The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 027

“Carmen Valentina: 14 Guys, Wild Customs & Her No-Anal Rule”

Veteran adult film star Carmen Valentina joins Kate to talk about her 16-year career in the industry, why she prefers gangbangs over 3somes, and what it’s really like on set. Carmen opens up about her first shoot off Craigslist, how she got into Hustler, and the unexpected ease of 14-man blowbangs.

She dishes on why she refuses to do anal (you’ll want to hear the horror stories), how MILF roles took over her bookings, and the weirdest custom request she’s ever received. Plus, the two bond over Hitachi wands, clit sensitivity, and the dangers of cheap boob jobs. This is an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest look at the adult industry—one that covers everything from SPH to the politics of AVN parties.

Tune in if you’re ready to learn what porn stars really think about d*ck size, swinging, and their own high sex drives.

Follow @bootyfulcarmenvalentina for more uncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 024

“Milli & Jasmin: 3somes, Dating Scammers & OnlyF’s Hustle”

Kate sits down with UK creators Milli and Jasmin to talk about their wildest dating stories, including exes whoturned out to be full-blown scammers, love triangles gone wrong, and the time one of them was literally held hostage in a hotel room.

They dive into the ups and downs of their OnlyF’s careers, from the most bizarre custom requests to making contentwith partners who can’t handle the heat. Plus, they spill on their wildest 3some experiences, public play adventures, and how they ended up dropping a tape inside a Cheesecake Factory.

From escaping toxic relationships to navigating the world of adult content, this episode is full of jaw-dropping moments and unfiltered honesty.

Follow @thekatykat, @milligeorgexx and @jasminheaneybaby for more!

Dirty Secrets Ep 028

“Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Elayna Love (@elaynalovesglamor)

Kate sits down with Elayna Love, a stripper, OnlyF’s creator, and phone sx operator who opens up about her journey from devout Mormon to erotic entrepreneur. Elayna shares how she navigated the world of sx work after years of repression and shame, revealing how the stripper pole became both her stage and her fantasy.

They dive into the wild world of fetishes—from nose-blowing requests to humiliating powerful men—and how she found healing through domination, roleplay, and radical self-acceptance. With raw honesty and unexpected humor, Elayna talks about climbing out of religious guilt, doing lap dances as a form of therapy, and why her “dirty secret” is thinking about pole dancing when she gets off.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes of NiteFlirt, strip clubs, and the real emotional journey of someone reclaiming her sexual identity—this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

Dirty Secrets Ep 021

“Momma B: MILFs, Open Marriages & Orgies”

Kate Shelor welcomes the powerhouse MILF creator, Momma B (@mommabombshell), for a deep dive into the world of OnlyFans success, open relationships, and the art of collaboration in the adult industry. Momma B shares how her own daughter convinced her to start OF, the wildest moments from her collab houses, and why she believes in sex without shame.

She dishes on her experiences with orgies, pegging, bisexuality, and how she helps new creators navigate theindustry while maintaining professionalism. Plus, she reveals the biggest misconceptions people have about her and what it’s really like being married while working in adult content.

Follow @mommabombshell and @DirtySecretsPodcast for more!

Dirty Secrets Ep 001

“The Dom “Top": Psychology of Fetish Play & BDSM Dynamics with Anya" Join Kate Shelor on the Dirty Secrets Podcast as she delves into the world of fetish play and BDSM with Adoring Anya! As a licensed mental health professional and professional dom, Anya shares her unique insights on the psychology behind domination and submission, and how it can enhance intimacy and connection in the bedroom.In this episode, Kate and Anya explore what the rules and boundaries of fetish play, the importance of aftercare, and the dynamics involved in these types of relationships. From exploring desires to navigating power dynamics, this conversation is not for the faint of heart! Get ready to learn from a true expert in the field, and discover the secrets to unleashing your inner dominant or submissive. Whether you're a seasoned player or just curious about the world of BDSM, this episode is sure to leave you informed, intrigued, and maybe even a little inspired.

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