The Process of Healing: Grief and Loss with Special Guest Ashley Michelle
11/14/24 • 61 min
What happens when grief strikes out of the blue, and the old five-stage roadmap doesn't seem to fit? Join us as we unpack the tangled web of emotions that come with loss, whether it's the passing of a loved one, a painful breakup, a career upheaval, or the disruption of daily life. Jake shares his heart-wrenching experience of losing a friend, and we delve into the messy, non-linear process of grieving, acknowledging that the journey is as unique as the individual experiencing it. With personal stories and raw honesty, we explore how grief can co-exist with moments of joy and how creating personal spaces can facilitate healing.
Let's talk about the courage it takes to face the aftermath of trauma. From survivor's guilt to unexpected waves of sorrow, we reflect on the strength required to move forward one day at a time. Discussing the potential for finding purpose in the chaos, we explore how honoring the legacy of those we've lost can become a source of healing. Our conversation reveals personal insights into how we have navigated the darkness, weaving a narrative of resilience that emphasizes the importance of self-care, community support, and the sometimes surprising avenues for personal growth and advocacy.
Amidst these poignant reflections, we shine a light on the transformative power of community. Whether it's through the comforting presence of supportive friends, the shared stories of others who understand, or the surprising solidarity found in online networks, the episode underscores the importance of connections in rebuilding one’s life. We celebrate the strength found in community, like the story of a 16-year-old non-binary listener who found solace in an LGBTQIA network. Through these discussions, we honor the courage it takes to heal openly, reminding listeners that it is perfectly okay to not be okay, all while finding strength through shared experiences and compassionate support.
#grief #griefsucks #loss
https://ashleyinspires.com
https://open.spotify.com/show/0kCN6uh73b15zv2mOhr2az?si=5e5086232920482c
What happens when grief strikes out of the blue, and the old five-stage roadmap doesn't seem to fit? Join us as we unpack the tangled web of emotions that come with loss, whether it's the passing of a loved one, a painful breakup, a career upheaval, or the disruption of daily life. Jake shares his heart-wrenching experience of losing a friend, and we delve into the messy, non-linear process of grieving, acknowledging that the journey is as unique as the individual experiencing it. With personal stories and raw honesty, we explore how grief can co-exist with moments of joy and how creating personal spaces can facilitate healing.
Let's talk about the courage it takes to face the aftermath of trauma. From survivor's guilt to unexpected waves of sorrow, we reflect on the strength required to move forward one day at a time. Discussing the potential for finding purpose in the chaos, we explore how honoring the legacy of those we've lost can become a source of healing. Our conversation reveals personal insights into how we have navigated the darkness, weaving a narrative of resilience that emphasizes the importance of self-care, community support, and the sometimes surprising avenues for personal growth and advocacy.
Amidst these poignant reflections, we shine a light on the transformative power of community. Whether it's through the comforting presence of supportive friends, the shared stories of others who understand, or the surprising solidarity found in online networks, the episode underscores the importance of connections in rebuilding one’s life. We celebrate the strength found in community, like the story of a 16-year-old non-binary listener who found solace in an LGBTQIA network. Through these discussions, we honor the courage it takes to heal openly, reminding listeners that it is perfectly okay to not be okay, all while finding strength through shared experiences and compassionate support.
#grief #griefsucks #loss
https://ashleyinspires.com
https://open.spotify.com/show/0kCN6uh73b15zv2mOhr2az?si=5e5086232920482c
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#bookrecommendations #author #copingskills
https://www.caitlinavery.com/
https://youtu.be/yADHugJ8Q14?si=OaJ2aS1mGggq0oIk
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The Process of Healing - The Process of Healing: Grief and Loss with Special Guest Ashley Michelle
Transcript
David hello , it's so good to see you . I cannot wait for this episode . We're talking about grief and loss . I think there's going to be tears . I think there's going to be revelations and really good conversations . Hopefully , I won't talk too much , because grief fills me with anxiety . What do you think ?
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