164. Scarce or Spoiled? When Scarcity Mindset Becomes Entitlement

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08/25/22 • 49 min

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Let's talk entitlement and scarcity...and how the two actually go together. Entitlement says, "I deserve a relationship, because I am a wonderful person. I am a catch. I'm amazing." Scarcity says, "I can't have what I want (or deserve) because there isn't enough to go around, so I'm going to turn whatever I have into the thing that I feel I deserve." When both of these mindsets show up to a party together, only trouble can come out of it, right? No matter what you might think, these attitudes aren't going to get you the relationship you're looking for. You know why? The universe doesn't owe you a relationship just because you're a nice or fun or cool person. You can't just show up and expect it to fall into your lap. You have to do the work...and there is work to do. There is a way to get what you want. But you have to learn how to get rid of that entitlement mindset first. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101

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163. Do You ACTUALLY Want a Relationship Like You Say You Do?

So it's happened again. You've been seeing someone for a while now, but you're eternally caught in the "talking" stage, with no official label in sight. The person you're seeing seems perfectly content to continue on in your "situationship," enjoying the lack of pressure (and lack of commitment) and you're once again getting fed up. You don't understand why everyone you come across is happy to go with the flow while you want a relationship... ...Or do you? Today, I'm going to help you figure out why you keep getting caught in this cycle, why you keep attracting unsure partners, and why you might not actually want what you say you want. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcWR?coupon_code=LETSPLAY Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101

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165. Are You Open to Receiving Love?

We've been talking a lot about vulnerability lately...but what happens if you avoid that kind of intimacy with your partner? For those who lean avoidant in their dating life, it's usually because you're trying to protect yourself. But when you hide behind walls to try and make yourself look better, you cut off the beating heart of connection and love: emotional vulnerability. When you refuse to let someone see the softer parts of you, the messier parts, the "What if they can't handle this?" parts...it doesn't make you safer. It actually closes you off from receiving love, and closes your partner off from trusting you with their more intimate parts, too! But how do you solve this as an avoidant or anxious-avoidant dater? If you have no idea where to begin, don't worry—I'm here today to help you get started. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix DM WOD to get access to enrollment for Woman of Desire. This premium 4-month live group program is designed to help you manifest the relationship that matches your standards. Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101