How to Stop Letting People Get Under Your Skin

01/12/22 • 24 min

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Do you struggle with people getting under your skin? Are you easily triggered by certain comments or topics? Hoping to create positive change? In this episode sponsored by Better Help, Dr. John explores how to stop letting people get under your skin. You’ll hear about the story of Austin, a young man who lost his temper on a train. Discover approaches to counseling including EMDR and Internal Family Systems (parts therapy) as part of healing past wounds.

Do you have an internal protector, deep inside, trying to keep you from the source of your hurts? If trauma and pain are part of your past, you’ll want to listen to this episode.

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Visit Good Therapy to learn about EMDR

Link to episode 38 on how Karma wants your dreams to come true.

Learn about Internal Family Systems (parts therapy).

Helpful articles from one of the best anxiety therapist websites.

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Do you have an internal protector, deep inside, trying to keep you from the source of your hurts? If trauma and pain are part of your past, you’ll want to listen to this episode.

Important Links

Use this link to get a special offer for listeners of the podcast with Better Help.

Visit Good Therapy to learn about EMDR

Link to episode 38 on how Karma wants your dreams to come true.

Learn about Internal Family Systems (parts therapy).

Helpful articles from one of the best anxiety therapist websites.

Follow Dr. John on Social Media

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4 Keys To Changing Unhealthy Behaviors

Are you trying to change an unhealthy behavior? Do you drink too much, eat too much or smoke too much? Is there a part of you who has come to realize your relationship with gambling, porn or shopping is toxic?

In this episode of the Men’s Self-Help Podcast, Dr. John explores the process of change and how using the REST technique may be helpful. REST is the acronym for RELAX, EXAMINE, SET YOUR INTENTION, and TAKE ACTION and it comes from the world of DBT or Dialectical Behavior Therapy.

Learn how using REST may offer a powerful brain hack by allowing you to ease into creating change in your brain’s pleasure center.

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Better Help – Show Sponsor

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Learn about DBT and a technique to help control anger.

Listen to episode 33 to learn more about DBT.

Help Guide on Addiction: A Harvard Health Article with a discussion about the brain’s pleasure center and information about the nucleus accumbens as mentioned in the podcast.

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