
Love's Essence
08/14/22 • 56 min
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Everything and everyone changes. What is revealed when the green leaves of summer turn so many varied colors? Each tree, each leaf, has specific traits to it. What if love's essence is an ability to see through the personality of our partner, to what is a completely unique constellation of traits that make them who they are. Kevin and Niseema explore the concept that it is this essence that delights us and makes us fall in love. Join us this week as we help you identify the traits of your partner that hint at their essence, and to also reflect on what they might see in you.
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For more information or support contact hosts Kevin O'Donoghue LMHC or Niseema Dyan Diemer SEP at: [email protected], or call 212-757-4488.
You can sign up for our weekly newsletter at www.tffpp.org.
These are challenging times and we hope this episode served to validate and ease your anxiety about what you may be experiencing.
Please feel free to also suggest show ideas to the above email.
Thank you for listening,
Kevin and Niseema
www.tffpp.org
https://www.kevinlmhc.com
www.niseema.com
www.thepositivemindcenter.com
PRODUCTION CREDITS
Opening Music : "Another Country", Performed by: Shadowfax, Written and Produced by: Chuck Greenberg, Source:Windham Hill/Legacy
Break Music: "This Nearly was Mine." Performed by: Frank Sinatra. Written by: Oscar Hammerstien II, Richard Rodgers. Source: FRANK SINATRA DIGITAL REPRISE
End Music : TFFPP Theme - Giullian Goiello for The Foundation for Positive Psychology
The Positive Mind is produced with the help of:
Engineering: Geoff Brady
Producer: Connie Shannon
Website Design and End Music: Giullian Gioello
Marketing and PR: Jen Maguire, Maguire PR, [email protected]
Everything and everyone changes. What is revealed when the green leaves of summer turn so many varied colors? Each tree, each leaf, has specific traits to it. What if love's essence is an ability to see through the personality of our partner, to what is a completely unique constellation of traits that make them who they are. Kevin and Niseema explore the concept that it is this essence that delights us and makes us fall in love. Join us this week as we help you identify the traits of your partner that hint at their essence, and to also reflect on what they might see in you.
______________________________________
For more information or support contact hosts Kevin O'Donoghue LMHC or Niseema Dyan Diemer SEP at: [email protected], or call 212-757-4488.
You can sign up for our weekly newsletter at www.tffpp.org.
These are challenging times and we hope this episode served to validate and ease your anxiety about what you may be experiencing.
Please feel free to also suggest show ideas to the above email.
Thank you for listening,
Kevin and Niseema
www.tffpp.org
https://www.kevinlmhc.com
www.niseema.com
www.thepositivemindcenter.com
PRODUCTION CREDITS
Opening Music : "Another Country", Performed by: Shadowfax, Written and Produced by: Chuck Greenberg, Source:Windham Hill/Legacy
Break Music: "This Nearly was Mine." Performed by: Frank Sinatra. Written by: Oscar Hammerstien II, Richard Rodgers. Source: FRANK SINATRA DIGITAL REPRISE
End Music : TFFPP Theme - Giullian Goiello for The Foundation for Positive Psychology
The Positive Mind is produced with the help of:
Engineering: Geoff Brady
Producer: Connie Shannon
Website Design and End Music: Giullian Gioello
Marketing and PR: Jen Maguire, Maguire PR, [email protected]
Previous Episode

What Love is Not
Love is a feeling, not a Hallmark card or a box of chocolates. It is deeper and harder than that. Love is not unconditional, it needs the right conditions to be present, to be felt.
This week Kevin and Niseema talk about love and how it is the antidote to loneliness. In looking at the questions of the UCLA Loneliness Scale it becomes clear that a lack of love, or the feeling of love, is at the core of why loneliness is so ubiquitous. In looking at love and the ways it shapes our experience of living, we hope to inspire a thoughtful process about the meaning and feeling of love for you.
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For more information or support contact hosts Kevin O'Donoghue LMHC or Niseema Dyan Diemer SEP at: [email protected], or call 212-757-4488.
You can sign up for our weekly newsletter at www.tffpp.org.
These are challenging times and we hope this episode served to validate and ease your anxiety about what you may be experiencing.
Please feel free to also suggest show ideas to the above email.
Thank you for listening,
Kevin and Niseema
www.tffpp.org
https://www.kevinlmhc.com
www.niseema.com
www.thepositivemindcenter.com
PRODUCTION CREDITS
Opening Music : Another Country, Pure Shadowfax, Shadowfax
Break Music: "As Time Goes By", Performed by: Dooley Wilson, Written by: Max Steiner, Source: WaterTower Music
End Music : TFFPP Theme - Giullian Goiello for The Foundation for Positive Psychology
The Positive Mind is produced with the help of:
Engineering: Geoff Brady
Producer: Connie Shannon
Website Design and End Music: Giullian Gioello
Marketing and PR: Jen Maguire, Maguire PR, [email protected]
Next Episode

Love's Memory
This week Kevin and Niseema talk about research into "memory" and how our adult brains impose a memory on to our childhood brain. Statistics consistently show that the adult brain often creates a faulty "memory" of incidents that happened in the past. It's as if the brain takes a photograph of a past event and then distorts or enhances the photograph. The brain will often create a faulty memory of what love looked like in our childhood, and then project this onto future loe relationships. It can be the cause of immense, and unnecessary, suffering. It is this faulty memory that we project onto our future love relationships.
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For more information or support contact hosts Kevin O'Donoghue LMHC or Niseema Dyan Diemer SEP at: [email protected], or call 212-757-4488.
You can sign up for our weekly newsletter at www.tffpp.org.
These are challenging times and we hope this episode served to validate and ease your anxiety about what you may be experiencing.
Please feel free to also suggest show ideas to the above email.
Thank you for listening,
Kevin and Niseema
www.tffpp.org
https://www.kevinlmhc.com
www.niseema.com
www.thepositivemindcenter.com
PRODUCTION CREDITS
Opening Music : "Another Country", Performed by: Shadowfax, Written and Produced by: Chuck Greenberg, Source:Windham Hill/Legacy
Break Music: "Kodachrome." Performed, Written and Produced by: Paul Simon, Source: Legacy Recordings
End Music : TFFPP Theme - Giullian Goiello for The Foundation for Positive Psychology
The Positive Mind is produced with the help of:
Engineering: Geoff Brady
Producer: Connie Shannon
Website Design and End Music: Giullian Gioello
Marketing and PR: Jen Maguire, Maguire PR, [email protected]
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