SlutStyles
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03/08/23 • 42 min
We’re going deep again, and personal. As an extension of a conversation that we were having casually the other night, we decided to address some changes for each of us in our own Slut-styles, as we are embarking on building the SlutSisterhood. We always share that our definition of SLUT is Sexually Liberated, Unshamed and Transformed, and that all femme-identifying folx are welcome at the never-ending table. But what does that mean...for each of us, and collectively?
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- Acknowledging that pretty significant changes have taken place for us since meeting, and that along with those changes there is a bit of a sadness;
- Reiterating the expansive definition of SLUT for our listeners - there is no one-size fits all and sluthood looks different for all individuals;
- How society has cast aside and shamed sluts;
- Áine walks us through her journey to get to know herself as a solo individual, and how she had to come to terms with the fact that she didn’t know what her own desires were;
- How tendencies toward codependency and people-pleasing can impact our ability to know our “yes’s” and “no’s”;
- How energetics work for each of us - whether energy leads, or follows intention;
- Scarlet describes her hedonistic, insatiable style of play, but how it has changed in really nuanced ways in recent years; and
- How kink fits into both of our styles; and
- A message for our Trans Sisters.
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Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
We’re going deep again, and personal. As an extension of a conversation that we were having casually the other night, we decided to address some changes for each of us in our own Slut-styles, as we are embarking on building the SlutSisterhood. We always share that our definition of SLUT is Sexually Liberated, Unshamed and Transformed, and that all femme-identifying folx are welcome at the never-ending table. But what does that mean...for each of us, and collectively?
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- Acknowledging that pretty significant changes have taken place for us since meeting, and that along with those changes there is a bit of a sadness;
- Reiterating the expansive definition of SLUT for our listeners - there is no one-size fits all and sluthood looks different for all individuals;
- How society has cast aside and shamed sluts;
- Áine walks us through her journey to get to know herself as a solo individual, and how she had to come to terms with the fact that she didn’t know what her own desires were;
- How tendencies toward codependency and people-pleasing can impact our ability to know our “yes’s” and “no’s”;
- How energetics work for each of us - whether energy leads, or follows intention;
- Scarlet describes her hedonistic, insatiable style of play, but how it has changed in really nuanced ways in recent years; and
- How kink fits into both of our styles; and
- A message for our Trans Sisters.
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Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
Previous Episode
Becoming Multi-Orgasmic w/ Catherine Drysdale
Loves, we could not be more thrilled to bring you a conversation this week with sex and relationship coach Catherine Drysdale. In October 2018, Catherine started an Instagram account focused on mental health + mindset, which turned into becoming certified as a life coach and eventually a certified sex coach. Throughout her journey, Catherine experienced many twists and turns, including a sexual assault she navigated publicly. Catherine has been a friend of TFY and SlutSisters for some time now, and we are so grateful she chose to come on and speak with us for today’s episode.
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- How Catherine took her struggle with mental health difficulties and transformed her life and her career path.
- How Catherine utilizes the good, the bad and the ugly as a tool for relating to others in her coaching practices.
- Surviving sexual assault trauma, and navigating the reconnection to self, pleasure and sensuality.
- Working with women to help them understand that their pleasure matters.
- Becoming Multi-Orgasmic!!
- The difficulty and grief that comes from having your bodily autonomy and reproductive health freedoms stripped from you.
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Follow Catherine:
- Website
- Instagram: @iamcatherinedrysdale
- Enroll in Catherine’s Multi-Orgasmic Mini Course, and use the code “Yoniverse” to receive $10 off!
- TikTok: @iamcatherinedrysdale
- Twitter: @urpleasurepath
Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
Next Episode
PrEP-ing for Great Sex with Maggie White
Friends and lovers, we have a very special treat for you today and we can barely contain ourselves. Scarlet’s sexual health practitioner, Maggie White, FNP, is here in the Yoniverse talking all things sexual health, STIs and testing, and HIV prevention. Maggie brings 12 years of experience in community health and HIV primary care and research, and is certified by the American Academy of HIV Medicine as an HIV Specialist. Her other clinical interests include Hepatitis C, sexual health and gender affirming care.
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- How Scarlet found Maggie after searching for a better solution for her regular STI health testing and overall sexual health;
- Maggie’s background in sexual health, and how she entered into public health and specialized in HIV and HIV prevention;
- How femme representation is lacking in the patient population that is being treated for HIV prevention - and why that is;
- When pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) came on the scene (a decade ago), and how stigmatized and misunderstood it has been;
- Scarlet’s personal and empowering decision to step into PrEP treatment to care for herself and any of her sexual partners;
- Distinguishing between oral and injectable PrEP, and how PrEP works;
- STI testing gone wrong - how healthcare providers do not always ask the questions they should to provide the best tests for the individual;
- Dental dams..let’s be honest - is anyone using them?!;
- Questions from the audience!
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Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
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