🎙️ Ep 029 – Rebel Rhyder: Tentacle Toys & Engineering to Extreme P*rn

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04/25/25 • 56 min

The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 029

“Rebel Rhyder: Tentacle Toys & Engineering to Extreme P*rn”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rebel Rhyder (@RebelRhyderXXX)

Rebel Rhyder opens up about her wildest experiences in the adult world—from shooting a basketball out of her booty to organizing not one, but two g*ng b*ngs with 102 men. And yes, she shares all the jaw-dropping logistics behind those events (fluffers, wristbands, the lube situation—you name it).

She and Kate get into the weirdest things she’s shoved in her a**, how she made the leap from aerospace engineer to p*rn star, and what it’s like watching her husband shoot scenes with other women while she films naked behind the camera.

There’s talk of tentacle play, submissive fantasies, working with trans performers, and the secret soft spot she has for frail old men. This episode is part sex-ed, part pure chaos—and all Rebel.

Follow @RebelRhyderXXX for more of her outrageous adventures and wild content.

Dirty Secrets Ep 029

“Rebel Rhyder: Tentacle Toys & Engineering to Extreme P*rn”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rebel Rhyder (@RebelRhyderXXX)

There’s talk of tentacle play, submissive fantasies, working with trans performers, and the secret soft spot she has for frail old men. This episode is part sex-ed, part pure chaos—and all Rebel.

Follow @RebelRhyderXXX for more of her outrageous adventures and wild content.

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🎙️ Ep 028 – Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator

Dirty Secrets Ep 028

“Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Elayna Love (@elaynalovesglamor)

Kate sits down with Elayna Love, a stripper, OnlyF’s creator, and phone sx operator who opens up about her journey from devout Mormon to erotic entrepreneur. Elayna shares how she navigated the world of sx work after years of repression and shame, revealing how the stripper pole became both her stage and her fantasy.

They dive into the wild world of fetishes—from nose-blowing requests to humiliating powerful men—and how she found healing through domination, roleplay, and radical self-acceptance. With raw honesty and unexpected humor, Elayna talks about climbing out of religious guilt, doing lap dances as a form of therapy, and why her “dirty secret” is thinking about pole dancing when she gets off.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes of NiteFlirt, strip clubs, and the real emotional journey of someone reclaiming her sexual identity—this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

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🎙️ Ep 030 – Rocky Emerson: From Gothic Giantess to Porn’s Most Unfiltered Voice

Dirty Secrets Ep 030

“Rocky Emerson: From Gothic Giantess to Porn’s Most Unfiltered Voice”

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rocky Emerson

Rocky Emerson is 6'3", tattooed, and totally unfiltered—and in this episode, she opens up like never before. From her early days as a goth kid in Utah to becoming one of the most recognizable alt stars in adult film, Rocky shares howshe built a career on her own terms.

She talks about navigating the industry as a tall, heavily tattooed performer, her love for BDSM and taboo kinks, and why she’s never been afraid to speak her mind—even when it ruffles feathers. Rocky also dives into her experiences withmental health, body image, and the challenges of being both a performer and a person with boundaries.

This is a raw, honest, and often hilarious conversation with one of porn’s most compelling voices.