
#633: How to Date with Confidence
01/07/25 • 27 min
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Dating doesn’t have to be overwhelming or filled with self-doubt—it can be exciting, empowering, and confidence-boosting when you approach it with the right mindset. In this episode, we’re breaking down the essentials of dating with confidence.
You’ll learn how to:
✨ Put yourself out there and embrace opportunities.
✨ Get clear on what you want in a partner (and why it matters).
✨ Own why you’re a catch and show up authentically.
✨ Live an exciting life that naturally attracts the right people.
✨ Stop overthinking (hint: everyone has insecurities!) and enjoy the process.
Whether you're stepping back into the dating scene or simply want to show up with more self-assurance, this episode will give you practical tips and mindset shifts to date with purpose and ease. Tune in and let’s redefine what confident dating looks like for YOU!
Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/633
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🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now! www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox
💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
✅ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:
Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com
🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle
🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate
✅ STAY CONNECTED.
👉Website: https://www.trishblackwell.com/
👉Instagram: http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell
👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching
⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️
I am in the process of meeting the love of my life.
I am a catch and I have a lot to offer in a relationship.
I love meeting new people - dating is just connection.
Dating doesn’t have to be overwhelming or filled with self-doubt—it can be exciting, empowering, and confidence-boosting when you approach it with the right mindset. In this episode, we’re breaking down the essentials of dating with confidence.
You’ll learn how to:
✨ Put yourself out there and embrace opportunities.
✨ Get clear on what you want in a partner (and why it matters).
✨ Own why you’re a catch and show up authentically.
✨ Live an exciting life that naturally attracts the right people.
✨ Stop overthinking (hint: everyone has insecurities!) and enjoy the process.
Whether you're stepping back into the dating scene or simply want to show up with more self-assurance, this episode will give you practical tips and mindset shifts to date with purpose and ease. Tune in and let’s redefine what confident dating looks like for YOU!
Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/633
📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!] www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked
🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE www.trishblackwell.com/nq
🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now! www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox
💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
✅ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:
Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com
🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle
🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate
✅ STAY CONNECTED.
👉Website: https://www.trishblackwell.com/
👉Instagram: http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell
👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching
⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️
I am in the process of meeting the love of my life.
I am a catch and I have a lot to offer in a relationship.
I love meeting new people - dating is just connection.
Previous Episode

#632: How to Be More Proactive
Do you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t need to measure up to anyone, because your worth is already infinite.
In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we sometimes feel this way, how societal standards and overthinking play into it, and most importantly, how to stop letting these feelings control you. Whether it’s by shifting your focus, building daily habits that affirm your value, or embracing the beautiful quirks that make you, you, we’ve got practical strategies to help you move past the insecurities.
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're coaching on:
- How to quiet the self-critical voice when it's being super loud
- A new appraoch to thinking about your beauty
- Affirmations to see yourself with kinder eyes and more self-kindness
Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/632
📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!] www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked
🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE www.trishblackwell.com/nq
🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now! www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox
💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
✅ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:
Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com
🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle
🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate
✅ STAY CONNECTED.
👉Website: https://www.trishblackwell.com/
👉Instagram: http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell
👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching
⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️
⚫️Beginner Thought:
I am massively proactive and it makes my life easy.
⚫️Medium Thought:
I do what I say I will do and I always follow through.
⚫️Top Thought:
I am massively proactive and it makes my life easy.
Next Episode

#634: What to Do When You Feel Embarrassed + How to Get Over Your Fear of Being Embarrassed
Embarrassment is something we’ve all experienced—those moments when the spotlight feels a little too bright, and you wish you could disappear. But what if feeling embarrassed wasn’t something to fear but an opportunity for growth and connection?
In this episode, we’ll dive deep into understanding embarrassment and how to handle it with confidence and grace. You’ll learn:
- Why embarrassment is a natural part of being human.
- Simple steps to manage the heat of the moment when it strikes.
- How to reframe embarrassing experiences into personal growth.
- Practical tools to let go of overthinking and self-judgment.
- Ways to use humor and self-compassion to bounce back stronger.
Whether you’re reliving an awkward moment or worried about future social blunders, this episode will empower you to embrace embarrassment as a stepping stone to a more confident you.
Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/634
📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!] www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked
🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE www.trishblackwell.com/nq
🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now! www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox
💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
✅ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:
Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com
🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle
🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate
✅ STAY CONNECTED.
👉Website: https://www.trishblackwell.com/
👉Instagram: http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell
👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching
⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️
I am stronger than my fear of judgment.
I can laugh at myself and keep going with grace.
I'm not scared of being embarrassed.
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