#114: You Don't Need To Be "Over" Your Ex To Move On!

10/17/23 • 18 min

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"Healing is definitely a journey. But a journey, as I've mentioned before, has a beginning, middle, and end."
Do you have to be completely over your ex in order to move on to your next relationship?
One of the biggest misconceptions when it comes to healing is that you have to be over your ex in order to move on. Bestie, i'm here to tell you that.. it's a myth!
Yup, you don't have to be over them in order to move on to your next relationship. And if you still have some feelings of bitterness or sadness, you don't have to beat yourself up for it. Because your attachment style says a lot about how you move on from these kinds of experiences.
And I'll tell you more in today's episode!
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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

What your attachment style says about how you move on from your ex
How our Feel, Heal, Attract system can help you heal faster
Call to Action: Remember that you are not your thoughts and feelings, don't be afraid of them, feel the feelings without acting on impulse. Tag me on Instagram if this episode helped you and pre-order my book! See links below!

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships.

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WAS THIS HELPFUL?
I’d be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 🎁 To claim your gift, submit your review screenshot to this link: bygloriazhang.com/reviews

What your attachment style says about how you move on from your ex
How our Feel, Heal, Attract system can help you heal faster
Call to Action: Remember that you are not your thoughts and feelings, don't be afraid of them, feel the feelings without acting on impulse. Tag me on Instagram if this episode helped you and pre-order my book! See links below!

Listen to Episode #9: How to Deal with Big Feelings
Book A Free Love Strategy Consult: Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.

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FREE RESOURCES:

Pre-order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"
Download my FREE Guide to Healing Your Core Wounds here
Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!

Previous Episode

#113: No More "Nice, Good Girl"! From Doormat To Decisive in 3 Steps

"You are the only person your inner child has."
Are you that "nice, good girl" who have always lived her entire life for people's love, approval and head pats?
Calling all recovering "good girls" - this episode is for you!!
If you are tired of constantly doing things for other people even if you don't want to and you always find it hard to say "no," listen up because today I'll teach you 3 practical steps to break that people-pleasing cycle.
Don't worry, bestie! You can still turn this around. How do I know? Well, I used to be one! And I hope that today's episode helps you become the person you want to be for YOURSELF, for your own inner child.
**Pre-order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing" - Get access to bonus lessons, join the community, and get notified once my book becomes available**
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

How I was raised to be a good girl and why I found myself in unfulfilling relationships
Three practical steps to transition from doormat to decisive
Call to Action: claim your position, know when to say no, don't devalue your own worth. Tag me on Instagram if this episode helped you and pre-order my book! See links below!

Book A Free Love Strategy Consult: Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.
Pre-order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"

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FREE RESOURCES:

Download my FREE Guide to Healing Your Core Wounds here
Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!

Next Episode

#115: No More "Self-Sacrificing" & Trauma Bonds with Olivia

"You are worth investing in yourself. The greatest love and joy that you can feel for yourself and for another person is on the other side of this work."
Hey Besties! Today's episode is a very inspirational story from one of my former Soulmate Program students, Olivia Luna. Olivia went from growing up in a high conflict military family, becoming a rebound girl who couldn't find meaningful relationships, to now thriving, dating, loving her life and killing it as the Creative Director of an agency!
And I'm very proud to share her story and transformation with the help of our Soulmate Program.
We also talk about why so many women become rescuers in their relationships, the generational "self sacrifice" culture, and how she found her own true voice through art.
**Pre-order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing" - Get access to bonus lessons, join the community, and get notified once my book becomes available**
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

How Olivia's childhood trauma and family dynamics affected her relationship patterns
Olivia's Soulmate Program transformation and some favorite strategies that really helped her inner child healing
Call to Action: Invest in yourself and check out our links below to see if the Soulmate Program is right for you. Tag me on Instagram if this episode helped you and pre-order my book! See links below!

Listen to Episode #14: When love hurts - Are you in a trauma bond?
Connect with Olivia @olivialuna__ @solidarity_media
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