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Main Points:

· Understand the goal-reaching process and what makes goals happen

· Picture representation of goals for the coming year

· Construct the boards for optimum effectiveness

· Well-constructed boards that are ecological, align with values and Include 5 major areas of a person’s life: faith, fitness, family, friends, financial

· Eyes move easily around

· These work like magic

· You can create anything you want and do if you are willing to do the dream and do the work

1st know what you want: written and date-specific

A goal is a picture attached to a feeling: a feeling of already having achieved it.

We think in three different ways –experience is made up of VAKAG

The more senses involved the more likely the goal will manifest

The visual channel goes into the future – be able to see yourself reading the desired outcome

Movie, dissociated vs associated

Write goals down – use all three senses

Success = balance

Anyone can make a lot of money by working 14-16 hours a day and being focused at the expense of other areas of life.

Success is achieved when a person achieves their desired goals in a balanced

Desire, faith expectancy – in every desire is the seed of its manifestation

Do the work (be involved in the process)

Have faith that the desire will be reached

Goal questions: what skills do I have; what skills do I need?; how do I get the skills that I need?

Goals: decide what you want, give it attention, take feedback, effortless, expect

Does not achieve – feedback, adjust – may not know the bigger picture

Trust the details will be handled.

Give yourself a periodic reward

Closely timed

Understand what motivates you – what are you getting from this?

Divine discontent

Don’t get ready – get started

When reaching a goal – set a new one at the point of fulfillment

Falling short of a goal is not failure, only feedback. Many successful people don’t reach goals consistently. Set high goals to have greater achievement

Peak performance

3 peak principles of high achievement – John Noe

The boards

5 areas

Few words

Flowers add life

Appeals to you

Relationships – couples

You may have to override the organization in your mind

Sparkle – Jewelry

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I’m receiving more and more requests from people to help them with their lack of ability to fall asleep, stay asleep, and get restful sleep. So that they can wake up rested. Sleep is difficult because of the things we keep track of or have to take care of.

Sleep is a big part of calming your nervous system to manage stress (EP 79).

Hosts discuss why people can’t fall asleep.

1. How does NLP help us when it comes to getting a good night's sleep? Strategies, routine, remove lights, avoid, light, screens, heavy foods, alcohol, caffeine.

2. Now that you have a routine in place, here are some tricks and techniques for the occasional stress we might experience.

1. Relax your body. Stretch calves, neck muscles, facial muscles. One technique is to tense your whole body and then let go.
2. TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE DOING TO FALL ASLEEP, STAY ASLEEP UNTIL I’M READY TO WAKE UP (unless there is danger or someone calls me)
3. Relax your jaw and your eyelids
4. Visualize a very relaxing scene, such as a lake with glass-like water, a beautiful landscape, the ocean on a calm day, a time when you were in nature and fell asleep. Use submodalities to adjust the color and movement, even the location. Experiment to see what causes your body to relax the most.
5. Counting seems to be popular. Here are some examples:
1, 2, 3, 4 – 2, 2, 3, 4 – 3, 2, 3, 4 and so on. Very monotonous but you have to think about it to keep track. Count backwards from 100. Also, see the numbers as you count.

6. Slow your breathing – you mentioned this last month.
7. See the word deeper and overwrite it over and over.
8. Some people like very cool to cold air temperatures. Sleep studies often have a person sleeping in 55-degree temps.

3. NLP techniques to help you: submodalities, mental lockers, change internal dialog, 6-step reframe, circle of excellence. Change your mental channel like a TV channel.

4. Recap the pattern:

1. Develop a routine that excludes screen time, lights, TV, alcohol, and heavy foods but includes, low light, relaxation, and feeling comfortable. The Circle of Excellence.
2. TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE DOING TO FALL ASLEEP, STAY ASLEEP UNTIL I’M READY TO WAKE UP (unless there is danger or someone calls me)
3. Use a counting technique or the lockers and/or adjust submodalities
4. Make sure your body is relaxed.
5. Slow your breathing and make it slightly deeper.
6. Fall asleep. Ta-da! And you will. Before you know it you are waking up in the morning!

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1. What is TimeLine?

A Timeline is a visual, linear experience of how someone codes and stores time. In NLP timeline is a term used to describe how we internally represent time. We internally represent the past, present, and future differently. The concept was originally laid out in the TimeLine Therapy and the Basis of Personality by Tad James and Wyatt Woodsmall. It was a project given to them by Richard Bandler. Timeline can be used to create goal representations as well as heal past traumas.

2. How can TL be used to establish goals and make them more real and likely to be achieved?

Since the timeline is a visual linear representation of time, putting pictures of goals on the TL can create spatial representations of what and when something might happen.

3. Before using TL for goals establish clear goals and outcomes.

Remember that goal setting and reaching is a process. It is more complex than just creating an image inside your head and saying this is what I want.

The first step is to verbalize your goal in active language (versus passive language). E.g. Make $100,000 in revenue by Dec. 31, 2025. As compared to I want to be able to make .... Or I want to be better at sales. (This is not specific and uses a comparative deletion “better” which makes it difficult for the brain to figure out exactly what you mean.)

Make the statement crisp and clean

Establish what you want using the NLP outcome frame. This helps define details, set a direction, specify contexts, handle ecology, and create a sensory-based representation using all three primary senses. Answer all of the questions in the outcome frame.

Now you are ready to create a timeline representation of the goal.

4. What is the specific process?

Remember that goals usually have action steps. Divide the goal into 3 action steps with time frames. Now you are ready to place on the timeline. This process works best if you walk the timeline and use spatial anchors.

Future pacing:

What is the overall time frame for accomplishing this outcome or goal?

Select a concrete goal or project to be accomplished in 12 months; create 3-time chunks between the present and the achievement. Now use the time line to place pictures in sequence. Notice the difference in your feeling of achieving the goal.

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In this episode, we discuss the NLP presuppositions that revolve around behavior. NLP presuppositions are assumed truths if NLP itself is to be a working model. The NLP presuppositions are powerfull and effective words to live by. Listen in to learn more about the behavioral-based presuppositions defined by NLP.

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In this episode, we address the question of why don't people change. While there are many different reasons people refrain from change, there are some universal characteristics. We discuss the motivations behind avoiding change and the nature of change itself.

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