Re-programming and de-programming your mind
03/24/22 • 44 min
Ep #131 - College is a wonderful opportunity to challenge your current way of thinking and feeling around your opinions, beliefs, and values. You do not have to give up anything in your pursuit of clarifications and further development of your personality - in fact, it is in the pursuit of growth you are able to increase your empathy and understanding of how others have created their opinions, beliefs, and values.
It seems the "cancel culture" has taken such a firm grip on our institutions that any conversation about the who, what, when, where, why, and how's each individual created their current way of thinking is barely a part of the conversation - and if it is a part of the conversation it is swept aside in favor of calling the person an IST or defining their behavior as an ISM.
People, institutions (like higher-education,) organizations, businesses, governments, etc., want to cancel others, or scream louder than them, in a vain attempt to squash or silence dissenting opinions, beliefs, and values.
The missed opportunities to explore one another and decipher how our minds created the views we have is destroying us as a culture, citizenry, and planet.
Am I sounding way overboard or have you noticed this too? When we shut someone down who's opinion of a social issue is different than ours, we do not change their mind, we do not gravitate them toward our thinking - we push them away, we isolate them, or worse...we magnetize them toward others with the same opinion and that actually gives them power. Power they would not have even searched for had they been given the chance to explain themselves.
The future of US, not the U-S but the plural US, is being determined today by our ability or inability to listen to someone else with an open-heart, rational thinking, and emotional intelligence.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Ep #131 - College is a wonderful opportunity to challenge your current way of thinking and feeling around your opinions, beliefs, and values. You do not have to give up anything in your pursuit of clarifications and further development of your personality - in fact, it is in the pursuit of growth you are able to increase your empathy and understanding of how others have created their opinions, beliefs, and values.
It seems the "cancel culture" has taken such a firm grip on our institutions that any conversation about the who, what, when, where, why, and how's each individual created their current way of thinking is barely a part of the conversation - and if it is a part of the conversation it is swept aside in favor of calling the person an IST or defining their behavior as an ISM.
People, institutions (like higher-education,) organizations, businesses, governments, etc., want to cancel others, or scream louder than them, in a vain attempt to squash or silence dissenting opinions, beliefs, and values.
The missed opportunities to explore one another and decipher how our minds created the views we have is destroying us as a culture, citizenry, and planet.
Am I sounding way overboard or have you noticed this too? When we shut someone down who's opinion of a social issue is different than ours, we do not change their mind, we do not gravitate them toward our thinking - we push them away, we isolate them, or worse...we magnetize them toward others with the same opinion and that actually gives them power. Power they would not have even searched for had they been given the chance to explain themselves.
The future of US, not the U-S but the plural US, is being determined today by our ability or inability to listen to someone else with an open-heart, rational thinking, and emotional intelligence.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
************************************************
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of this community. I truly appreciate your support.
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Previous Episode
The Impact Tree: Your behavior IMPACTS others
Ep #130 - The choices you start making the moment you wake up, around your mood, your day, your yesterday, your future, will greatly effect your own day, emotions, and productivity and friendliness you venture out into the world with from wake-up to go to bed.
You are making these choices. You are not stuck being I one mood or another. I am not talking about "toxic positivity" here - we are going to discuss how your behaviors and moods will effect you AND every person you come into contact with and every person they come into contact with...and the impact tree takes root from there. From third order to 100th order - your impact grow out exponentially and since the world offers so much, perhaps today we all agree to offer it back kindness and empathy.
Below are some of the models I made for the show notes. Google Mind-Mapping for examples of what this will look like on paper.
Here you can see possible impact scenarios that I wrote out. The key to creating your own Impact Tree is to remember you are not seeking the PROBABILITY that an impact will occur - rather it is the POSSIBILITY that the impact event can occur from your initial event of waking up sober or hungover/drunk.
Covid example:
initial event: covid
first order: people get sick
second order: places shut down
third order: things dont get made
fourth order: shelves empty
fifth order: people panic
sixth order: run on stores - 4th order repeats
LOOP established
YOU
initial event: sober
1: wake up sober
2: in a good/decent/better mood than waking up hungover
3: nicer to people
4: everyone starts day off in a better place
5: go to work and are nicer
6: those you touch/effect have pleasant experiences
7: they go off and pay it forward
8: your impact tree grow exponentially
9: go home in good/decent/better mood than spending the whole day hungover
10: good dinner/meal/time together
11: the loop is established
YOU
initial event: drunk
1: wake up hungover
2: not nice to people
3: they are mean to you
4a: you are meaner back
4b: they leave the house and are in bad mood
5a: huge arguments ensue
5b: mean to co-workers
6a: both in bad mood
6b: co-workers in bad mood
7: everyone has bad day
8: arguments ensue
9: go home pissed off
10: drink and or argue
11: THE LOOP is established
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
************************************************
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of this community. I truly appreciate your support.
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
The HUB: https://www.jessemogle.com/thehub/
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
Instagram: https://instagram.com/jessemogle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/
Facebook: https://facebook.com/jessemogle
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Email: [email protected]
Next Episode
Your words solidify your programming
Ep #132 - Continuing the conversation from last week, we dive into the words you use in your head toward yourself and how they are not benefitting you in your journey of personal growth and life enhancement in your life, let alone in your higher education journey.
We can push those that disagree with us into the shadows because history has shown that totally works in silencing them. Instead, let us first release the harsh judgements and criticisms of ourselves. Inside your head, there is a slew of random thoughts that come across your awareness everyday.
How do you talk to yourself?
Where do you know there is a more desirable way to communicate with yourself to yourself?
When are you now ready to embrace this new communication in your life?
Our society, our culture, our world has been beating ourselves up long enough. First sit down with yourself and agree to be kinder to yourself - that is a beautiful start.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
************************************************
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of this community. I truly appreciate your support.
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
The HUB: https://www.jessemogle.com/thehub/
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
Instagram: https://instagram.com/jessemogle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/
Facebook: https://facebook.com/jessemogle
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jessemogle
Email: [email protected]
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