🎙️ Ep 027 – Carmen Valentina: 14 Guys, Wild Customs & Her No-Anal Rule

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04/11/25 • 48 min

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The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 027

“Carmen Valentina: 14 Guys, Wild Customs & Her No-Anal Rule”

Veteran adult film star Carmen Valentina joins Kate to talk about her 16-year career in the industry, why she prefers gangbangs over 3somes, and what it’s really like on set. Carmen opens up about her first shoot off Craigslist, how she got into Hustler, and the unexpected ease of 14-man blowbangs.

She dishes on why she refuses to do anal (you’ll want to hear the horror stories), how MILF roles took over her bookings, and the weirdest custom request she’s ever received. Plus, the two bond over Hitachi wands, clit sensitivity, and the dangers of cheap boob jobs. This is an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest look at the adult industry—one that covers everything from SPH to the politics of AVN parties.

Tune in if you’re ready to learn what porn stars really think about d*ck size, swinging, and their own high sex drives.

Follow @bootyfulcarmenvalentina for more uncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 027

“Carmen Valentina: 14 Guys, Wild Customs & Her No-Anal Rule”

Tune in if you’re ready to learn what porn stars really think about d*ck size, swinging, and their own high sex drives.

Follow @bootyfulcarmenvalentina for more uncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

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🎙️ Ep 026 – Veronica Avluv: Milf Stardom, Taboo Fantasies & Why She’ll Never Retire

Dirty Secrets Ep 026

“Milf Stardom, Taboo Fantasies & Why She’ll Never Retire”

Veronica Avluv is the ultimate MILF legend—bold, smart, and unfiltered. In this episode, Kate and Veronica dive deep into her wild ride through the adult industry, how she became a fan-favorite in taboo roles, and the truth behind those steamy stepmom scenes.

They get into everything from industry politics to Veronica’s love for real connection on camera, why she doesn’t believe in aging out of sx work, and her thoughts on how p*rn has changed over the years. Plus, she shares why she’ll never fully retire—and how she keeps fans hooked decades into her career.

This one’s funny, fiery, and full of behind-the-scenes dirt from a true icon.

Follow @TheOnlyVeronicaAvluv for moreuncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @TheOnlyVeronicaAvluv

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🎙️ Ep 028 – Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator

Dirty Secrets Ep 028

“Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Elayna Love (@elaynalovesglamor)

Kate sits down with Elayna Love, a stripper, OnlyF’s creator, and phone sx operator who opens up about her journey from devout Mormon to erotic entrepreneur. Elayna shares how she navigated the world of sx work after years of repression and shame, revealing how the stripper pole became both her stage and her fantasy.

They dive into the wild world of fetishes—from nose-blowing requests to humiliating powerful men—and how she found healing through domination, roleplay, and radical self-acceptance. With raw honesty and unexpected humor, Elayna talks about climbing out of religious guilt, doing lap dances as a form of therapy, and why her “dirty secret” is thinking about pole dancing when she gets off.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes of NiteFlirt, strip clubs, and the real emotional journey of someone reclaiming her sexual identity—this is the episode you don’t want to miss.