
Minisode 1:04 - “What makes my heart ache is the suffering of children.” – The Leader’s Heartache
06/06/24 • 3 min
To help identify what change would be meaningful to you, you can look to your heart to see what makes it ache. That’s what Jonathan does in this minisode from Episode 4. And it leads him to capturing it with words that are not usually part of his vocabulary.
Listen to the full episode here: https://www.illumifyinstitute.com/podcast-the-illumify-game-changer/season1-004
To help identify what change would be meaningful to you, you can look to your heart to see what makes it ache. That’s what Jonathan does in this minisode from Episode 4. And it leads him to capturing it with words that are not usually part of his vocabulary.
Listen to the full episode here: https://www.illumifyinstitute.com/podcast-the-illumify-game-changer/season1-004
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Season 1: 04 – The Leader’s Heartache
This episode focuses on the heart to help point Jonathan to what he cares about that needs to change. He speaks of dignity, wholeness and heartache, all while experiencing a wide range of feelings coming from his heart.
00:58 Illuminate Question 3
05:07 What makes my heart ache is the suffering of children.
08:18 Dignity not always the word in the Constitutions but the digging takes us to sacred dignity.
10:10 In every newborn child, there is a dignity that doesn’t need to be earned. It’s inherent in the spirit, the soul, of the child.
13:22 The word “wholeness” is important here. We can borrow religious language into our secular life.
25:27 Our journey is one of repair. We are walking down that road to character, becoming the better version of ourselves.
31:32 The two ideas of dignity and brokenness can co-exist. I think there is a sanctity in the human soul. It lies below wholeness and sin and is inviolable.
42:40 Even just seeing it, the child suffering produces enough heartache for a lifetime. We carry it around with us.
44:44 The heart also aches because your own idea of the world, what you believe in,is being violated at the same time.
47:34 The book “1984” signals the extinction of humanity, that it could happen.
49:09 We have to understand the power of ideas to mobilize people.
54:08 What’s inspiring about the European Union is that it’s a constant, a permanent, attempt to reconcile all these competing voices. That’s what makes it heroic. Trying to reconcile competing visions of the good life.
59:06 I’ve got things to say and want to say them. What am I waiting for?
1:11:43 Digging together, you feel this is the only thing that matters because of the power of conversation.
1:19:45 Consciousness is the page.
1:27:17 Father Europe vs. Mother Europe
1:37:38 Revival or stagnation?
1:46:02 Final answer
Next Episode

Season 1: 05 – The Leader’s Integrity
In this episode, Jonathan answers the Illuminate question designed to reveal what is most meaningful to him. You could say his answer gets to the heart of the matter. Integrity plays a pivotal role in this conversation, and we see new dimensions of a leader’s vision.
00:58 Reference Card Reading
03:12 Illuminate Question 4
07:11 The heart as tool of discernment and ultimate filter
11:11 Renewing our heart to connect, function and act
15:53 Accessing courage
10:25 Integrity ( wholeness, facing yourself, accountability)
28:00 Necessity for visionary not to have tolerance for anything but the purest of integrity
30:50 Relationship between necessary and intolerable
33:18 The vision represents something new and whole versus woolly and vague
36:04 Elevating a vision to open a path to new ground
42:34 Vital to examine why vision is necessary and what happens if you don’t follow through
46:02 Necessity brings in the hard edge to vision
50:00 Great leaders make powerful declarations
55:18 All visions are declarations, painting the big picture of a world that does not exist yet
58:56 Empathy
1:03:56 Do we need to take on the feelings of others?
1:07:34 Final Answer to Illuminate Question 4
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