Building strong Relationships through Transparent Conversations with Jessica Trapp
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07/17/24 • 54 min
Dom L'Amour speaks with friend of the show Jessica Trapp AKA (@trappedinhealth) about Communicating about sex, communicating about money and so much more.
How often do you talk about sex and money with your partner? On this powerful episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast, we break the silence on these crucial, yet often avoided, topics in relationships. Dom L'Amour kicks off the conversation by underscoring how financial instability can severely impact mental health and stressing the importance of sharing financial worries with your significant other. We are honored to have Jessica Trapp join us, bringing her unique perspective from a household where sex and money were openly discussed. Jessica passionately advocates for women to feel empowered in discussions about their finances and bodies, and together we emphasize the need for transparency and cooperation to build a healthy partnership.
Are societal pressures making honest conversations about sex and finances more difficult? Reflecting on our conservative upbringings, we unpack the stigma and misinformation that often prevent open dialogue on these subjects. From debunking pervasive myths about financial success to navigating the complex terrain of sexual boundaries and desires, we share personal stories that highlight the vital role of honest communication. We discuss the damaging effects of early exposure to sex through media, the inadequacies of sex education, and the misconceptions that arise from these gaps, stressing the necessity of mutual respect and open conversations in intimate relationships.
How do different backgrounds shape our financial perceptions and communication styles? Wrapping up, we delve into the intricacies of managing finances within relationships. We explore the impact of upbringing on our views of money, share personal experiences of navigating financial hardships, and reflect on the frustrations of being undervalued in professional settings. This episode is packed with heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice, underscoring the importance of continuous dialogue and understanding in strengthening relationships. We conclude with a heartfelt thank you to our listeners, a shout-out to Jessica’s podcast "Sex and Money with Jess" and an invitation to join us in continuing these essential conversations.
Follow Jess at her website:
www.lovealwaysjess.com
Opening quote: Michelle Singletary
Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour
Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys
and
from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team
Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99
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Dom L'Amour speaks with friend of the show Jessica Trapp AKA (@trappedinhealth) about Communicating about sex, communicating about money and so much more.
How often do you talk about sex and money with your partner? On this powerful episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast, we break the silence on these crucial, yet often avoided, topics in relationships. Dom L'Amour kicks off the conversation by underscoring how financial instability can severely impact mental health and stressing the importance of sharing financial worries with your significant other. We are honored to have Jessica Trapp join us, bringing her unique perspective from a household where sex and money were openly discussed. Jessica passionately advocates for women to feel empowered in discussions about their finances and bodies, and together we emphasize the need for transparency and cooperation to build a healthy partnership.
Are societal pressures making honest conversations about sex and finances more difficult? Reflecting on our conservative upbringings, we unpack the stigma and misinformation that often prevent open dialogue on these subjects. From debunking pervasive myths about financial success to navigating the complex terrain of sexual boundaries and desires, we share personal stories that highlight the vital role of honest communication. We discuss the damaging effects of early exposure to sex through media, the inadequacies of sex education, and the misconceptions that arise from these gaps, stressing the necessity of mutual respect and open conversations in intimate relationships.
How do different backgrounds shape our financial perceptions and communication styles? Wrapping up, we delve into the intricacies of managing finances within relationships. We explore the impact of upbringing on our views of money, share personal experiences of navigating financial hardships, and reflect on the frustrations of being undervalued in professional settings. This episode is packed with heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice, underscoring the importance of continuous dialogue and understanding in strengthening relationships. We conclude with a heartfelt thank you to our listeners, a shout-out to Jessica’s podcast "Sex and Money with Jess" and an invitation to join us in continuing these essential conversations.
Follow Jess at her website:
www.lovealwaysjess.com
Opening quote: Michelle Singletary
Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour
Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys
and
from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team
Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99
Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at
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Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour
Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys
and
from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team
Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99
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Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour
Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys
and
from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team
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Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99
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"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour - Building strong Relationships through Transparent Conversations with Jessica Trapp
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When your finances aren't in order .
Speaker 1It can create so much stress in the body
Speaker 1and if you don't talk about it because of shame , fear , whatever feeling you're having it just creates and wreaks havoc on the entire body and it's scary and I never want to return to that feeling anymore . So
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