Queer Ancestral & Sexual Healing with Pavini Moray

06/04/18 • 32 min

Pavini Moray, M. Ed., offers Somatic Sex Therapy and Ancestral Lineage Repair to a wide variety of clients from all around the world: they often work with queer and straight women, trans folks, queer couples, and genderqueer/gender-fabulous humans.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of desire and pleasure, and how it gets complicated in the presence of trauma. Pavini talks about how to know if you’re not living your body, and getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Lastly they explore the transmission of trans-generational trauma and its effects on the body and sexual well-being.

Episode Highlights

The body as a source of intelligence, wisdom and kindness.
Including our bodies in the conversations we have about sex.
“Being embodied gives us more access to all of who we are.”
Tuning into our bodies helps us connect to our humanness.
Building capacity to be present with all emotions and sensations in our body.
"Transcestors" and ancestral healing for erotic liberation.
The power of listening to the land on ancestral pilgrimage.
The wound of belonging which many queer people carry.
How connecting with well, queer ancestors is a source of support.

Pavini's web links

Emancipating Sexuality - somatic sex coaching
Transcestral Healing - ancestral lineage repair
Bespoken Bones - Pavini's podcast

Episode Highlights

The body as a source of intelligence, wisdom and kindness.
Including our bodies in the conversations we have about sex.
“Being embodied gives us more access to all of who we are.”
Tuning into our bodies helps us connect to our humanness.
Building capacity to be present with all emotions and sensations in our body.
"Transcestors" and ancestral healing for erotic liberation.
The power of listening to the land on ancestral pilgrimage.
The wound of belonging which many queer people carry.
How connecting with well, queer ancestors is a source of support.

Pavini's web links

Emancipating Sexuality - somatic sex coaching
Transcestral Healing - ancestral lineage repair
Bespoken Bones - Pavini's podcast

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Self Love for All with Bevin Branlandingham

Bevin Branlandingham is an ultra rad warrior for self-acceptance. She is a writer, aerobics instructor, healer and performer in Los Angeles, CA who believes that all bodies are good bodies and makes the world safe for people to love themselves. An award-winning Femmecee and event producer, Bevin’s monthly body positive dance party Rebel Cupcake was named one of the reasons New York City is the Best City in the World by Time Out New York. She moved to Los Angeles in 2016 and is excited to be part of an upstart community that turns the stereotype of thin obsessed Hollywood on its head. She goes live on Facebook every day, blogs at queerfatfemme.com and offers Reiki, energy healing and life purpose readings distance and locally. She teaches her one-of-a-kind healing aerobics class Fat Kid Dance Party (For All Sizes to Heal from Body Oppression) in Los Angeles, on tour and in an aerobics video available at FatKidDanceParty.com!

Episode Highlights:

Bevin talks about going from an NYC lawyer and queer party promoter to SoCal aerobics instructor and Fat activist.
How she started doing reiki healing after a tarot reading, and the benefits of energy healing on yourself and others.
The importance of creating safe and accessible spaces for fitness.
The journey from dance parties to Fat Kid Dance Party class. Holding trauma and oppression in the body, and healing it through exercise.
Creating community through self care.
Body liberation activism, body currency and being a gender warrior.

Bevin’s Social Media links

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Relationship Coaching for Single Gay Parents with Ray Hippolyte

Ray Hippolyte is known around the world as ‘The Inner AWESOME Relationship and life Architect’. He shows single parents how to ‘Out Their Inner AWESOME’ and Get the Life and relationship of their dreams by becoming ‘the ONE’ to find ‘the ONE’. Passionate, free spirited and full of life, Ray believes that finding unconditional love and acceptance is a journey that begins within. He teaches that great relationships begin with self-love. He believes that every single parent have a special purpose on the planet - to teach the world the art of unconditional love, by example. In 2002 Ray was diagnosed with HIV. He thought that his life was over. He fell into a dark, suicidal depression. And then something happened that changed the direction of his life forever. His sister – his absolute best girl friend in the world – was shot and killed. All at once he realized that life is short and it’s about taking action and fulfilling your dreams. He made a commitment to love himself unconditionally. He learned to let go of wounds associated with the traumatic experiences of his past. He learned to say no to the toxic people, activities, and things that had been keeping him stuck. And because he found the courage from within to do all of that hard work, he found his life’s purpose AND started his own family.

Episode Highlights

We discuss how divorce helped Ray grow on his spiritual path.
The ways Self love and forgiveness allows you to forgive others and recover from difficult situations.
Incorporating daily rituals to strive towards greatness and using meditation to create emotion resilience.
Letting go of fear in order to open up to a new relationship.
The first of three steps to attract your perfect partner, and how to “be the one to find the one.”

Ray's web links