Made in Chelsea Star Amelia Mist Reveals How Ignoring Red Flags Led to a DEVASTATING Breakup!

03/27/25 • 32 min

"The amount of times I was convulsing, werewolf-style in the shower..." These raw, vulnerable words capture the excruciating pain that follows the end of a five-year relationship built on shaky foundations. This episode offers a searingly honest conversation about love, betrayal, and the difficult journey back to self-worth.
Our guest reveals how she documented red flags just eight months into her relationship – writing letters she never sent but kept as evidence of behavior she couldn't quite face at the time. Looking back, she sees how placing her entire purpose in another person led to losing herself completely. The relationship had evolved past casual dating into shared property, a countryside home, and even adopting a dog together – making the eventual breakup all the more devastating.
We explore the modern relationship challenges social media creates, with our guest passionately explaining why liking provocative photos constitutes a clear boundary violation. "Don't put your finger on the double tap," she advises men in relationships, highlighting how these seemingly small actions reveal deeper issues of respect.
What makes this conversation particularly valuable is witnessing someone in the active process of healing. Having broken up just months prior to recording, our guest speaks with remarkable clarity about her journey – from inconsolable grief to emerging self-awareness. Her advice for those in the trenches of heartbreak is practical: limit drinking to avoid emotional spiraling, cut nights short before impulsive decisions happen, seek refuge in nature, and focus on rebuilding your independent identity.
This episode offers a compassionate roadmap for anyone who's stayed too long in a relationship that wasn't serving them. Listen now to explore the complex emotions of heartbreak and discover how even the most painful endings can lead to powerful new beginnings.

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Previous Episode

Do You Need CLOSURE...Or Do You Just Miss Your Ex????

Why do we desperately chase closure after a relationship ends? Is it really about finding answers, or is it something deeper and more complicated?
In this raw, honest conversation, we explore the psychology behind those post-breakup "closure talks" that so many of us have experienced. From the awkward coffee dates to the tearful FaceTime calls, we dissect what we're really seeking when we ask for "one last conversation" with someone who's walked away.
"Every time I have a closure conversation, I have more questions and I never end up asking them, so I kind of end up leaving closureless," one host admits, capturing the frustrating cycle many find themselves in. We tackle the uncomfortable truth that sometimes these conversations are less about healing and more about trying to win someone back – complete with the strategic outfit choices and perfectly timed vulnerability.
We share practical advice for those determined to have the closure talk: wait at least a week after the breakup, prepare your thoughts in advance, look your absolute best, and focus on understanding rather than accusations. But we also challenge listeners to consider whether external closure is even necessary. Could the healthiest form of closure be finding it within yourself?
The conversation takes a powerful turn when we discuss the validity of all relationship endings, whether from marriages, long-term partnerships, or situationships. "Every breakup is valid...and you're allowed to feel bad and feel hurt, even if it wasn't a boyfriend or a husband," we emphasize, acknowledging that connection and intimacy of any kind leaves its mark.
Ready to rethink what closure really means and how you might find it without that one last conversation? Listen now and join us on the path to genuine healing.

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Signs He’s Not That Into You (And You’re About to Get Dumped)

The slow fade might be one of the most painful ways to end a relationship - that gradual withdrawing where your partner becomes increasingly distant, leaving you wondering what you did wrong. On this raw and honest episode, we tackle this common but rarely discussed breakup method that leaves so many of us confused and heartbroken.
We break down exactly what a slow fade looks like and how to recognize when it's happening to you. Those vague "don't know" texts when you ask about plans? The decreasing intimacy? The feeling that something's off but you can't quite put your finger on it? Those aren't just in your head - they're classic signs someone's trying to exit without having the difficult conversation.
Why do people choose this cowardly approach instead of ripping off the band-aid? We explore the psychology behind slow fading, from fear of confrontation to uncertainty about their own feelings. Some people slow fade because they want to keep their options open or they're waiting for you to do the breaking up. Whatever the reason, we discuss how to protect your dignity when someone starts pulling away.
The most liberating realization? When someone shows you they want to leave, let them go. Fighting for someone who's already emotionally checked out only prolongs your pain. We share personal experiences with slow fades, ghosting, and abrupt breakups to help you navigate these painful transitions with grace, self-respect, and the knowledge that yes, it really does get better.
Listen now to arm yourself with the emotional intelligence to recognize a slow fade, the courage to address it directly, and the wisdom to know when it's time to say "boy bye" and focus on your own happiness.

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