This is how Think to Thrive for Caregivers evolved. Let your mind meet your heart so you don’t lose track of your life.

Connect with Me:

https://www.deborahgreenhut.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahgreenhut01/

Find my books here

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You don't have to follow someone else’s definition of success to create a life that lights you up. Sitting down with Dr. Michelle Montero reminded me of the power in honoring your personal values—especially when the world expects you to hustle nonstop. Michelle’s journey from academia to entrepreneurship shows what happens when you stop living in survival mode and start trusting yourself deeply. We talked about mindset shifts, the weight of invisible expectations, and how choosing joy can be one of the most radical things you do. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that looks “right” but doesn’t feel right—this one’s for you.

About Our Guest:

Dr. Michelle Montero, a licensed clinical psychologist and sports psychology consultant is dedicated to helping individuals, teams, and organizations unlock their full potential.Whether you're an athlete navigating career transitions, a professional striving for resilience, or someone seeking personal transformation, I’m here to guide you.

Social Media Links:


About Me:

I have cared for many family members across the life span, experiencing the joys and challenges of child-rearing, the poignance of caring for parents, friends, and elder partners. I realized that I could not handle the stress of family caregiving 24/7/365. It was time for a new approach to caring. My health and happiness were slipping away. This is how Think to Thrive for Caregivers evolved. Let your mind meet your heart so you don’t lose track of your life.

Connect with Me:

https://www.deborahgreenhut.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahgreenhut01/

Find my books here

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

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Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

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Connect with Me:

https://www.deborahgreenhut.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahgreenhut01/

Find my books here

Thanks for listening!

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Connect with Me:

https://www.deborahgreenhut.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahgreenhut01/

Find my books here

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

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The Sharegiving Secret: How to Survive Family Caregiving - Trust Yourself More: A Wake-Up Call from Dr. Michelle Montero | EP031

Transcript

Deborah Greenhut

Michelle, hello. It's great to have you here listening today, and my special guest is Dr Michelle Montero, who is a clinical psychologist who has a lot of great experiences working with caregivers and all the subjects around it. So I'm going to give Michelle a moment to introduce herself and tell us a bit about how she came to do what she's doing. Michelle, Hi, Dr Michelle Montero: thanks for having me. So I'm Dr Michelle Montero. I'm a cl

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