Cultivating Joy: Breaking Free From Victim Stories
12/02/24 • 24 min
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In this episode of 'The Lighthouse Within' with Ambar Paloma, Ambar discusses an essential and heartfelt topic: forgiveness.
She explores not just the forgiveness of others but also self-forgiveness, as she recounts her personal journey of forgiving someone who hurt her deeply.
Ambar emphasizes the importance of releasing anger, bitterness, and resentment to reclaim peace and joy in life.
She outlines practical steps to acknowledge pain, release emotional weight, and move forward, all while challenging misconceptions about forgiveness.
As part of resilience for life changes, Ambar encourages listeners to be their own liberators, shift their victim mindset, and embrace inner healing.
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00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:23 Celebrating Milestones and Listener Impact
03:06 The Power of Forgiveness
04:15 Personal Story of Forgiveness
07:39 The Process and Benefits of Forgiveness
09:44 Misconceptions About Forgiveness and Closure
17:59 The ARM Method: A Three Step Process To Achieve Closure And Forgiveness
21:45 A Preview For Upcoming Topics
Cultivating A Joyful Mindset Mini Series Ep. 3
In this episode of 'The Lighthouse Within' with Ambar Paloma, Ambar discusses an essential and heartfelt topic: forgiveness.
She explores not just the forgiveness of others but also self-forgiveness, as she recounts her personal journey of forgiving someone who hurt her deeply.
Ambar emphasizes the importance of releasing anger, bitterness, and resentment to reclaim peace and joy in life.
She outlines practical steps to acknowledge pain, release emotional weight, and move forward, all while challenging misconceptions about forgiveness.
As part of resilience for life changes, Ambar encourages listeners to be their own liberators, shift their victim mindset, and embrace inner healing.
✨ Your Next Step:Grab your FREE copy of The Clarity Compass to help you navigate uncertainty with confidence and clarity.
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00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:23 Celebrating Milestones and Listener Impact
03:06 The Power of Forgiveness
04:15 Personal Story of Forgiveness
07:39 The Process and Benefits of Forgiveness
09:44 Misconceptions About Forgiveness and Closure
17:59 The ARM Method: A Three Step Process To Achieve Closure And Forgiveness
21:45 A Preview For Upcoming Topics
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Cultivating Joy: When Plans Don't Work Out
1 RecommendationsCultivating A Joyful Mindset Mini Series Ep. 2
In this episode of The Lighthouse Within, host Ambar Paloma discusses how to handle seasons of uncertainty and life transitions.
Drawing from her personal experiences, including a profound quarter-life crisis, Ambar explores the distinction between fleeting happiness and enduring joy.
She offers practical advice on managing anxiety and grief during uncertain times, advocating for a focus on the present and the pursuit of joy.
With references to neurological studies and quotes from influential books, Ambar guides listeners on how to reframe challenges as opportunities while fostering resilience for life changes.
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00:00 Welcome to The Lighthouse Within
00:11 Understanding Uncertainty
01:20 The Pursuit of Joy Over Happiness
02:59 Ambar's Quarter Life Crisis
07:51 The Turning Point: Moving to Spain
10:57 Embracing Uncertainty and Finding Meaning
21:18 Practical Tips for Managing Anxiety
28:54 Final Thoughts and Next Steps
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Six Inspiring Life Lessons On Facing Challenges
1 RecommendationsWhat if your most challenging moments became the stories that shaped you forever?
In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of The Lighthouse Within, Ambar Paloma takes you on a journey through six unforgettable moments from her six years living abroad. Inspired by a viral social media post, Ambar shares the wild, unexpected, and deeply transformative experiences that taught her resilience in ways she never imagined.
From the laugh-out-loud culture shocks of Spanish café etiquette to navigating jaw-dropping bureaucratic hurdles (spoiler alert: tears and sangria were involved!), and discovering the magic of saying “yes” to plan B, Ambar’s stories are as relatable as they are inspiring.
You’ll laugh. You’ll reflect. You’ll learn how to turn life’s curveballs into stepping stones.
Whether you're chasing a dream, surviving a quarter-life crisis, or just trying to make it through the day, this episode will remind you to pause, trust yourself, and embrace the beauty of the journey—even when it doesn’t go as planned.
Hit play to hear Ambar’s adventures in Spain and Portugal, and discover the resilience tips you need to thrive in 2025!
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00:00 Welcome to The Lighthouse Within
00:15 Celebrating Six Years Abroad
01:18 Holiday Plans Gone Awry
02:08 The Ultimate Voyage to Resilience
04:36 Lesson 1: Learning To Pause, "Do You Not Have 5 Minutes To Drink a Coffee"
09:34 Lesson 2: Navigating Residency Challenges And Trusting The Process
13:57 Lesson 3: Embracing Plan B and Becoming an Au Pair
19:29 Lesson 4: The English Student Who Taught Me To Face My Fears
21:09 Lesson 5: You Can't Force What Isn't Meant For You
21:52 Lesson 6: The Importance of Adaptability
23:22 Final Meditation
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