My message to you if you are unconfident.
02/01/21 • 9 min
If you are unconfident or feel bad because you don’t know much about styling, colors, etc, or feel uncomfortable in your skin because you don’t know how to look good, How to put things together, or you feel like your body isn’t the way you want, but feel stuck because you don’t know what could do...
Here are 7 things I want to share with you:
Number 1: It’s not your fault.
Unfortunately looking good isn’t taught at school, So how would you know?
Number 2: No woman is perfect. No matter how good they look.
Even the ones that look super good, aren’t perfect my friend. Perfection isn’t a part of this world. This just doesn’t exist. There’s no perfect woman. The only difference is that some women know how to use the tools to present themselves in their most powerful version. And some others don’t, that’s the only difference.
Number 3: It all starts by loving yourself unconditionally
No matter how you look, your body is the only thing in this world that is, and will always be present and ready to serve you. Just for that, it deserves your full gratitude and love.
Number 4: Styling and branding are helpful TOOLS for you
They are meant to be used to transcribe what you have inside to the outer world. Like any tool, you have to allow yourself some time to learn how to use them. The way you show up and brand yourself tells more about you than your words would ever do. We call it non-verbal communication. But how would you know how to use it if you don’t learn how to codify your message?
Number 5: Your mindset Matters. You have the power to shift it in seconds.
89% of women I worked with also feel unconfident to claim their position in society. So, they end up playing a small game by hiding behind micro-excuses. Not stepping into their power to occupy their place in society because they’re afraid some people will think they’re over-ambitious. So they stop, they hide, they find excuses. But, I’m here to tell you this, my friend.... You are qualified!
Your life story is your best Curriculum! If your heart is leading you to something, go there! Because the purpose is bigger than you, you don’t have to feel ashamed for wanting more!
Number 6: Explore your femininity, It knows everything.
Know that just by being a woman, You are powerful, You are magical, you carry the power of creation, You are the channel from which life comes in this world. Don’t you think this is a huge symbol? We are all born with the same feminine power. We have everything inside of us, all we need is to find ways to dive in, and CONNECT.
And Number 7: Surround yourself with like-minded women.
As a woman, you are a small light in the world, as you might have noticed, the world is a dark place most of the time, so what can a small light do in a dark world?
The only way your light can shine brighter is if you get closer to other small lights. Surrounding yourself with like-minded women is what helps you all shine brighter!
Stop blaming yourself for things no one taught you, just allow yourself to learn the tools.
You are powerful, you are special!
Find me on Instagram 👉🏽 @kristianecharrierClubhouse: @krischarrier
Learn more about what I do 👉🏽 www.kristianecharrier.com
Xo, Kristiane.
If you are unconfident or feel bad because you don’t know much about styling, colors, etc, or feel uncomfortable in your skin because you don’t know how to look good, How to put things together, or you feel like your body isn’t the way you want, but feel stuck because you don’t know what could do...
Here are 7 things I want to share with you:
Number 1: It’s not your fault.
Unfortunately looking good isn’t taught at school, So how would you know?
Number 2: No woman is perfect. No matter how good they look.
Even the ones that look super good, aren’t perfect my friend. Perfection isn’t a part of this world. This just doesn’t exist. There’s no perfect woman. The only difference is that some women know how to use the tools to present themselves in their most powerful version. And some others don’t, that’s the only difference.
Number 3: It all starts by loving yourself unconditionally
No matter how you look, your body is the only thing in this world that is, and will always be present and ready to serve you. Just for that, it deserves your full gratitude and love.
Number 4: Styling and branding are helpful TOOLS for you
They are meant to be used to transcribe what you have inside to the outer world. Like any tool, you have to allow yourself some time to learn how to use them. The way you show up and brand yourself tells more about you than your words would ever do. We call it non-verbal communication. But how would you know how to use it if you don’t learn how to codify your message?
Number 5: Your mindset Matters. You have the power to shift it in seconds.
89% of women I worked with also feel unconfident to claim their position in society. So, they end up playing a small game by hiding behind micro-excuses. Not stepping into their power to occupy their place in society because they’re afraid some people will think they’re over-ambitious. So they stop, they hide, they find excuses. But, I’m here to tell you this, my friend.... You are qualified!
Your life story is your best Curriculum! If your heart is leading you to something, go there! Because the purpose is bigger than you, you don’t have to feel ashamed for wanting more!
Number 6: Explore your femininity, It knows everything.
Know that just by being a woman, You are powerful, You are magical, you carry the power of creation, You are the channel from which life comes in this world. Don’t you think this is a huge symbol? We are all born with the same feminine power. We have everything inside of us, all we need is to find ways to dive in, and CONNECT.
And Number 7: Surround yourself with like-minded women.
As a woman, you are a small light in the world, as you might have noticed, the world is a dark place most of the time, so what can a small light do in a dark world?
The only way your light can shine brighter is if you get closer to other small lights. Surrounding yourself with like-minded women is what helps you all shine brighter!
Stop blaming yourself for things no one taught you, just allow yourself to learn the tools.
You are powerful, you are special!
Find me on Instagram 👉🏽 @kristianecharrierClubhouse: @krischarrier
Learn more about what I do 👉🏽 www.kristianecharrier.com
Xo, Kristiane.
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Who I Am, and Why This Podcast
In this episode, I share with you who I am, and why I created this podcast.
But before we start, here is my public disclaimer:
I’m not a native English speaker, I speak 4 languages, French, Portuguese, English, and Bulu. Bulu is a Cameroonian dialect that I’m sure you don’t know. So, my accent and my English are a sweet Polly-lingual mix, ok? 😂 Don’t expect it to be flawless, I’m a work in progress 😂
My name is Kristiane Charrier, I’m a French-Cameroonian multi-passionate entrepreneur, traveling the world with my family, and my dreams. Currently based in the US for almost 5 years, after living 5 years in Brazil. I’m 11 years married, and a mom of 2 lovely girls.
I’ve started working with women since I was 14, Styling and branding have always been my passion, I started creating designs for myself, then my family, my friends, and my friends’ friends. And at the age of 17, I created my 1st Small business in the beauty industry.
As I was working with women on their appearance, I noticed that something magical was happening at a deeper layer I could see them turning from completely unconfident to extremely powerful. And that’s how I understood the REAL power of Styling and Branding.
During my journey, I’ve seen so many amazing women self-doubting and holding themselves back from stepping into the divine power of being a WOMAN. And I’ve identified 3 fundamental things they are missing:
- The 1st one is: Connection
- The 2nd one is: Knowledge
- And the 3rd One is Mindset
But here’s what I want you to understand, lovely 👇🏽
You are the SOURCE. Everything starts and ends up with YOU. All the answers you’ve been looking out there, are actually inside of YOU. But you can only be FULLY YOU when Your Inner and your Outer are Aligned.
That’s why I’m here! And This is why I created this podcast.
The Inner Outer You is our sweet and cozy place to have deeper conversations, and I can’t wait to share my vision with you, but most importantly, I want this to be a conversation, a conversation between you and me.
Join me weekly for a sweet and friendly chat.
Find me on Instagram 👉🏽 @kristianecharrierClubhouse: @krischarrier
Learn more about what I do 👉🏽 www.kristianecharrier.com
Xo, Kristiane.
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How to find clarity and connect to your purpose.
It is known that multi-passionate people struggle with clarity because of too many ideas at the same time. Can you relate to this? 😉 Me too!
I was there until I understood the only REAL way to find clarity was 👉🏽 CONNECTION.
I used to get lost in my multiple ideas. I still have multiple ideas, but now, I have clarity. I understand the how and the when of my ideas. All this because I connect to my purpose on a daily basis through JOURNALING.
Journaling allows me to reset my energy, my mind, clarify my ideas. And it's also a great way to practice mindfulness. Journaling is my secret for clarity, and I strongly recommend you to try. 👌🏽
In this episode, I share with you how I discovered it, how I feel when I do it, and share some tips for you to try it if you've never tried it. Listen to this, and let me know what you think 😍
Special Shoutout to @Pikaman667, thank you so much for your sweet review on Apple Podcast. You have NO idea how reading your review gave me fiiire 🔥 to continue.
So encouraging, thank you! I'm grateful to be able to share all this with you, and beyond grateful to see how you enjoy it. Merci! 🤗
Find me on Instagram 👉🏽 @kristianecharrierClubhouse: @krischarrier
Learn more about what I do 👉🏽 www.kristianecharrier.com
Xo, Kristiane.
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