The Break-Up Diet
Yasmin Misner and Ilma Shahrene
Welcome to The Break Up Diet—your weekly dose of self-improvement, glow-ups, and everything breakups (yes, not just the romantic ones). Hosted by Yasmin and Ilma, we’re your no-BS besties here to guide you through every type of breakup—whether it’s from a person, a toxic cycle, or even your old self.
We’re flipping the breakup narrative.
No more heartbreak—just transformation. No more setbacks—only glow-ups. Breakups are the ultimate opportunity to level up, and we’re here to help you do exactly that. Whether it's navigating friendships, situationships, or even kicking bad habits (we see you, vaping!), we’ve got the raw, real talk to help you rebuild and thrive.
Grab your seat, darlings—this is where the best version of YOU begins.
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Carla Borges was in an OPEN Relationship for 3 Years and Still Got Dumped... No One's Safe!
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02/13/25 • 25 min
What happens when a monogamous relationship evolves into something more complex? Carla Borges, rising top model and dear friend, joins us to unpack her journey through the emotional landscape of open relationships and breakups. Carla's candid recount of her six-year relationship, marked by the transition from monogamy to openness, gives us a raw glimpse into her world. She opens up about how she navigated her partner's insecurities and her own path of self-discovery, including the embrace of her bisexuality. This episode offers a unique perspective on balancing personal growth with the emotional intricacies of love and loss.
Together, we tackle the nuanced dynamics of relationships, reflecting on the delicate dance between jealousy and territoriality, and how societal expectations shape our personal narratives. Our own experiences from high school relationships shed light on the challenges of polyamory and monogamy, especially during life-altering moments like university and lockdown. It's a thought-provoking conversation about the importance of setting boundaries and the fine line between connection and codependency. We share stories that illustrate how relationships can both test and nurture our personal evolution, underscoring the value of respecting ourselves and each other.
The journey doesn't end with a breakup; rather, it marks the beginning of profound self-reflection and healing. Carla and I share our experiences in processing breakups that lack definitive closure and how embracing vulnerability can lead to newfound strength. We discuss the liberation found in self-awareness and independence, and the courage required to wish for mutual growth following a breakup. This journey of personal transformation is filled with honest reflections, as we highlight the empowerment that comes from fully understanding and embracing our emotions, setting the stage for new beginnings and aspirations.
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The Truth About ‘Perfect’ Lives (and What No One’s Posting)
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04/30/25 • 30 min
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the pressure to have the perfect life? The perfect job, relationship, apartment, savings account—and to somehow make it all look effortless?
"Breaking Free from Perfectionism" tackles the impossible standards we set for ourselves and how these expectations intensify after significant life events like breakups. We explore how society gives you grace in your early twenties, but the moment you hit 25, suddenly there's pressure to have everything figured out—from career trajectories to marriage prospects.
The conversation dives into social media's role in perpetuating perfectionism. Those picture-perfect relationships you see online? Usually just carefully curated facades hiding messy realities. We share some shocking examples of seemingly ideal couples whose public personas masked serious private struggles. What appears polished and flawless often conceals years of hard work, failures, and persistence that nobody posts about.
Financial perfectionism gets special attention as we question how people manage impressive investment portfolios and savings accounts while basic necessities become increasingly expensive. Where is this money supposed to come from, and why aren't more people talking about the struggle?
The episode's most powerful insight comes in shifting focus from perfectionism to consistency. Success rarely happens overnight—it's built through consistent effort over years. We discuss reframing your journey as the "waiting zone" or "summer after exams"—that period where you've done the work and are simply waiting for results to materialize while enjoying the process.
Ready to break up with perfectionism and embrace your unique timeline? This episode offers practical wisdom for anyone feeling behind, inadequate, or stuck in comparison. Because nobody—not even that seemingly perfect person—has it all figured out.
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Do You Need CLOSURE...Or Do You Just Miss Your Ex????
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03/20/25 • 35 min
Why do we desperately chase closure after a relationship ends? Is it really about finding answers, or is it something deeper and more complicated?
In this raw, honest conversation, we explore the psychology behind those post-breakup "closure talks" that so many of us have experienced. From the awkward coffee dates to the tearful FaceTime calls, we dissect what we're really seeking when we ask for "one last conversation" with someone who's walked away.
"Every time I have a closure conversation, I have more questions and I never end up asking them, so I kind of end up leaving closureless," one host admits, capturing the frustrating cycle many find themselves in. We tackle the uncomfortable truth that sometimes these conversations are less about healing and more about trying to win someone back – complete with the strategic outfit choices and perfectly timed vulnerability.
We share practical advice for those determined to have the closure talk: wait at least a week after the breakup, prepare your thoughts in advance, look your absolute best, and focus on understanding rather than accusations. But we also challenge listeners to consider whether external closure is even necessary. Could the healthiest form of closure be finding it within yourself?
The conversation takes a powerful turn when we discuss the validity of all relationship endings, whether from marriages, long-term partnerships, or situationships. "Every breakup is valid...and you're allowed to feel bad and feel hurt, even if it wasn't a boyfriend or a husband," we emphasize, acknowledging that connection and intimacy of any kind leaves its mark.
Ready to rethink what closure really means and how you might find it without that one last conversation? Listen now and join us on the path to genuine healing.
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Ellie Dean - “healthy men are NEVER on Love Island”
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02/20/25 • 33 min
Ever wondered how reality TV shapes our understanding of social dynamics? Join us as we chat with Ellie Dean, the TikTok sensation who's redefining celebrity news with her sharp insights on shows like Love Island. Ellie brings her unique perspective on reality TV, breaking down how these programs offer a lens into human behavior and emotions. We also dive into the trials of dating in London, as Ellie shares her journey of juggling a high-pressure career with the search for genuine connection and peace.
Heartbreak becomes a transformative experience as we explore the highs and lows of navigating breakups in the age of social media. Through Ellie’s candid reflections on past relationships, we uncover the emotional aftermath of seeing an ex move on and the importance of therapy in cultivating self-awareness and growth. Discover how letting go of past connections—especially on social platforms—can lead to creative expression and newfound motivation, as Ellie channels her experiences into compelling TikTok content that resonates with many.
From dissecting parental influences on romantic choices to playful speculation about Love Island couples, we cover it all. Our conversation takes a thoughtful turn as we discuss the importance of investing in mental health and avoiding the pitfalls of rebound relationships. Finally, we touch on the theatrical antics of Curtis and Ekin, questioning where reality ends and performance begins. Join us for a flavorful discussion that promises a mix of introspection, laughter, and a glimpse into the whirlwind world of modern dating.
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We Don’t Like Valentine’s Day… Thank u, NEXT!
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02/06/25 • 32 min
Can a holiday meant for love and togetherness sometimes feel like a pressure cooker ready to explode? Join us as we share tales of Valentine's Day mishaps, where the expectation of romance meets the reality of unmet desires. We'll recount personal stories of awkward, ill-suited gifts and the struggles of planning the "perfect" day, all compounded by the pressure ramped up by social media. Listen in to find out why some of us are finding solace in Galentine's Day, and how being single on February 14th can be the most liberating experience of all.
We dive into the complexities of navigating modern relationships during this holiday. From the subtleties of tagging partners on social media to the drama of receiving flowers from a mysterious admirer, we uncover the silent codes and unspoken expectations of Valentine's Day. You'll hear about the unique challenges faced by those casually dating and how the holiday pressures us to define relationships. Yet, it's often the simplest gestures that leave a lasting impression, reminding us that love doesn't need fireworks to be meaningful.
As we close, we reflect on the emotional highs and lows that Valentine's Day can bring. From breakups to commercialized expectations, it's a day that can amplify our emotions and magnify comparisons. We'll talk about the "ick" factor that pops up when one partner lacks initiative, and how mutual effort is essential in crafting something special. Ultimately, whether you're spending the day with a partner or celebrating with friends, we've got tips on staying sane and grounded, and maybe even taking a social media break to truly savor the moments that matter.
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The Ultimate Glow-Up Guide: Level Up Your Life in 2025
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01/02/25 • 30 min
Embark on a journey of transformation as we kick off the Breakup Diet podcast, promising you the tools to shed old habits and embrace a vibrant new year. Imagine leaving the baggage of 2024 behind and stepping into 2025 with a renewed sense of purpose and clarity. Join us as we explore the power of setting specific goals rather than vague New Year's resolutions, and learn why mental health is the crucial first step to any glow-up. Personal stories will unfold, revealing how therapy and even ChatGPT have become affordable allies in breaking down daunting goals into achievable steps. Discover the liberation that comes from reprogramming negative thoughts, shedding societal expectations, and conducting a much-needed social media cleanse.
The road to a complete glow-up isn't just mental—it's physical too. Step into a world where exercise routines and skincare regimes aren't just tasks but transformative experiences that enhance your entire being. Whether you're switching from high-intensity workouts to something more grounding like barre or Pilates, or finding the magic in a simple vitamin C serum, we'll guide you through achieving consistent physical health that naturally promotes mental clarity. Embrace the independence that comes with physical strength and discover how aligning your personal style with an understanding of your body type can lead to a remarkable physical glow.
Finally, let's delve into the realms of career and financial growth. 2025 is your year to establish personal boundaries, seize new opportunities, and explore side hustles that ignite your passions. Gain insights into making financial strides through job hopping, setting standards in relationships, and rewarding yourself for hard work. We humorously tackle the age-old debate of financial responsibility versus enjoying life's small pleasures, illustrating how you can balance both. Join us as we prepare to embark on a year of self-improvement, leaving youthful excuses behind, and embracing a wiser, financially savvy future.
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RIP Hot Girl Hibernation: It’s Spring Cleaning Season
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04/17/25 • 31 min
The days are getting longer, flowers are blooming, and it's finally time to shed that winter coat of emotional baggage. Welcome to your spring awakening after heartbreak!
Ever notice how winter breakups hit differently? There's something about those dark, cold months that amplifies every painful emotion. As Ilma candidly shares from her own experience, "When I had my winter breakup, I actually thought I was going to die." The combination of Seasonal Affective Disorder and heartbreak creates a particularly potent emotional cocktail that can feel impossible to overcome.
But spring—glorious spring—brings a natural energy shift that makes taking control of your life not just possible, but exciting. It's the perfect season for reclaiming your space (both physically and emotionally), implementing boundaries, and finally acting on those self-improvement goals that hibernated alongside you all winter.
We dive deep into practical strategies for post-breakup renewal: transforming your living space to be unapologetically yours (goodbye, beard trimmings in the sink!), saging away negative energy with friends, limiting social media doom-scrolling, and adopting positive journaling practices that rewire your brain toward gratitude. Ilma shares her powerful approach: "I only choose to write positive things because your brain will then only remember positive stuff."
Throughout our conversation, we acknowledge the reality that healing isn't linear. Some days you'll feel on top of the world; others you might find yourself analyzing everything and feeling overwhelmed. That's perfectly normal—and knowing that tomorrow brings new possibilities is part of embracing this season of renewal.
So what baggage are you leaving behind this spring? What fresh start are you creating? Listen now to discover how to transform your breakup into a breakthrough, just as winter transforms into spring.
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We Broke Up on Our One-Year Anniversary… and I Still Had to Live in His House with Ava Belle
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04/23/25 • 30 min
What does heartbreak look like when it spans continents? Wedding industry veteran Ava takes us on a journey through her "global heartbreak" experiences across London, Paris, Amsterdam, and Australia, revealing how each relationship ending taught her something valuable about love and herself.
From crying for two months straight after an early breakup to developing healthier coping mechanisms as she matured, Ava's evolution offers a roadmap for anyone navigating relationship grief. "Now my life is busier," she explains. "It's like you've got two days, girl, you need to cry this out and then get back into all the positive things." Yet she emphasizes the importance of truly feeling your emotions rather than masking them with distractions.
Particularly fascinating is Ava's perspective on long-distance love, having attempted seven international relationships. She shares the raw reality of breaking up on a one-year anniversary while living in her partner's home abroad, unable to speak the local language, then cohabitating with him for another month afterward. These situations create unique challenges that test emotional resilience in profound ways.
At the heart of Ava's experiences lies a powerful shift from creating fantasy relationships to seeking authentic connections. In her twenties, she constructed idealized versions of partners, experiencing "the feeling of losing something that never existed" when these relationships ended. Through self-reflection and growth, she learned to build connections based on mutual respect and genuine admiration.
Whether you're healing from heartbreak or simply curious about relationship dynamics, this conversation offers practical wisdom about processing grief, breaking unhealthy patterns, and remaining open to love despite past disappointments. As Ava beautifully puts it, "Grief is pain because it's love that has nowhere to go."
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04/09/25 • 28 min
What happens when your wanderlust collides with your love life? Jess joins us to share her refreshingly honest perspective on choosing adventure over romance, even when the relationships were genuinely good. As a fellow Australian in London, she offers a unique window into the expat dating experience and why Aussies abroad seem to find each other everywhere they go.
Our conversation tackles the modern dating landscape with unflinching candor. From the frustrations of dating apps producing "pen pals" who never actually meet up, to the nerve-wracking art of making eye contact with attractive strangers, Jess shares both practical advice and entertaining anecdotes. Her experiments with meeting people in real life instead of through apps reveals both the challenges and unexpected rewards of taking dating offline.
Where this episode truly shines is in challenging conventional wisdom about relationships. Jess embodies what it means to be "selfish" in your twenties in the best possible way – prioritizing personal growth, travel, and self-discovery over settling down. Now approaching thirty, she's neither desperate to find someone nor closed off to possibilities, but instead occupies that rare sweet spot of genuine contentment with her single life while remaining open to someone truly special.
Whether you're nursing a broken heart, contemplating a major life move, or simply trying to navigate the bewildering world of modern dating, this conversation offers both practical wisdom and permission to put yourself first. Because sometimes the bravest thing you can do is choose yourself – even when it means saying goodbye to someone you love.
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Seb Melrose On Breakups, Betrayal & Dating After Reality TV
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03/13/25 • 37 min
"What's for you won't go by you," shares Seb Melrose as we dive into the messy, transformative world of breakups from a refreshingly honest male perspective. Our conversation takes unexpected turns as Seb vulnerably recounts discovering an ex-girlfriend's infidelity through an STI diagnosis—a rock-bottom moment that paradoxically set him on a path toward greater self-confidence and purpose.
The episode unpacks fascinating gender differences in breakup processing. While women typically fight to salvage relationships long past their expiration date, Seb suggests men are more pragmatic about cutting ties when relationships no longer serve them. This difference creates interesting tensions in how we approach relationship endings and the emotional aftermath that follows.
Faith emerges as a surprising cornerstone of Seb's healing journey. Through a beautiful metaphor comparing himself to a dog on God's leash, he explains how spirituality provided the foundation for his resilience: "I know what God has for me is way better than what's right now." This perspective transformed his experience of heartbreak from one of devastating loss to one of redirection toward something better.
Perhaps most powerfully, Seb reveals how breakups catalyzed personal transformation—from fitness improvements to launching a new business venture and becoming more discerning about who deserves his time. His journey demonstrates how relationship endings, though painful, often unlock our greatest potential for growth and self-discovery.
Whether you're currently nursing a broken heart or trying to understand past relationship patterns, this episode offers wisdom, laughter, and a roadmap for turning heartbreak into breakthrough. Listen now and discover why the end of a relationship might just be the beginning of your best chapter yet.
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FAQ
How many episodes does The Break-Up Diet have?
The Break-Up Diet currently has 31 episodes available.
What topics does The Break-Up Diet cover?
The podcast is about Healing, Society & Culture, Personal Growth, Moving On, Empowerment, Mental Health, Dating Advice, Heartbreak, Friendship, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Relationships and Love Advice.
What is the most popular episode on The Break-Up Diet?
The episode title 'Carla Borges was in an OPEN Relationship for 3 Years and Still Got Dumped... No One's Safe!' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on The Break-Up Diet?
The average episode length on The Break-Up Diet is 31 minutes.
How often are episodes of The Break-Up Diet released?
Episodes of The Break-Up Diet are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of The Break-Up Diet?
The first episode of The Break-Up Diet was released on Sep 25, 2024.
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