20: Ang Teacher Na Nagbenta Ng Aliw

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08/17/21 • 58 min

Aka "Confessions of an Ex-Sex Worker". Shempre, MATURE CONTENT WARNING, mga Bes!
Teacher Tim has a past he's not ashamed to talk about. After all, it's led him to and helped him with his current career as a proud sex educator. Listen as he talks candidly about his journey from being an Ateneo grade schooler to accidentally landing an escort job while working in retail to being an advocate for the LGBTQIA community in Toronto.
Exciting talaga ang kiki - from talking about his childhood dream to growing up in a conservative Filipino family eventually immigrating to Canada, to his not-so-accidental foray into (gasp!) escorting.
Anu-ano ang mga misconceptions natin sa trabaho ng isang sex worker? Saan siya kumukuha ng clients niya lalo na when he went solo? Anong klaseng serbisyo ang ino-offer niya sa mga parokyano niya? Kamusta ang kita sa ganitong trabaho? How did he protect himself while he was escorting? At ano ang nagbunsod sa kanya na mag-shift careers from sex worker to legitimate sex educator?
(Uyyy. Yung nagbabasa nito may balak yata mag- change careers! Aminin!)
Pakinggan natin ang bago nating Bessie na si Tim Lagman, host of his own podcast Sex Ed with Tim, habang kinukwento niya ang kanyang nakaraan sa pagbebenta ng aliw and his inspiring career-change story.
"I'm an open book with open legs!", sabi ni Teacher Tim.
Aber, makilatis nga!
Listen to Tim's podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-ed-with-tim/

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19: Sex and Pinoy Culture

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MATURE CONTENT WARNING.
Bessie Frances G, a Canada-based certified Love, Sex, and Relationship coach, kikis about her personal journey with her own sexuality. Having spent most of her life in the Philippines, she breaks down the intricacies of growing up in our largely restrictive Pinoy culture from a female perspective, its effects on Filipinos' views on sex and sexuality, and how this impacts other aspects of our over-all health, relationships, and humanity.

As a trauma-informed coach specializing in women empowerment and relationship transformation, our kiki runs the gamut of topics from feeling her own Catholic guilt about masturbation, being clueless on what was happening the first time she had sex, appreciating how the powers of consent and genuine connection spice up any sexual encounter, to highlighting what cis men and women can learn from LGBT people when it comes to sex.
Frances is the host of her own podcast Liberating Me with Frances G.

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21: Gay Politician Kap Bingo - LGBTQ+ Profiles

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We are proud to feature prominent LGBTQ+ people and profile their stories on this series!
Bilang buena mano, we present to you Jerico Goldmar Ebabacol, more popularly known among his constituents as Kap Bingo! He serves as Captain to Baranggay 17 in the City of Golden Friendship, Cagayan de Oro City in the southern island of Mindanao, Philippines.
Kap Bingo takes us back to his childhood as a young queer boy and his struggles with his gender identity growing up. From the start, fabulous na talaga ang story nya! He talks about his foray into the world of politics at the tender young age of 15 at ang mga pinagdaanan niya sa larangan ng pulitika bilang isang out-and-proud queer person. Open si Kap na nakipagchika about his advocacies, frustrations and pet peeves with the LGBTQ community. At what about his future plans in politics? Future representative in congress or in the senate? Aba, why not?!
Plus, may exclusive kiki si Kap about being a - teka, tama ba ito - a runaway bride? Alamin! Game na game din niyang sinagot ang ilang naughty rapid-fire questions! Sino kaya sa mga bessies natin ang nahulog sa upuan dahil hindi kinaya ang kanyang mga sagot?
And also, this is our first project where we speak mostly in Visayan/Cebuano (and survived)!
Don't worry, magbabalik pa rin ang ating Usapang+Sex Series.
Pero for now, let members of our proud community take the spotlight in our LGBTQ+ Profiles Series! Represent, mga bessies!