
How to Stop Caring What People Think of You
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01/09/25 • 51 min
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Today, you’re going to learn the simple trick to stop caring what other people think.
If you find that you take things personally, worry what other people think about you, are scared of being judged, or find that you can’t stop overthinking, you’ll love this episode.
You’ll learn how to stop people-pleasing and start doing what is right for you.
Featured in today’s episode is Chrissy Teigen, who opens up about her own struggles with people-pleasing. Mel gives Chrissy the coaching session of a lifetime, and what they talk about together will resonate deeply with you.
This episode is both deeply personal and highly practical. You’ll learn:
- Why you care so much about what other people think.
- How to Let Them think bad thoughts about you.
- The tools you need to live your life on your own terms again.
Get ready to take back control of your life again and live it for yourself.
To listen to Chrissy Teigen’s new podcast on Audible, Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen, click here.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory, which she mentions in this episode, here.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this personal, tactical, and relatable episode, listen to this one next: The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory
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Today, you’re going to learn the simple trick to stop caring what other people think.
If you find that you take things personally, worry what other people think about you, are scared of being judged, or find that you can’t stop overthinking, you’ll love this episode.
You’ll learn how to stop people-pleasing and start doing what is right for you.
Featured in today’s episode is Chrissy Teigen, who opens up about her own struggles with people-pleasing. Mel gives Chrissy the coaching session of a lifetime, and what they talk about together will resonate deeply with you.
This episode is both deeply personal and highly practical. You’ll learn:
- Why you care so much about what other people think.
- How to Let Them think bad thoughts about you.
- The tools you need to live your life on your own terms again.
Get ready to take back control of your life again and live it for yourself.
To listen to Chrissy Teigen’s new podcast on Audible, Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen, click here.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory, which she mentions in this episode, here.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this personal, tactical, and relatable episode, listen to this one next: The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory
Connect with Mel:
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