The Chris Harder Show - 123: Does Money Bring You Happiness

123: Does Money Bring You Happiness

05/10/18 • 11 min

Today I’m talking about the question I probably get asked the most in regard to my podcast, and that’s, “does money bring you happiness?” This can be a complicated question, but I’ll try to break down the complicated (not-so-complicated) answer.

Money does indeed impact your happiness, but only to a certain degree. I’m a firm believer that money magnifies who you already are. If you’re a giving person, you’ll give more when you have more money. If you typically give less, you’re not likely to give any more when you do have more money. You with me?

“An unhappy person with bad habits simply becomes a wealthier person with bad habits. ”

The money doesn’t change the person – it just changes their income. But here’s what money can do...

“Having wealth increases the number of opportunities that you will find happiness. ”

On a scale of 1-10, there’s never going to be a 12 – more money doesn’t change that. But there can be multiple occurrences of a 10. Money ensures that you’ll have opportunities to have “10” experiences. Here’s what I mean... If you’re traveling and you stay at a Ritz or Four Seasons, you’re checked in right away, people know who you are, there’s more amenities, the hotel smells nice, etc. – it’s a “10” experience. Whereas if you stay at a Hampton Inn or Motel 6, you’ll likely have a nice stay, but the service isn’t the same – it’s typically just good. This applies to your car or family vacation, too. Money doesn’t guarantee happiness, but it does provide more chances to feel happy or achieve or maintain that “10” feeling.

So I ask you this, do you want a significantly higher number of peak moments (10s) and significantly lower amount of 1s and 2s? Then go out there and start chasing more wealth!

In This Episode We Talk about:

Why money magnifies who you already are
How money impacts your happiness
Why having money doesn’t guarantee happiness

Resources:

Lori’s book, A Tribe Called Bliss, is now available! Get your copy or check out if she’ll be in a city near you at ATribeCalledBliss.com

For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

“An unhappy person with bad habits simply becomes a wealthier person with bad habits. ”

The money doesn’t change the person – it just changes their income. But here’s what money can do...

“Having wealth increases the number of opportunities that you will find happiness. ”

So I ask you this, do you want a significantly higher number of peak moments (10s) and significantly lower amount of 1s and 2s? Then go out there and start chasing more wealth!

In This Episode We Talk about:

Why money magnifies who you already are
How money impacts your happiness
Why having money doesn’t guarantee happiness

Resources:

Lori’s book, A Tribe Called Bliss, is now available! Get your copy or check out if she’ll be in a city near you at ATribeCalledBliss.com

For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Previous Episode

122: Creating More WEALTH Through TRIBE with Lori Harder

I’m always excited to interview my wife, Lori Harder, but today on the eve of the official launch of her book, A Tribe Called Bliss, I’m ecstatic and so, so proud. As the subjective husband, of course I would say this book is a must-read, but because I never sugar-coat anything and am brutally honest sometimes (even with my wife), objectively I would say the exact same thing.

Today, I’m asking questions all about Lori’s new book – why she wrote it, who it’s for and how it can help you get your message out in the world with the help of a supportive tribe.

Thank you all so much for your support. If you buy the book and love it, it would mean so much to us if you would write a review, share and/or gift the book to someone else. Cannot wait to hear all the epic tribe-building stories!

Question Highlights:

Why did you write A Tribe Called Bliss?
How did you write this book with your background/upbringing?
Who is this book for?
How did you get yourself in the position to tell your personal stories?
Could you have written this book had you not mastered tribe?
Who are some of the people in your tribe that got you through?
Will this book help people find their tribes?
What effect has tribe had on your earning power?
Can people make more money if they create a tribe like you?
What are you most excited about with your book release?

In This Episode We Talk about:

Lori’s book-writing journey – how and why she wrote A Tribe Called Bliss
Why this book is for anyone in any type of relationship
Becoming the person that will attract your desired tribe
Clearing your stories
How tribe takes you from transition to transcending in a fun and accelerated way
Lori’s tribe/mastermind and how they’ve supported her (and vice versa)
How tribe opens up a new dialogue between women
Why you need more than just a partner to talk to
How tribe and wealth go hand in hand
Tribe and philanthropy
How tribe pays you back – both financially and personally
And so much more...

Lori’s Thoughts...

“You’re not going to get where you want to go without trying and failing.”

“If you want more you’ve got to learn how to show up more unapologetically you.”

Resources:

IG: @loriharder

ATribeCalledBliss.com

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Buy A Tribe Called Bliss (releases May 8)
Find out the latest on Lori’s book tour and join the world’s biggest tribe book club

A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder

Available at loriharder.com/amazon

Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/

For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Next Episode

124: How Massive Forgiveness Can Bring You Wealth with Mahsheed Barghisavar

I’m certain that today’s guest, Mahsheed Barghisavar, and I were meant to cross paths so she could be a guest on the show. Having met at my wife’s Bliss Project event earlier this year, I started following her on social media only to find out what a successful real estate professional and philanthropist she was! But what most people don’t know is that Mahsheed didn’t start out on top... her success didn’t actually come until after she’d filed for bankruptcy.

After landing the “dream” client and relying on her faith and other sources of inspiration, today Mahsheed is one Las Vegas’ top real estate professionals and shows no signs of slowing down. After all, it’s with this wild success that she is able to partner regularly with the Make-A-Wish Foundation to help kids’ dreams come true.

Tune in to hear all the details on how Mahsheed is inspiring and creating a ripple effect with her success – I think you’ll be surprised at the wild journey it too to get her there!

Question Highlights:

What’s your favorite quote?
What’s one of your superpowers?
What’s one thing you’re afraid of?
What’s one of your favorite accomplishments so far?
Where did this incredible knack for sales and business come from?
Would you credit your dad or mom for being in such a great financial position today?
Do you remember any moment or lesson that’s stuck with you that’s added to your success?
What did you learn when you were working in the car business?
How did you begin to put together the insane career and wealth you have today?
How are things with your dad now? Did you ever forgive him?
What’s your advice for people who are trying to forgive someone?
What have you learned from affluent people by working so closely with them, and how do they view money and wealth?
Why do you work so closely with the Make-A-Wish Foundation?

In This Episode We Talk about:

How Mahsheed became a top real estate professional in Las Vegas
How Joel Osteen, books and her faith changed the path of her life
Hitting rock bottom, filing for bankruptcy and how Mahsheed got back on the track for success
Why forgiveness is now so easy for Mahsheed
Why Mahsheed works so closely with the Make-A-Wish Foundation
The power of giving
And so much more...

Mahsheed’s Thoughts...

“Money was a form of freedom and power for me.”

“I believed I could have it easy.”

“Giving helps you live a more fulfilled life.”

Mahsheed Barghisavar has been one of the most preeminent residential Real Estate Brokers in Las Vegas Nevada’s Real Estate Market since 2006. She has had over $100 million in sales and is currently one of the top 3% of Real Estate Brokers in Las Vegas. As a young, compassionate real estate leader in the Las Vegas community, Mahsheed is highly driven and strives to find her clients the perfect home or real estate investment in any given real estate market. With 12 years of experience, she knows how to find her clients exactly what they are looking for. She serves a distinguished list of clientele with unsurpassed discretion, market knowledge, personal service, and commitment to building enduring relationships.

Prior to her real estate career, Mahsheed was a managing partner for her father’s car dealership in the Greater Las Vegas Area, focusing her attention on the marketing aspect of the company as well as handling day-to-day financing and business accounts. At the age of 22, she began to invest on her own, purchased and flipped 5 homes as well as a commercial land lot all within one year.

Mahsheed is very involved with giving back and is partners with the Make a Wish Foundation of Southern Nevada. For every transaction closed, a portion of her commissions are donated to Make a Wish. She is also involved with Anti-Bullying organizations and is a huge advocate of self-love and spreading kindness throughout the world.

Mahsheed has been featured in numerous magazines such as Vegas Magazine, Deluxe Version Magazine, 944 Magazine, Luxury Magazine, Rounder Magazine, 702 Magazine and Hoss Magazine. She has also been featured for her charity work on Fox 5 MORE, Fox 5 MORE ACCESS, ABC Channel 13 Las Vegas News and The Blend.

Resources:

IG: @mahsheedb

Mahsheed.com

For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.