TJ Butler: Dating Silky Maxwell part 2

12/28/23 • 67 min

Few of us have been through the wringer as profoundly as our guest, TJ Butler. This courageous trauma survivor and author gives us an up-close and personal look into her experiences in the adult industry, along with the trials and triumphs of growing up amid domestic violence and aging out of foster care. Our conversation dances between powerful themes of boundary-setting, forgiveness, and the long journey of unpacking trauma.
We’ll journey through uncharted territory as we discuss how platforms like OnlyFans are revolutionizing the adult entertainment sector. We share our experiences and insights about the importance of agency, power dynamics, and consent in various situations. Often, societal pressures can make us feel as if our voice doesn't matter, but we're striving to change that narrative.
Towards the end, we focus on forgiveness. It can be a complex process, especially when it comes to forgiving ourselves. We explore ways to escape the victim mindset and navigate the lifelong process of unpacking emotional baggage. It’s not about staying stuck in the past, but understanding it to shape a better future. We wrap things up by extending a heart-felt thank you to our brave guests for sharing their stories. You too can embark on your journey towards healing and resilience. You are deserving of love, happiness, and an abundance of healing. Join us and find your own path to resilience and recovery.

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The Process of Healing - TJ Butler: Dating Silky Maxwell part 2

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In every dark tunnel there's a glimmer of hope . In every painful moment , there's a strength to heal . Welcome to Surviving Abuse , the podcast that aims to help you navigate through the treacherous waters of trauma and bring you stories of resilience , empowerment and , most importantly , the reminder that there is life after trauma .

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