Motherhood and Survival: Tori Whitaker's Courageous Escape Journey

04/08/25 • 38 min

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In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, host Amy Stone sits down with guest Tori Whitaker to talk about her challenging journey of leaving an abusive relationship and finding strength in her new life. Together, they explore the intricacies of domestic violence, the path to safety, and the empowering transformation from survival to thriving. Tori shares her personal experiences and insights, offering listeners valuable perspectives on resilience and self-discovery.

Tori Whitaker is a strong advocate for empowering women, drawing from her own experiences to offer support and guidance. As a self-described mompreneur, she has grown a business that focuses on mindset, nutrition, and fitness, helping other women navigate the complexities of motherhood and personal growth after facing challenges.

Main Topics Covered:

Tori's journey of leaving an abusive marriage
The process of transitioning from survival mode to a thriving life
Challenges faced in finding support and safety
The role of therapy, particularly EMDR, in healing from trauma
Empowering women to balance motherhood with personal identity and wellness

Quote from the Episode: "I can turn my trauma into my superpower. I can empathize, I can relate. But I can also showcase instead of just telling, telling, telling, like I'm living it." - Tori Whitaker

Timestamps:

Introduction and Tori's background [00:00:03 - 00:07:09]
Discussion on domestic violence and Tori's experience [00:07:09 - 00:17:44]
Transition to a thriving life and current endeavors [00:20:22 - 00:27:55]
Closing segment and Tori's offer for the audience [00:27:55 - 00:34:56]

Listeners can find more about Tori Whitaker and her work by visiting her website at BeBetterAfterBaby.com and following her on Instagram.

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Main Topics Covered:

Tori's journey of leaving an abusive marriage
The process of transitioning from survival mode to a thriving life
Challenges faced in finding support and safety
The role of therapy, particularly EMDR, in healing from trauma
Empowering women to balance motherhood with personal identity and wellness

Timestamps:

Introduction and Tori's background [00:00:03 - 00:07:09]
Discussion on domestic violence and Tori's experience [00:07:09 - 00:17:44]
Transition to a thriving life and current endeavors [00:20:22 - 00:27:55]
Closing segment and Tori's offer for the audience [00:27:55 - 00:34:56]

Listeners can find more about Tori Whitaker and her work by visiting her website at BeBetterAfterBaby.com and following her on Instagram.

Be sure to join the Imperfect Adulting email community and get information about new episodes and special offers delivered straight to your email. Sign up at https://www.imperfectadulting.com

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From Empath to Empowered: Maggie's Path to Self-Discovery and Acceptance

In this episode of "The Art of Imperfect Adulting," host Amy Stone welcomes Maggie, a guest who shares her personal journey of setting boundaries and going no contact with certain family members. Maggie reveals the challenges and growth experienced during this transformative period in her life, emphasizing the importance of self-love and independence as she moves forward.

Maggie is an advocate for self-transformation and healing, specializing in helping individuals transition from negativity to living their best lives. As the founder of Maggie's Soul, she offers life coaching, energy healing, and provides support for those seeking to heal from narcissistic abuse and pursue their own path of self-discovery.

Main Topics Covered:

Maggie's background and life outside of work: living in Denver, Colorado, love for performing arts, and her relationship with her roommate's dog, Olive.
Family dynamics and Maggie's childhood experiences as an empath in a challenging family environment.
The decision to set firm boundaries and go no contact, the challenges faced, and the transformation that followed.
The positive outcomes of going no contact: increased self-love, strength, and independence.
Maggie's business, Maggie's Soul, and how it aims to help individuals heal and thrive.

Quote from the Episode: "I think I felt now that I can really burst open and be the light and love that I am and be myself without constantly worrying about being bashed for it."

Timestamps:

00:00:04 - Amy welcomes Maggie and begins the interview
00:01:18 - Maggie talks about her life outside of work
00:02:25 - Discussion on family life as a child and dynamics
00:07:11 - Defining boundaries and going no contact
00:09:14 - Issues that led to the decision
00:13:53 - Context and research on family estrangement
00:23:05 - Positive changes and self-love post-contact
00:25:52 - Maggie shares her current work and business

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The Art of Letting Go: Mallory Kiersten Leaves Academia for Coaching

In this episode, guest Mallory Kiersten joins host Amy Stone to discuss her unconventional journey from a middle school teacher to a self-love coach. Mallory shares insights into her choice to step away from teaching, the impact of school administration on educators, and her pursuit of creative independence through coaching and writing. The discussion explores embracing life changes, self-acceptance, and crafting a fulfilling career path.

Mallory Kiersten is a self-love coach who integrates mystical aspects into her practice. She evolved her career from being a middle school teacher to discovering her passion for helping individuals find self-acceptance and emotional clarity through coaching.

Main Topics Covered:

Mallory’s background and decision to leave her teaching profession
The role and impact of school administration on teachers' experiences
The path to discovering her passion for coaching and writing
Embracing change and self-love as pivotal elements in careers and life

Quote from the Episode:

"I was hoping to create a business of my own somehow. I was working with a coach at the time." - Mallory Kiersten

Timestamps:

[00:00:03] Introduction and Welcome
[00:00:51] Mallory's Personal Background
[00:04:25] Journey to Becoming a Teacher
[00:20:51] Realizing a Change Was Needed
[00:28:14] Transition into Coaching and Entrepreneurship
[00:33:04] Current Role as a Self-Love Coach
[00:36:05] Rapid Fire Questions and Closing

You can connect directly with Mallory Kiersten at www.mallorykiersten.com and She has a special offering for the audience https://www.mallorykiersten.com/erotic-blueprint-breakthrough

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