Paul N' Mary Podcast (PnMPodcast.com)

Joey B. and Ondray Pearson are YouTubers and business owners. Ondray's company, ODP Media Group, provides business services and has a sister company called Why Does Love Hurt So Good. On Why Does Love Hurt So Good, Ondray offers relationship coaching and different views on love and relationships. The second edition of Ondray's book is currently on the market.

The speaker talks about how the title of his book, Why Does Love Hurt So Good?, came about. He explains that people are always looking for love, even though it often hurts them. He says that people should choose their partner based on purpose, rather than preference.

The speaker explains that often times, people pick their partner based off of preference rather than purpose. They may be drawn to someone based on their looks or the way they make them feel, but this does not guarantee that the relationship will be a happy and healthy one. The speaker suggests that it is better to find a partner whose qualities complement your own, rather than someone who is exactly like you. This way, you can have a more balanced and interesting relationship.

The conversation discuss the difficulties men have in admitting that they need help from others. The speaker notes that women will often ask men questions that they already have the answer to, in an effort to confirm their suspicions. However, men are more likely to lie in these situations because they see no benefit in telling the truth. The speaker tries to open up the horizons for women by explaining men's perspective.