
Reclaiming Authenticity: Unmasking After Complex Trauma and Embracing Self-Love
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10/02/23 • 15 min
Emerging from the shadows of complex trauma, we can often find ourselves hidden beneath layers of protective personas - masks that shield us, yet also disconnect us from our authentic selves. In this raw and reverberating episode of Hidden Healing, we delve into the maze of identity, exploring how we can reclaim our personal agency and find our way back to genuine selfhood.
Starting with my own journey from the grips of complex trauma, we explore how these protective masks form and how we can dismantle them to uncover our true identities. We discuss the transformative power of self-love and acceptance and provide practical and emotional tools such as journaling, meditation, and therapeutic guidance to assist you on your path to authenticity. Beyond the personal, we also delve into the impact of our shared narratives, examining how breaking the silence on our trauma stories can help liberate not just ourselves, but future generations. So let's embark on this voyage together, as we navigate the uncharted waters of healing, authenticity, and reclaiming our true selves.
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This podcast is not meant to take the place of therapy, to diagnose or treat anyone. I have had therapy as recently as 2021 and found it very helpful. I am not a doctor. My only degree is in computers. I am simply sharing tools I have used to help myself grow to become an emotionally healthy person and sharing stories about my journey. Please seek medical help, as I did, if you are unable to cope with life and all that it brings.
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Emerging from the shadows of complex trauma, we can often find ourselves hidden beneath layers of protective personas - masks that shield us, yet also disconnect us from our authentic selves. In this raw and reverberating episode of Hidden Healing, we delve into the maze of identity, exploring how we can reclaim our personal agency and find our way back to genuine selfhood.
Starting with my own journey from the grips of complex trauma, we explore how these protective masks form and how we can dismantle them to uncover our true identities. We discuss the transformative power of self-love and acceptance and provide practical and emotional tools such as journaling, meditation, and therapeutic guidance to assist you on your path to authenticity. Beyond the personal, we also delve into the impact of our shared narratives, examining how breaking the silence on our trauma stories can help liberate not just ourselves, but future generations. So let's embark on this voyage together, as we navigate the uncharted waters of healing, authenticity, and reclaiming our true selves.
Join Our FREE Online Community.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/healingherchildhood/
Also, DM me if you would like to chat about how I can help you in your journey to emotional health and balance.
This podcast is not meant to take the place of therapy, to diagnose or treat anyone. I have had therapy as recently as 2021 and found it very helpful. I am not a doctor. My only degree is in computers. I am simply sharing tools I have used to help myself grow to become an emotionally healthy person and sharing stories about my journey. Please seek medical help, as I did, if you are unable to cope with life and all that it brings.
Acoustic/Folk Instrumental by Hyde - Free Instrumentals https://soundcloud.com/davidhydemusic
Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported— CC BY 3.0
Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/acoustic-folk-instrumental
Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/YKdXVnaHfo8
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This podcast is not meant to take the place of therapy, to diagnose or treat anyone. I have had therapy as recently as 2021 and found it very helpful. I am not a doctor. My only degree is in computers. I am simply sharing tools I have used to help myself grow to become an emotionally healthy person and sharing stories about my journey. Please seek medical help, as I did, if you are unable to cope with life and all that it brings.
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Join Our FREE Online Community.
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Also, DM me if you would like to chat about how I can help you in your journey to emotional health and balance.
This podcast is not meant to take the place of therapy, to diagnose or treat anyone. I have had therapy as recently as 2021 and found it very helpful. I am not a doctor. My only degree is in computers. I am simply sharing tools I have used to help myself grow to become an emotionally healthy person and sharing stories about my journey. Please seek medical help, as I did, if you are unable to cope with life and all that it brings.
Acoustic/Folk Instrumental by Hyde - Free Instrumentals https://soundcloud.com/davidhydemusic
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The Hidden Healing of Emotions -The Heroine's Journey - Reclaiming Authenticity: Unmasking After Complex Trauma and Embracing Self-Love
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Welcome to the Hidden Healing Podcast . Thank you for stopping by to take a listen . I have a few questions for you . Did you grow up with a lot of adverse childhood experiences ? Do you live in the toxic stress of fight or flight , feeling constantly triggered by things that make you feel unsafe ? Well , you're in the right place .
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